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Hi, I'm Shay.

Welcome to The S Spot!

This is a positive space where I talk about sex/sexuality, publish my toy reviews/guides, and post some pretty sexy images and videos. ^_^

I also answer reader questions - so feel free to send me a message and ask me anything. (Check my archives to see what other people have asked too, maybe someone had the same problem you did!)

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Product Review - Smooth

Everyone knows that Sliquid makes a great lube, so I was curious about their shaving product, Smooth, when those nice people at Babeland sent me a bottle. It’s meant to be extra good for shaving, especially on your delicate bits.

Smooth comes out of the bottle looking like lube, it’s a clear almost gel that’s chock full of ingredients that are good for your skin: mango and shea butter, green tea extract, vitamin E, Aloe Vera.  It’s also vegan friendly and not animal tested.

With the ingredients examined, there was nothing left to do but hop in the shower and give it a try.  In the interest of science I decided to shave half using the Smooth and half using my normal shaving cream, so that I would be able to tell if there was a difference between the two.

What I liked: Because the Smooth shaving gel is clear, I found it a lot easier to use than my normal shaving cream; it was easy to see exactly what I was doing, where I wanted to stop, etc.  It also left my skin feeling soft and I did find it a little easier to shave that side, possibly because the gel did work to soften the hair.

In comparison with my normal sensitive skin shaving cream, however, the Smooth gel didn’t really give me less razor bumps, as far as I could tell.

What I didn’t like: Well, there wasn’t really anything that I didn’t like about Smooth.

I think it held up well against my shaving cream and I’m curious to try it on my legs next. ^_^

Smooth definitely earned it’s 8.5 out of 1085of10

CockBlogging Wednesday 137

What’s with all the stupid earmuffs* on this CBW?
Oh right *grumble* it’s still winter.
Well, you might as well click on through to see what he’d look like indoors.

Incidentally, this week’s submitter is also the nice young man who brought us THIS around xmas time.

cbwcensSorry for the low quality on the “real” picture.  Camera’s with a quality of “decent” or higher don’t fit within my budget.

* Speaking of muffs, did you know that RockBand2 won’t let my band name appear on the world scoreboards because it contains the word “muff”!? Ridiculous, considering my band name.

Quick Answers

Hi Shay! My boyfriend and I are having a problem while having sex. He’s my first, and I’m still a virgin. We DID have sex…well not exactly, we did anal and such, but when he tries to enter his penis in, his “hardness” went away. ALSO, im a small petite girl, and of course, im pretty…”tight”. My boyfriend finds it a little hard to get his penis inside of me, it really hurt me A LOT when he’s poking my barrier since im still a virgin, as I said before, he couldn’t do me when his hardness disappears, but I want to know if its impossible to f-ck each other because of the difference in sizes? He’s pretty big and I’m pretty small. Please answer!

If you’re having any problems having vaginal sex after being able to do anal, then it’s likely due to nerves. A vagina is much much more stretchy than your ass and should have very little problem accommodating your partner’s penis.

Using proper protection (i.e. a condom) and making sure that you’re relaxed and turned on will help you be more stretchy. If you think that your hymen really is getting in the way then you should really talk to your doctor about this because your hymen should not block sex unless it is too thick. As for your partner losing his erection, that’s probably due to nerves as well, maybe he’s afraid of hurting you.

In conclusion: talk to your doctor, make sure you’re BOTH turned on, use condoms, and maybe even throw in a little lube too.

I hope that helps!

Dear Shay, I have been “unlucky” in finding a girlfriend for the past couple of years,but now i finally have found someone and we have spent some time together. Whenever we kiss my balls become extra sensitive to the point of them hurting when touched, or even walking. I haven’t had much experience and i need your help.

I wouldn’t worry too much about it, that sounds like the sort of thing that wears off over time - your body must just be extra excited right now. ^_^

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neat! ^_^wordle

What are your thoughts?

Diary of a Futa (part 6)

Hello and welcome to the long-awaited Chapter SIX of DoaF - sure, you could probably still get into this chapter without refreshing your memory of the back-story, but what fun would that be?!  I strongly recommend going back and re-reading the story from at least Chapter Three (chapter five would be the very minimum), but you might want to go all the way back to Chapter One for the full effect.  ^_^

Ready now?
Oh goody!

Well, read on and let me know what you think in the comment section - I hope you enjoy this newest installment of The S Spot’s exclusive Diary of a Futa.


I kissed Laura hard, pulling her close with one arm and using the other to balance us as I pushed her down on her back.  Once we were laying down I leaned back and looked down at Laura’s body; her cheeks were flushed, in fact her whole body had a pink glow to it.  As Laura reached up to alternate between playing with my breasts and playing with my cock, I let my eyes travel over her breasts, down her stomach, to arrive at her pretty pink pussy.  Her whole vulva was blushing pink and I could see how glistening wet it was.  I reached down and spread her pussy lips with my thumbs.

“C’mon,” she moaned, “put it in, I want… no, I need to feel your cock inside me!”

But I was stalled, I kinda wasn’t sure where to go from here.  I’d always been on the receiving end of the cock, how did guys do this part?!  How hard should I push it into her?  Did I need to aim?  How should I move once it’s in?

“Please,” murmured Laura, “stop teasing me.  Please, I need it, I want it”  Laura was stroking my cock exclusively now, slowly trying to pull it towards her pussy.

I blushed and leaned over her, letting our breasts press together again.  With one hand beside her head on the bed, and the other guiding my cock, I kissed her again as I slowly slid my aching cock into her eager pussy.

I felt her arch her back under me and gasp, “slowly,” she whispered, ” I wanna savour every inch.”

I slowly drove my cock deeper and deeper inside.  I couldn’t have imagined something feeling better than Laura’s mouth around my cock - my brain just couldn’t visualize it - so you can imagine it’s shock: little neurons were popping and crackling all over my brain in ecstasy - looking back, I don’t think I could even see straight.

My consciousness was consumed by the feeling of her hot wet pussy wrapped tightly around my cock.  As I pushed deeper I could feel her stretching open for me: stretching and wrapping and hot and wet, and amazing.   Just a few more inches and my entire new cock would be totally consumed by her hungry pussy - I slowly pressed on.

Suddenly, I felt Laura reach around and grab my ass - pulling me quickly all the rest of the way inside of her.  Before I had a chance to say anything, I felt her pussy convulsing around my cock, her ripples of pleasure massaging my cock on all sides.  I gasped and tried not to move until she had finished coming.

“Laura,” I smiled teasingly, “I don’t know how your boyfriends handled you - You’re such a bad girl!  What happened to going slow?”

She giggled ” I couldn’t help myself!”

“Well,” I smiled back devilishly, “I think I know how to teach you a lesson.”  I pulled back, the warm air of my bedroom feeling like icy winter on my cock after the warmth of her pussy.  I slid myself back out of her until just the head was still inside, and then rammed my cock back home.  Laura gasped and I felt her pussy pulse.

“Mm you’re getting good at this,” she groaned, “keep it up and we might have to go buy a lifetime’s supply of those bottles….”  she paused as I repeated my performance “… mmmmm and move to a desert island where we can fuck all day…. …. and night.”

After that, I don’t really know if she said anything else.  I was lost in a synaesthetic world of delicious pleasure - all I could see or hear was the feeling of sliding my new hard cock in and out of her tight, wet pussy; the feeling of her hands alternatively on my breasts or ass, squeezing tight, pulling me as deep as we could go.

On some level, I couldn’t believe I was fucking my best friend like this with a cock that I’d had for less than a day!  But on most levels, I just wanted more - I wanted to fuck her as hard as I could until we couldn’t come anymore.

I was going to stop after the first time I came, our bodies pressed together as she whispered in my ear, begging me to cum inside her; but Laura kept bucking her hips and my cock hadn’t softened at all - so we kept going.  I was going to stop after the third time I came, with her riding on top of me, massaging my breasts and calling me a slut; but I couldn’t let her get away with that, I just had to flip her over, so that she was face-down on the bed and call her a slut right back, as she screamed her agreement while she came.

Finally we found ourselves on our knees on the floor next to my bed.  Laura reached her hand back, like she must have done with lots of other guys, to feel the spot where my cock and her pussy were becoming one.  Then she slid her hand back a little further, where I guess my balls would have been if I were a guy - but, since I’m not, her fingers ended up in my forgotten pussy.  As her fingers began exploring my sopping wet pussy, it felt like little bolts of electricity were traveling up my body - without warning my cock slipped out of Laura’s pussy and exploded once more.

This must have given Laura the idea because, as I was recovering, I saw her reaching into my bedside table.  After rummaging around for a few seconds, she pulled out the dildo she had given me last year in a gift exchange - I had forgotten I had it, since I had been too shy to use it and had banished it to the bottom drawer with my chargers and spare batteries.

“Here, I want to try something,” she said, passing it over her shoulder to me.  “Put this on the floor under you.  I want it to slide into your pussy while we fuck.”  I slid my cock smoothly back into her, just to show her who was fucking who here and was satisfied by her groan.  “C’mon,” she pressed, “just try it!”

Obligingly I placed the dildo between my ankles and slowly lowered myself, aiming my pussy carefully to line the two up.  As I lowered my pussy onto the dildo, Laura positioned herself over me and lowered her pussy onto my cock so that when the dildo was fully inside my pussy, I was also deep inside hers.

The sensation was indescribable, it was like I was the fucker and the fuckee all at the same time - my brain didn’t know what to do with all these incredible feelings.  In fact, I think I must have blacked out because when I came to my cock was soft, the dildo was across the room, and Laura was spooning me cozily.

I was just about to snuggle up and continue our cat-nap when there was a light knocking on my door…

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You Don’t HAVE to be a Marathon Man

I was wondering if you know of any way that a guy can train himself to last longer during sex without cumming. I know it’s a strange question but I’d really like to increase my performance time.

A lot of guys worry about how long they can last during sex, and that’s no real surprise - sex is fun and feels really good, so of course it’d be nice to make it last longer.

From what I’ve read, the average guy lasts around 7 minutes, which might not sound that impressive to some, but seems to do the trick for most people.  [By the way, you're not considered a premature ejaculator if you can last at least 2 mins.]

I don’t think I could really explain any tricks here that a regular guy can use to help him last longer when he’s having sex, but I do know that the classic “try to think of something un-sexy” (like baseball or your dead great-aunt)  is not a good idea.  Like I said above, sex is fun, why would you want to spoil it by trying to distract your mind (which won’t necessarily distract your penis from finishing)?

One method that some people (try to) use is becoming aware of the sensations that your body feels when it is near orgasm and trying to focus their energy on suppressing these sensations for a little while to delay things - once again, I’m not sure that this is such a great idea (unless you really are a premature ejaculator).

So in conclusion, please check out this post.


Cockblogging Wednesday 136

Okay maybe my pun wasn’t so subtle, but hey it works, right?

(make sure you do click through, I had to cut the image to make the cover work)


Hey Shay, Love the site a lot! Huge fan, just figured I would toss my cock in the mix. You probably don’t get a lot of redheads cause were a dying breed but enjoy.

Be Gentle, It’s My First *Caption*


It’s time to play another round of the caption game!

Last time you guys did pretty well, these were my faves:

Church attendance hit an all-time high when they introduced the nude choir.

We the people in order to form a more perfect union hold these boobs to be self evident that all boobs are not created equal but are enjoyable no matter the size

You moron! The teacher said to imagine the AUDIENCE naked to ease your nerves when speaking in public!

Staring in horror at the sign that read, “Rude Thespians Meeting,” the nude lesbians knew they had come to the wrong convention.

But I wonder how you’ll do THIS time ^_~

For those of you new to the game, here is how we play.

First I SHOW you an interesting picture that I found while exploring the internets:futa train

and then you TELL me what the character(s) might be thinking and/or saying!

Got your thinking undies on? Good!
Get to it!

Book Review - HIS


I just finished reading HIS last week - it’s a collection of erotic stories kinda aimed at men.  Check out my review over at Jane’s Guide. ^_^

I’m fairly picky with my erotica because I often have trouble identifying with the women in the stories, but it turns out that it’s hard to go wrong when you’ve got 30 different scenarios to choose from! No matter who you are, you’re likely to find more than a few stories in this book that turn your crank.  Some of the stories might turn you on because they’ll be stories about something you’ve tried yourself and liked, some will turn you on because they are about situations that you’ve  fantasied about too, and some will turn you one because they give you a brand new fantasy you can add to your ’spank bank’.

pssst - Shay is planning to post the newest Diary of a Futa chapter next week - pass it on. ^_~

(This would be a good time to start getting refreshed on the story thus far)