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Archive for March, 2009

The weather is getting warmer and that makes everyone more excited – including Liberator!
All this week you can use the special promo code: SPRING
to get a 15% discount on all products (even on top of other promotions)!


“Hi Shay
Was just wondering your views on cybersex. Do you like it? Do you think its good or bad? Have you tried it etc
Hmmm my views on cybersex, that’s kind of an odd question.
I guess cybering is something I was really into when I was younger (like, in high school) – it was much more [...]

Toy Review – Ideal

I think the reason why it’s creators picked this name is because during the design meeting someone brought out their Hitachi Magic Wand (or HMW) and said “this is good, but you know what would be ideal?” and the rest is history.
Seriously though, I was actually reluctant to try out this vibe at first because [...]

Penis Research Update

What kind of a webmistress would I be if I didn’t keep you up to date on the latest peen news?!  A busy one?  Well yes… but hush!  I have interesting tidings about wangs.
A study was recently published finding that men who have been circumcised have a decreased risk of catching icky things like HIV, [...]

CockBlogging Wednesday 139

If you follow my twitter feed, you’ve probably noticed me whining about being sick over the past day or so.
But, I’m (semi) faithfully taking my echinacea, thinking healthful thoughts, and drinking lots of fluids.
If you thought a cold would stop me from posting a fresh CBW for you, well, I hope you are happily surprised [...]


Wow, it was REALLY hard to pick a winner for the Anal Sex Toy Give-Away – you all made such compelling cases!
In the end (hah), I used my trusty random number generator to pick the winner:
N from California!
I’m sure that she and her boyfriend will enjoy their lovely ass prize pack.
Once again, thanks to EdenFantasys [...]

Pleasurists 21

Unknown found via Art or Porn
Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #20? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #22? Submit it here before Sunday [...]

What to do When you Find Something “Minnow-y” Online

“I’ve been frequenting your site for about a year now and I’ve learned more than I would have ever imagined. I figured it’s about time I ask my own question. ok, i was “browsing” the web recently(I’m sure you catch my drift) and found something on google. I don’t remember the site name or anything, [...]

Sugasm #162

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #162? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom
This Week’s Picks
The Balance of Power
“A wave of lust coursed through her body at [...]

Anal Toy Give Away – CLOSED

Some of the folks from EdenFantasys have been keeping up with our discussions on anal stimulation this week.
When they read that some of you have  resorted to using random objects rather than proper anal toys, well they just had to send me an e-mail about setting up a give-away!
They have a great guide to buying [...]