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Archive for 'condoms'

Shay’s Special Film Friday (so special it’s not even on a Friday!)

I’ve decided to dip my toe into the word of video blogging, my dear readers.
And you are going to be my first test audience!
Are you honoured?
Oh good, maybe that’ll help convince you to go easy on me with the critiquing.
And so, without further ado, I present to you my video debut on the internets!

So what [...]

Talking about Sex

A good friend of mine started a fantastic website not too long ago.
The purpose of this website is to create an online resource – a collection, if you will, of stories of people’s experiences learning and/or teaching others about sex and sexuality.
The site is called Beyond the Birds and the Bees.
In fact, I have yet [...]

Being Safe? Oh It’s Worth It

“Hi Shay. Me and my girlfriend want to have sex soon but I realised getting a condom would be a bit of a challenge. How do most people my age, 18, get them? I dont really want to go into the supermarket and buy a pack like that, its a bit embarassing. Thanks“
I’m sorry, there [...]

Condoms: get it ON

Well, everyone knows that pink condoms are total nymphos ^_~

I think my fave part might be when the green one is smacking the pink one’s bum
tee hee
(srsly though, stay safe out there on your sexual adventures my sweet readers)

Lay-tex Condom(e) – I’d like to live in one of those!

“I am newly experienced and cannot quite bring myself to ask my girlfriend (she is more experienced than I am) the following questions. Can a girl tell the difference when her guy is/is not wearing a condom? Does it make a difference to her? Can she tell a difference when he cums and is/is not [...]

Reader Question – Fingerprints of Sperm

“Before I make a fool of myself I’d like to congratulate you on having a very exciting and insightful blog. I have a sexual question: A while ago I had quite a romp and by our fourth go at it, I was quite drained; I had no problem keeping it up, but was [...]

Reader Question – Condom Conundrum

“I have a quick sex-related question. *Gasp!* My boyfriend is allergic to latex, so we’re looking at outside options: polyurethane and animal-skin condoms, and female condoms. I haven’t had any experience with female condoms; is there a big difference in effectiveness or pleasure between female and male condoms? Price is also an issue, which latex-alternative [...]

Reader Question – Condoms and Pregnancy and Sperm: Oh My!

“Ok so I recently had unprotected sex about a half hour or so after I had masturbated in the shower. Before sex I tried to put a spermicidically lubricated condom on, but while taking the time away from getting head to put it on I could not stay erect. Then I went back to getting [...]

Film Fridays 51 – Runaway Penis

Be prepared, because you never know!^_~
Guys, what would you do?Actually, what would any of you do if you saw a runaway penis on the street!?haha
porn, video, sex, film Fridays,safe sex, condoms

Reader Questions Answered

Have you been longing to view a collection of my answers to reader questions?Well your wait is finally over!
Here is a catalogue (which will be kept updated) of my posts answering reader questions.Enjoy! ^_^
Genital Topiary (men)Ouch Not So Hard!Using Vibes While PregnantGet Hard(er)?What to do about wanting to Suck CockThreesomes and InfidelityCondom ConversationMaking The Move“Average” [...]