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Archive for 'sex'

Antidepressants and Sex

“Hey Shay!
There’s a girl who I like, and who likes me (what can I say, the hard part is already over) and we would be sexual, except she takes an antidepressant which has eliminated her sexual response. While I know ultimately her switching medicines is the solution, I wanted to know does this generally [...]

Steps Towards Enjoying Sex

“Hi  I’ve been reading your blog for a while now.  I know you can give me some advice for a problem of mine. My boyfriend and i are very close and we love each other madly, we’ve been having sex for over a year now, the problem is, i haven’t been able to get an [...]

Quick Answers

“Hi Shay! My boyfriend and I are having a problem while having sex. He’s my first, and I’m still a virgin. We DID have sex…well not exactly, we did anal and such, but when he tries to enter his penis in, his “hardness” went away. ALSO, im a small petite girl, and of course, im [...]

You Don’t HAVE to be a Marathon Man

“I was wondering if you know of any way that a guy can train himself to last longer during sex without cumming. I know it’s a strange question but I’d really like to increase my performance time.“
A lot of guys worry about how long they can last during sex, and that’s no real surprise - [...]

After Anal

“I haven’t had anal sex in a long time, that is until last night. My previous experiences weren’t terribly successful (he only got a little way in and not a lot of movement) but this time, there was a lot of movement and pleasure - it was fantastic! My issue is that today, I’ve been [...]

Tips for Pleasing a Vag

“Hello Shay I’ve been reading your post for a little while, and have have a question to ask. My girlfriend and I have moved forward in our relationship, but I don’t want to go all the way and she respects that, so we have looked to alternatives, and we have done some “digit” play and [...]

Yet Another Reason Why Stereotypes are Bad

“hi shay, Do all men have high libido’s and what is a normal level for a man?
I’m asking because my husband doesn’t seem to want to have sex as much as me and when i ask him if he wants to have sex he almost always says no which is a shocker to me cuz [...]

What If I Don’t Want to be the Sex DD?!

This past weekend, I got together with some friends for a movie night.  One friend insisted that we watch 100 Girls, because he hadn’t seen it in years but remembered it being very funny - so we watched it.
It was a fairly funny movie - as long as you don’t think too much about all [...]

Positional Worries

So many of my readers seem to worry about sex positions (esp girl on top), but really it’s nothing to get flustered about:
Hi Shay, My boyfriend and I have just recently started getting.. intimate. He was my first, and we aren’t particularly experienced. We’ve been talking about trying different things, like positions, but we don’t [...]

For the Record Porn Does NOT = Reality

“I really like you’re blog and I’m a frequent reader.  Well, to the point, I’m a virgin but I don’t want to be with a woman and finish before she has had her share of the fun. When masturbating, it seems that I last less then anything I’ve seen on the net, compared to them [...]