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Hey there my sweet readers!
I’ve been touring the internets and some of my readings got me thinking,
what do YOU like to do after sex?


Personally, if I can, I like to have a little snooze – even better if I don’t even have to move after we finish and can just relax for 20 mins or so.

But what about YOU, what do you like to do?

Do you look for something to eat?
Do you need a drink of water after all that screaming?
Do you spoon?
Do you get up and pee?
Do you get back to work?
Do you roll over and go to sleep?
Do you clean up?
Do you sit/lay around and talk?

Tell me!!

Because we’re all pervs here and I want to know.

[I'm all running a poll over at EF!]


Comment from G
Time June 18, 2009 at 6:21 pm

After sex, I like to have sex again.

Comment from Adriana
Time June 18, 2009 at 10:05 pm

I enjoyed cuddles but I have to clean up/pee first

Comment from Mr. C
Time June 18, 2009 at 10:22 pm

I steal a pair of panties for my collection, and sneak out the window.

Comment from Eric
Time June 19, 2009 at 12:32 am

I love moving into the her on top position while staying inside her, and we both go to sleep. I never go soft, and we can start right up again when we wake up :D plus it’s just so luxurious to get to snooze so close to one another.

Comment from Sheppardde
Time June 19, 2009 at 2:39 am

It’s been awhile since I had any post sex experience, but I always liked to do a bit of clean up/pee and then cuddle/sleep for awhile. Then lather, rinse, and repeat.

Comment from Prospero
Time June 19, 2009 at 12:14 pm

We’re into this odd gender reversal thing. If we’ve done it right, then she’s exhausted and just wants to clean up, pee, and go to sleep while there’s still a glow. At that point, what I do is immaterial. Which is good, since I’m a nightowl and the sex gets me revved, so I get up and go do things.

Comment from Shay
Time June 19, 2009 at 1:55 pm

G – lol that’s cheating on answering the question!

Adriana – hmm I guess that makes sense, but doesn’t getting up ruin the cuddles a little bit?

Mr C – sneaky sneaky!

Eric – Like Never EVER? You should see a doctor about that ^_~

Sheppardde – lol

Prospero – haha So it works out for both of you, perfect! ^_^

Comment from Morning-Wood
Time June 19, 2009 at 4:12 pm

I come post a comment on The S Spot

Comment from Hugo
Time June 19, 2009 at 5:35 pm

usually after sex, is remove of condom, cleaning and pee. After, get cuddly and usually sleep

Comment from Moondai
Time June 19, 2009 at 9:43 pm

On the rare chance I ever get laid I tend to get cleaned up and get back to work. My husband isn’t into cuddling anyway

Comment from Mihal Aviri
Time June 19, 2009 at 10:12 pm

Just lay there, after a bit (considering everything went right and is well in a good way) fall asleep after her. I wake up quick so I might considering it would be at her place maybe make her something to eat. Depends on the girl if I stay til she gets up.

Comment from Matt Murdock
Time June 20, 2009 at 4:43 am

I like to lie on her and just stay in her for a while is is so sensual to be in her after I cum, and just let out bodies relax together

Comment from Seraph
Time June 20, 2009 at 12:28 pm

It varies. A lot.

Most often, we get up, clean up and pee before returning to bed (my wife hates the drippy feeling, and she doesn’t like getting stuff on the sheets) and cuddling – well, stroking each other at arm’s length. Usually too warm to properly cuddle. Then she takes a nap and I go do something else. Sex exhausts her, but energizes me.

Also yes – very much need a drink of water. Not so much because of the screaming as because of the workout.

There are variations – sometimes the cleaning stage or the stroking stage leads to more sex (shared showers! Yay!). Sometimes we both nap, which may or may not lead to more sex later (but definitely leads to cuddling once we cool down a bit).

And then there are the rare and happy occasions when we find that we aren’t as finished as we thought. This is always when she’s on top. She’s a rather small person, and having me on top of her once the sex-endorphins have receded restricts her breathing. She has a tendency to collapse forward afterward if I’m behind her, and since staying in her would mean falling on top of her – well, see above.

But sometimes, just sometimes, she’s on top, we’re lying together, I’m still inside her, I shift, she gasps, she starts to move again, I don’t stay soft for long, and we’re off to the races.

Comment from Gadfly
Time June 20, 2009 at 1:20 pm

Call me a bitch … but I tend to talk *chuckle*

Comment from Dee
Time June 20, 2009 at 1:22 pm

definitely cuddle after….kissing and sometimes even more sex….

Comment from Tiagra
Time June 20, 2009 at 5:11 pm

A really difficult question. All depends on the “kind” of sex. It’s it’s a quickie then the “clean up” tends to be more speedy too.

But I guess my fav is to just lie there together and wallow in the afterglow of each other.

Comment from Regin
Time June 21, 2009 at 5:28 pm

G took my answer.

Napping is what usually happens. And that will do.

Comment from Milky
Time June 28, 2009 at 8:00 pm

I usually desperately need water, and to pee. Then, I want to cuddle and nap.

Comment from Julien
Time June 29, 2009 at 2:50 am

I guess Gadfly and I are the odd ones out here… I find that post sex is the perfect time to think deep thoughts and remember things long forgotten. There’s something about afterglow that makes my mind crystal clear.

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