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Where do World Religions stand on Masturbation?

Have you ever wondered?

It turns out that there are actually a lot of mixed feelings!

In the “Don’t Do it” column we find Orthodox Judaism; Catholicism says no (unless you’re a lady!); Buddhism isn’t actually opposed, but would prefer you just got over your desires;

In [...]

A Case Study in Giving Up Porn

Have you ever thought about giving up something you use all the time, just to see if you could do it? There’s stories about people giving up using the internet, or facebook, or pintrest, and so on – but how do you think you could manage giving up porn? Could you do [...]

A Shy Girlfriend Who Wants to Explore

“Hi Shay, I have a question for you… My girlfriend is trying to get into masturbation, but she’s a little shy, worried that she might do something wrong, or that it won’t feel good. How can I help her be more excited about wanting to masturbate?

I do have also another question that I am [...]

Too Sick for Sex?

“Dear Shay, i’ve got a quick n short question for you i’ve been in a relationship for more than a year now, and we’re, of course, sexually active since the begining of our relationship we have sex 3 to 4 times a week, and since then, i’ve never masturbated: i don’t see the need, and [...]

Toy Review – Tenga Egg

Tenga is quickly becoming recognized as a major player in the jack-off device game (if fact, I’ve reviewed the squeeze play in the past) – though their products aren’t as durable as something like a Fleshlight, they are cheaper, which does make them attractive to guys/couples who’d like to try a sleeve but don’t [...]

Dildo and Vibe Safety

“so I bought my girl a dildo at a local sexshop, and, I want to ask you, is it just because she’s never had a dildo inside her or does the dildo have to do something with it because she kept complaining it hurt, untill I took it out, and it accidentaly slipped, it got [...]

In Need of a Stronger Orgasm

“I’ve been working up the courage to ask because this has been bothering me for a while but I’m quite shy about talking about it! My problem is that I can’t seem to orgasm properly through masturbation! It hasn’t always been this way but for the past couple of months, my orgasms come very quickly [...]

There are Many Ways to Orgasm

“Hey, Shay, long time reader, first time desperate advice seeker. At the tender age of 25, I just figured out how to make myself orgasm. As I’ve been a pretty sexually active girl who *thought* she knew her own body for the past 12 years, it came as quite a shock. The worst part is [...]

Advice for a New Dildo User

“I was recently given a dildo by a friend as I kept complaining about my lack of sex. Now I’m alone in the house, everyone out working or getting educated, I thought I’d try it out. So I lubed up and got playing with myself. After I orgasmed, thus I thought fully relaxed, I applied [...]

Product Review – 2040

Just a disclaimer before you read this review: I’m a harsh judge of porn – I’m really really picky about what I want to see and what I don’t want to see. Still, when when my friends at Babeland asked me if I wanted to review this new big-budget porn that was chock full of [...]

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