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Where's the Most Awkward Place You've Been Turned On?

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“Of course, everyone… or mostly everyone, knows that guys can get boners at the oddest times. Sometimes it’s merely a stray thought, other times, it’s nothing at all, and suddenly there’s a boner to worry about, often in [...]

Porn Can be a Bit of an Ethical Grey Area

“Hello there,

Like a lot of men, and an increasing number of women, I like porn.  Hentai is great, and so is the live action stuff. However, lately I find myself being more responsible for what I consume. I don’t spend any money, but a page view still generates advertising revenue, which means now [...]

Things in Vaginas

“I have two questions:
I bought my gf some “wonder balls” and the description of the clerk was that they were toning and massaging marbles. By what we figure by the illustrations, they are inserted into the vagina for periods of time. My question is how long is it still safe to use? they’re like solid [...]

It sucks being jerked around by your heart strings

“A while ago, you helped me with a question involving my relationship. You were extremely helpful and right. I was hoping you may be able to do it again.

long story short:
This girl and I started dating in high school for 1 1/2 years. We were each other’s firsts. She then broke up with me because [...]

Too Sick for Sex?

“Dear Shay, i’ve got a quick n short question for you
i’ve been in a relationship for more than a year now, and we’re, of course, sexually active since the begining of our relationship
we have sex 3 to 4 times a week, and since then, i’ve never masturbated: i don’t see the need, and the quality [...]

No One Likes a Knock in the Junk

“Dear and beloved Shay, I was chatting with some guys yesterday and they came out with a video of girls kicking each other in the vaginas. What surprised me was how bad the girls reacted to the kicking. They just got to the floor with the face like they were heavily in pain. Just like [...]

Introducing Toys to a Reluctant Partner

“Hello I’m a long time fan first time writing to you, anyway my problem is this I’ve been with my girl for four years, we both lost our virginity to each other. I have been trying to spice things up by suggesting using toys like Bullets, vibrators. Every time I hint on wanting to use [...]

Dating and Relating

“I am 18, and a bit of a loner. I have never been in a relationship of any kind, and I’d just like to ask how the entire process works.  I have girl friends, of course, but it’s the all important space between the words. As a bit of background, I am a geek, smart, [...]

Semen Allergy or Just an Upset Tummy?

“Yesterday I was with a brand new partner, I gave him a blowjob, and swallowed. Today, I had woken up around 7am feeling unusually tired and queesy then, around 5:30pm, after a ride in the car, vomited, feeling instantly better afterward.

I do have a history of car sickness, but this is not the first time [...]

Afraid of Anal Play

“My Girlfriend is into anal play. She likes to play with me in that area plus she wants me to play with her there also. I am not at all comfortable with her playing with that area on me, but it is something she really enjoys and REALLY wants to do. I just can’t let [...]