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Archive for August, 2009

Brazilian Waxes

“Hi Shay,
I’m a longtime fan of Brazilian waxes. I got them for years at a spa before going DIY. I’ve heard a few stories on the news about people getting infections after getting waxed professionally.

Another thing I heard on the news is that small abrasions caused by waxing can “get infected”. Is it a personal [...]

Toy Review – Juliane the Ceramic Vibrator

You know what I said to myself when my friends at Babeland asked if I’d like to try out the Juliane?  “Self,” I said, “you don’t have a ceramic vibrator yet do you?” “Nope,” I replied to myself, “I certainly do not, I didn’t even know they came in ceramic!“  Intrigued, I decided to accept [...]

Measuring tape, and soaked panties, and jealousy – oh my!
A new DoaF is underway and should be live in the next few days!
In the meantime you might want to get caught up with the archives! ^_~
What do you think will happen next? haha

Cockblogging Wednesday 156

This week’s CBW submitter is a repeat offender!
(click through)
“I’m back again. I’ve already been in the Cockblogging subject with a pic of my erect cock and with the video ‘From weener to boner‘ (which I’m very proud of by the way) and there’s also a pic of my cock in the Cocktoberfest part. Now I’m [...]

Pleasurists #41

via Breathtakers
Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #40? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #41? Submit it here before Sunday August [...]

Dating Friends and Friends of Friends

“I have a relationship question for you.
Ok, I have my best friend Julie*, and her ex boyfriend’s name is Troy. Troy is my best friend, and my recent ex-boyfriend John’s, best friend. My problem is I’m really attracted to Troy, so Troy and I were talking about casually dating. Which sounds fine because its fun [...]

Aural Sex Contest

Sex is something I like to experience on a multi-sensory level when I can,
and, as we’ve discussed before, listening to the right music can really amp up the mood and get the “juices” flowing.
That’s why the lines of sex toys built to respond to music are so neat!
You can tune your orgasm to whatever song [...]


Hey, remember a while back I was posting a story written by my friend JD?
Your great response prompted him to start up his own site: JD’s Man Stories.
Not too long ago I encouraged him to enter LoveHoney’s Erotica Contest
and he actually placed!
If you’re interested, you can check out his entry “The Rival” HERE.
Well done JD!

Cockblogging Wednesday 155

Yeah, I know it’s not Cocktoberfest,
but I’ve had a long, hot car ride after a long day at a meeting outside of town,
and a nice beer on the balcony would be so nice right now.
If you’d like to find out what this week’s contributor is really holding, click the image:
“Been a lurker on your site [...]

Toy Review – Tenga Squeeze Play

I’ve been hearing a lot about these Tenga masturbation sleeves (even before they were imported to North America), and it was making me curious.  Obviously I don’t have the proper equipment myself to test one of these babies out, so when my good friends at Babeland sent me one of the Tenga Squeeze Play tubes, [...]