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Archive for June, 2009

Shay’s First Toy

I’ve been reviewing toys here at The S Spot for a while now, but I don’t think I’ve ever told you about my very first sex toy ever!  Thank goodness one of you thought to ask. ^_~
When I first left home to go to university, I was super excited because when I was living in [...]

The Point is Pleasure, not Pain

“My girlfriend get really apprehensive when I try to go down on her. She says its too much for her to handle. I am no doctor, but I am guessing that her clit is just ultra sensitive or something. Any tips you could give me on how to get her to be more open to [...]

Did you hear that Babeland is running a sale in honour of Pride?
Check it out by clicking the image above
Remember to use discount code PRIDE09 when you checkout!

Toy Review – Twisted Crank

I’ve wanted to try out a glass juicer (aka crank) for years – years!  Ever since I saw them on some late night television show when I was a teen, I’ve been curious about how a glass toy might feel and what that cranking motion would feel like.  So when my friends at RubyGlass21 contacted [...]

Happy Pride!

June is Gay (or LGBTTQQA*) Pride Month
and the whole city of Toronto is gearing up for this weekend’s HUGE pride celebrations!
(You can even follow the updates on Twitter!)I checked it out last year and it was INSANE!
MILLIONS of people showed up for the Pride Parade.
Church street was shut off to traffic and was teeming with [...]

CockBlogging Wednesday 150

This week’s pic doesn’t really need censoring – he’s mostly swallowed up by his Fleshlight, naughty boy!


Herpes “Scare”

“I feel a little silly asking this because I usually freak out over nothing…but the other day I just saw a commercial for herpes and then I shared a water bottle with this girl I know and I thought to myself is it possible to get that from sharing water bottles…seeing as I’m paranoid after [...]

Talking about Sex

A good friend of mine started a fantastic website not too long ago.
The purpose of this website is to create an online resource – a collection, if you will, of stories of people’s experiences learning and/or teaching others about sex and sexuality.
The site is called Beyond the Birds and the Bees.
In fact, I have yet [...]

Product Review – Crazy Girl Wipes

At first I wasn’t sure I liked the idea of the Crazy Girl femme fresh wipes that my friends at Classic Erotica sent me; I’ve always believed that vaginas should smell like vaginas and that not much cleaning is required to have them ready for sex.  But then I thought about it a little more; [...]


Hey there my sweet readers!
I’ve been touring the internets and some of my readings got me thinking,
what do YOU like to do after sex?

Personally, if I can, I like to have a little snooze – even better if I don’t even have to move after we finish and can just relax for 20 mins or [...]