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Exes in the Spank Bank

A week or two ago I was talking (via Twitter) about how I know that at least one of my exes still keeps me (and some photos of me) in his “spank bank”.
What’s a spank bank?
It’s the area in a person’s mind (and/or computer) where they store sexy stuff (ideas, images, conversations) expressly for the [...]


Hey there my sweet readers!
I’ve been touring the internets and some of my readings got me thinking,
what do YOU like to do after sex?

Personally, if I can, I like to have a little snooze – even better if I don’t even have to move after we finish and can just relax for 20 mins or [...]

Tweets About Cybering

My post answering a reader’s question about CyberSex on Tuesday sparked an interesting convo on Twitter and I thought I’d share it with the rest of you. ^_^
[The players: Me, BadInfluenceGirl, PycheDiver, and DocStrange]
Shay: I think my lack of interest in cybering now comes from too many bad sessions in the past. I don’t like [...]

You Can Have Manners Without Forsaking Your Sexuality

I have a confession to make tonight my sweet readers.
I am a fan of what I will acknowledge as some pretty… um… what’s the word…. is it trashy? no no, surely not… well, at least some “interesting” MTV reality shows.  Of course I’ve seen all three Shots at Love,  but right now I’m following From [...]

Yes, Women Can Enjoy Facials

Okay, I’ll admit it, I’ve been bad -
instead of updating the site like a good little sex blogger, I’ve been off skiing and playing too much RockBand2 with my family, but since everyone is taking a break to watch some food network, I was able to sneak away and do a little posting!
We’ve talked about [...]

Love Our Lurkers Day

A very happy, if slightly late, LOL day to all my sweet readers.
Although very few of your chose to comment, I know that you, my lurkers, are out there: reading my words, thinking your thoughts, and shyly keeping them to yourselves.
But that’s okay, because today is YOUR day!
In Bonnie’s words:
I would like to invite you [...]

Man Pubes – a discussion

One of our lovely CBW participants asked very nicely if I would put forward a question for my readers’ consideration.  How could I say no? – he’d already shown us his bits!
It’s a fairly simple question:
Do ladies prefer their man’s cock to be shaved completely clean, given a little trim, or left wild?
Also – what [...]

Blow, Blew, Blowing

I was chatting with a good friend of mine about Monday’s post (the one about the guy who can’t cum and it turns out it’s because people keep walking in on him).
My friend felt that it really can’t be called a “blowjob” if he doesn’t cum at the end of it, because it’s just not [...]


From the Onion
Sure, I can tell the robots from the neighborhood, “Hey, don’t finger my wife!” and, under the Second Law Of Robotics, they’d have to comply. But what about the thousands of robots I’ve never met? The moment my back is turned, odds are my wife’s going to get robo-fingered. It doesn’t matter if [...]

Quick Question

A happy long-weekend Monday to you!
I’m busy having fun outside, swimming in pools, applying sunscreen, wearing cute outfits, and drinking cute chilled drinks – but I thought I’d take a moment to ask you a question that I’ve been meaning to bring up for a while.
Over the past few years that I’ve been running this [...]