subscribe to me

Wear a Sexy Button:

Become a Fan:


Support Your Shay:

Sexis - a provocative sex magazine at

Sex toys - EdenFantasys adult toys store

Sex Toys and Vibrator Reviews at VibeReview

Adam & Eve Adult Sex Toys

Read the Review

Over 2000 adult and other products from Japan -- click now!

Hi, I'm Shay.

Welcome to The S Spot!

This is a positive space where I talk about sex/sexuality, publish my toy reviews/guides, and post some pretty sexy images and videos. ^_^

I also answer reader questions - so feel free to send me a message and ask me anything. (Check my archives to see what other people have asked too, maybe someone had the same problem you did!)

I've been writing for a while, so go ahead and explore my site - I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for, and if not, let me know!

E-mail your comments / suggestions / questions to:

[It is understood that all subjects in CBW photos must be of at least 18 years of age and photos are submitted with consent. The S Spot is not responsible for the irresponsibility of others.

All questions/ comments/ suggestions/photos, once received by Shay, become her property and may or may not be published at her discretion.]

All written material is copywright of Shay ©2004-2009 (unless otherwise specified) and may not be used without express permission.



Site search









follow ShaySpot at

Random Posts

Linked With:

Add to Technorati Favorites ______________________

Shay Lovers:


Unless otherwise specified, images are copywrite to the individual owners. Any misuse is unintentional and images will be removed upon request.

Archive for 'DIY'

Shay’s Special Film Friday (so special it’s not even on a Friday!)

I’ve decided to dip my toe into the word of video blogging, my dear readers.
And you are going to be my first test audience!
Are you honoured?
Oh good, maybe that’ll help convince you to go easy on me with the critiquing.
And so, without further ado, I present to you my video debut on the internets!

So what [...]

Love The Earth and Yourself

Tomorrow is Earth Day.
It’s a day to raise awareness about how we can all do our part (even in small ways) to help preserve our planet and live healthier every day.
This past weekend I once again participated in the CN Tower Climb to raise money for WWF’s initiative against climate change. It was [...]

Anal With Household Items

On Monday we talked about a young man who wanted to experiment with anal stimulation, but foolishly made a very bad choice when he was looking around his house for something to put up his bottom.
I believe we have now established that putting smallish objects inside your bum is a bad idea; even something like [...]

Oral Gratification – A Do It Yourself Guide

I often get e-mails from guys wanting tips for leaning how to suck themselves off, but being able to do it really depends on three things: how long your cock is, how flexible you are, and how patient you can be.
First of all, how long you are is going to have an effect on how [...]

Homemade Porn can be The Best Porn

This is an updated version of a very old post; this was recently published in the paper I write for and Fleshbot actually ended up featuring it, which was kinda cool but also kinda weird.
Summer vacation is coming up (or already here) for those of my readers who are university students. Many of you [...]

Have a Sexy Earth Day

There are plenty of sexy ways for us to preserve our planet
* For those of us who use battery powered vibes, we can recycle our batteries when they dieoreven better, we can use rechargeable batteries.
* Instead of just throwing toys away when they break, why not try to repair them yourself?or/andcheck out my guide [...]

PUMPkin Carving – Not Just For Kids!

I love pumpkins! I love how they look, all orange and round and happy. I love how they taste; delicious pumpkin pie and crunchy roasted pumpkin seeds are the best in October. And, most importantly, I love carving pumpkins.
But, as I sliced through the pumpkin flesh and pulled out the gooey insides in preparation for [...]

Reader Questions Answered

Have you been longing to view a collection of my answers to reader questions?Well your wait is finally over!
Here is a catalogue (which will be kept updated) of my posts answering reader questions.Enjoy! ^_^
Genital Topiary (men)Ouch Not So Hard!Using Vibes While PregnantGet Hard(er)?What to do about wanting to Suck CockThreesomes and InfidelityCondom ConversationMaking The Move“Average” [...]

Reader Question – How do YOU Masturbate?

“Shay, is masturbating 3 times a week ok? I am a male in my late 30’s and setup three days for masturbating. I do it in the shower. How many days of the week do you masturbate? Would you describe in detail how you do it?”

Well, masturbating three times a week sounds pretty healthy to [...]

Reader Question – Homemade Sex Toys

Okay, so it’s not a question that was directly asked to me, but it was passed on to me by Pornster (excellent teamwork, eh?) – it’s technically a reader question, just not necessarily from one of my readers (though it could be!)
“Hey I have a question for you… What are some items that I [...]