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Advice for a New Dildo User

“I was recently given a dildo by a friend as I kept complaining about my lack of sex. Now I’m alone in the house, everyone out working or getting educated, I thought I’d try it out. So I lubed up and got playing with myself. After I orgasmed, thus I thought fully relaxed, I applied [...]

Painful Penetration

“Hey Shay, i’m still a virgin, but recently my boyfriend and I are trying to have sex.
The first time he tried to penetrate was painful but i was sort of expecting that. But now it’s been a few weeks, and we have tried several times but the pain is too much for me to bear. [...]

Oral Advice

“Hey Shay! I have a question about performing oral for my girlfriend. To be honest, I’m nervous about doing it. I know she wants me to, but I can’t bring myself to. I want to make her happy in any way possible, so could you give me some pointers on eating her out?“

It’s natural to [...]

Sometimes You Need Date Night With Yourself

“Hi, Shay,
I’ve read your blog for some time now, and I think it’s great! I have a pretty detailed question, so if you have time I’d really appreciate some advice. I’m a virgin, although my ex and I fooled around a lot and got to oral, etc., without actual penetration. I’ve always masturbated by crossing [...]

Lubing Up Your Slip and Slide

“Dear Shay, I love your blog, and I really like the fact that you always offer non-intimidating and very sensible advice. I’ve finally plucked up the courage to ask you a question, which I hope no one else has asked so far.

I’m the sort of girl who tends to get nervous/anxious when I’m in bed [...]

Getting a Jump on V-Day Shopping

“Hi Shay, I know Valentine’s Day is still more than a month away, but it’s never too early to start thinking of gifts for that special someone. I was thinking of getting my boyfriend a sex toy for Valentine’s Day, and to be exact, a Fleshlight. However, I’m not too sure if it is an [...]

IS There Such a Thing as TOO Wet?

“Hello Shay,
I have been reading your blog for a while and have gotten some prety good sex advice, But now I have a stumper for you. My girlfriend have been trying sex out for about two months now and we have a problem, nither of us have been able to finnish because she becomes extreamly [...]

Cum Allergies and Problems with DS

“Can cum make you sick? Last night I sucked off my boyfriend till he came in my mouth and about a half an hour to an hour later I started to have a bad stomach ache and the stomach ache carried on to this morning im feeling alot better now but im curious why I [...]

Crossing Boundaries with Friends and then Trying to go Back

“Dear Shay,
Before I start, wanted to say that I love your column. Its a great source thats entertaining and informative. Now onto the crux of the issue. I have a friend whom I met at college. One night we were hanging out and (after too many shots of whiskey) we start making out on the [...]

Please Pee Post Penetration

“Over the last couple of days, symptoms have emerged for me that I’m not sure what to do about.
The other night, I was going about my business when all of a sudden I felt the strongest sensation of needing to pee. I ran to the loo and…nothing happened. I didn’t need to pee at all [...]

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