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“I have two questions:
I bought my gf some “wonder balls” and the description of the clerk was that they were toning and massaging marbles. By what we figure by the illustrations, they are inserted into the vagina for [...]

No One Likes a Knock in the Junk

“Dear and beloved Shay, I was chatting with some guys yesterday and they came out with a video of girls kicking each other in the vaginas. What surprised me was how bad the girls reacted to the kicking. They just got to the floor with the face like they were heavily in pain. Just like [...]

Lubes, Vaginas, and UTIs

“I’m curious about lubes, especially those pesky water-based ones containing glycerin. It seems common enough knowledge that the glycerin can induce yeast infections if you’re prone to them; but no one seems to know whether there’s an increased risk of urinary tract infections.

So, can water-based, glycerin-housing lube give me a UTI?

Oh, and while I’m [...]

Period Sex?

I have always been SO confused by the commercials for menstrual products showing women in white clothes.  My thoughts have always been: “dude, that’s just asking for trouble – what are you thinking?!”

On a similar vein, I’ve been trying to convince my roommate to be more open to having sex with [...]

Painful Penetration

“Hey Shay, i’m still a virgin, but recently my boyfriend and I are trying to have sex.
The first time he tried to penetrate was painful but i was sort of expecting that. But now it’s been a few weeks, and we have tried several times but the pain is too much for me to bear. [...]

Vaginas and The OTHER V-Day

Part of the reason why The S Spot holds the month of February as a celebration of all things Vaginal (aka Squishy and Pink Month), is to highlight some of the work being done to support and protect women all over the world by the people over at VDay.
If you have some time, [...]

Sometimes You Need Date Night With Yourself

“Hi, Shay,
I’ve read your blog for some time now, and I think it’s great! I have a pretty detailed question, so if you have time I’d really appreciate some advice. I’m a virgin, although my ex and I fooled around a lot and got to oral, etc., without actual penetration.  I’ve always masturbated by crossing [...]

Lubing Up Your Slip and Slide

“Dear Shay, I love your blog, and I really like the fact that you always offer non-intimidating and very sensible advice. I’ve finally plucked up the courage to ask you a question, which I hope no one else has asked so far.

I’m the sort of girl who tends to get nervous/anxious when I’m in bed [...]

IS There Such a Thing as TOO Wet?

“Hello Shay,
I have been reading your blog for a while and have gotten some prety good sex advice, But now I have a stumper for you. My girlfriend have been trying sex out for about two months now and we have a problem, nither of us have been able to finnish because she becomes extreamly [...]

Please Pee Post Penetration

“Over the last couple of days, symptoms have emerged for me that I’m not sure what to do about.
The other night, I was going about my business when all of a sudden I felt the strongest sensation of needing to pee. I ran to the loo and…nothing happened. I didn’t need to pee at all [...]