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Hey you!

No, not you, YOU!

Wanna have a chance to win a prize?

Yeah, I thought so. ^_~

Eden Fantasys has given me the chance to grant some nice girl the wish of becoming a fake futa!

The Mr Man dildo isn’t just a dildo that fits into a strap-on harness - it’s a dildo that you can position over the clit and simulate receiving a blow job!
[There's a little hole inside that runs from tip to base and suction applied at the tip will translate all the way down.]

Pretty neat, eh?

So how can you win this fabulous prize?

Just leave a comment bellow telling me the first thing you would do if you woke up one morning with a magical futa penis in your panties!

Think hard!  Because I’m giving you a few days before I pick the winner!

Wilson here confused the heck out of me when he asked if I accept non-CBW pix.

If it’s not for CBW, what’s the point!? ^_~  lol

“Love your blog and have been reading it for awhile.  Perhaps next time I’ll take one fully erect but hopefully this will do for now.“

I’ve had a few guys mention something along the lines of: “maybe next time I’ll send one where I’m fully erect“.  I don’t get it, is it some kind of ego saving attempt in case people don’t think that you look big enough in the photo you sent in?  Because otherwise I really don’t get why someone wouldn’t send in the best pic possible for display.  If these haven’t been fully erect shots, I can’t image the different would be that noticible - sorry guys!

“Hey Shay!
I have a silly question and funnily enough you are the person in my life I feel most comfortable asking .   I have only slept with one of my boyfriends before, and he was pretty average (about 4.5 inches). My current boyfriend and I have been fooling around more and more lately and I have had the privilege of seeing his 7.5 inch member. So my question: is that even going to fit inside of me? Should I not expect him to go “balls deep” like my ex could? I don’t really have a way of exploring my insides enough to know exactly how this is going to work, and I figured I should shoot you an email and see what kind of advice you could comfort me with before I get myself into anything too shocking.”

Okay, I kinda love this question - it’s like the female counter-part to the usual “am I too small?” question that I usually get from guys.  hehe

First of all, don’t worry.  7.5 inches is a totally normal length for a penis; I’m sure you will notice a difference in comparison to your ex, but it really shouldn’t be a problem.  ^_^

One of the many handy things about vaginas is that they are stretchy (esp when you’re turned on); your canal will get longer, your insides will move out of the way - it’ll all be good hun, and I’m sure you’ll be able to take him balls deep no problem.  Actually, I think I’ve talked a bit more about this HERE.

Have fun!!

P.S. If you do find that his length is a problem for you, don’t worry - you can help solve this problem by adjusting your angle when he’s inside you to maximize your inner length. For example, be careful in positions that can shorten your vaginal canal, like doggy style (really any position that has you folded over).

As masturbators go, the Lucious Touch from Vibe Review looks fairy tame: it’s not trying to be realistic or look like a particular pornstar- in fact, the one I got looks like a pink flower.   Since I obviously don’t have a penis, I had to pass this toy over to a friend to test for me.  But before I sent the toy off to be reviewed, I did have a chance to stick a finger or two inside to check out the texture inside the sleeve; it’s got two different textures that alternate: nubby and ribbed.  The toy handed off, I waited excitedly to find out what the verdict would be.

What he liked: he liked how squishy the toy was and found it fairly fun to use.  The Lucious Touch is made out of jelly, which seems pretty delicate, so he was impressed with how well it stood up to a good pounding.  The jelly sleeve can stretch so that it’s insertable length is much longer than you’d expect from looking at it.

What he didn’t like: I mentioned that the toy is made out of squishy jelly above and, although this sleeve was surprisingly sturdy, it also didn’t bring much sensation to the party.  While he said that it didn’t feel like just his hand, it also didn’t feel like much of anything - the alternating texture didn’t do much for him .  He also found it frustrating to clean because it’s not open-ended or as sturdy as a Fleshlight.  He didn’t appreciate the flower design either, strictly because it included a second small (and unfuckable) flower along the side that made gripping the toy a little weird.

This toy would be great for: someone looking for a cheap masturbation sleeve that doesn’t look like a vagina.  It’s the kind of toy that couples could even play with together as part of foreplay.

Lucious Touch was kinda neat, but didn’t quite live up to expectations - it gets a 3 out of 10. 

I nearly did a spit-take in the car when I heard on the radio that a new study has found that drinking coffee can shrink a woman’s breasts! I don’t drink much coffee myself (just a few ice-caps in the summer), but I know A LOT of people are who totally addicted and I needed to know how worried they should be.

I looked up the paper and found it online - while it does sound like coffee won’t have this effect on all women (only about 50% of women, maybe more,  carry the right allele), it is still a very interesting finding.

The study involved having 300 women who are avid coffee fans come into the lab and (among other measures) have their boob size checked.

The caffeine in coffee does have an effect on the hormones in our bodies and this study found that drinking 3+ cups of coffee a day on a regular basis can lead to some breast shrinkage in women.

It’s not like you could go from a C cup to an A cup, more like from a C cup to a C- or a B+ cup  but still, it is a change - all thanks to caffeine’s effect on the estrogen in your body.

Turns out that it is a delicate balance, because drinking coffee can do a little to help prevent breast cancer.  There are substances in the coffee that can modify women’s metabolism to make them slightly more resistant to tumors.

Before you men think you are off the hook about this coffee thing, you should know that caffeine has a totally different effect on testosterone than on estrogen.  Too much coffee will make your pecs flabby and can give you squooshy little man-boobs.

Just a little something to think about when you make your afternoon coffee run today.

You know what I like to see?  Couples who do crazy things together - crazy things like BOTH submitting photos for CBW!!

Last week we saw her fella, and this week we get to see her!

“My man’s cock is beyond delicious personally, and I like to think he thinks the same of my girly bits.“

A very happy, if slightly late, LOL day to all my sweet readers.

Although very few of your chose to comment, I know that, you, my lurkers are out there: reading my words, thinking your thoughts, and shyly keeping them to yourselves.

But that’s okay, because today is YOUR day!

In Bonnie’s words:

I would like to invite you to leave a comment below. It can be as long or short as you choose. You can use a fake name or no name at all. What’s important is that you poke your head up just far enough that we might see you.

If you feel chatty, please feel free to tell me how I might make this blog more interesting, more useful, more attractive, more spanky, or more fun. I’m always in the market for great new ideas. If a simple hello is enough for you, I’ll welcome that as well.

In any case, I look forward to meeting you!

So don’t be shy - or be shy - I’ll keep appreciating your visits anyway, but it would still be nice to hear a few peeps from the audience. ^_~

“First off I should say that I’ve just lost my virginity now, (at 20 years old). It went fairly well but I still have a few questions.

1.) Is it common for girls to turn off the lights before hand? Or is this just a self conscious thing with this one girl?

2.) I admit I was a bit inebriated, but the missionary position just didn’t feel right. It might be because I have a smallish penis( 5 inches), but perhaps I was doing something wrong?
(However doggy style worked great)

3.) It is really awkward trying to fall asleep on someone else’s bed, any secrets? (might of been because the bed was tiny…)”

1) I don’t think it’s uncommon for girls to want the lights off if they are shy about their bodies, it might also be how they think sex is supposed to happen. According to a survey done in 2004 by ABC, 51% of American women polled said that they prefer to have sex with the lights off, so your girl isn’t alone.

Personally I prefer the lights on so that I can see what I’m (and they’re) doing. If you’d rather have the lights on, you could just ask if you can leave the lights on next time - if she seems reluctant, try suggesting some candles; she’ll think you’re incredibly romantic and you’ll actually get to see a thing or two. [ Just make sure that the candles are in safe spots, where they won't have sheets or clothes accidentally tossed onto them and won't fall once things get moving.]

2) Having sex when you’re drunk can be fun in some ways (your inhibitions are lower and you feel all swirly), but actually isn’t that great for your preformance/enjoyment.  Being drunk can mean that you’re less sensitive: alcohol has the power to numb not just the nerve endings in your hands, but also in your junk.   In any case, when you want to make the most of your penis size, missionary isn’t always the best position to go with, positions like doggy style are going to get your further.

3)  It’s always tricky learning to fall asleep next to someone else when you’re used to sleeping alone, especially when the bed is small.  Speaking as someone who lived with tiny residence beds for 4 years and had many sleepovers, I can tell you that eventually you do learn how to spoon effectively and how to roll over at the same time when someone else is sharing your bed.

So there you go, now get out there an enjoy!

One of our lovely CBW participants asked very nicely if I would put forward a question for my readers’ consideration.  How could I say no? - he’d already shown us his bits!

It’s a fairly simple question:
Do ladies prefer their man’s cock to be shaved completely clean, given a little trim, or left wild?

Also - what about my gay readers, what are their thougts on this matter?

Personally, I prefer trimmed: things just look too naked without any hair and can look silly if he also has a lot of body hair, but leaving it wild can look messy, be smelly, and the long hair can get in the way.

So, what do YOU think?

Part of being sexy is feeling sexy and part of feeling sexy is eating sexy - with that in mind I present to you one of my favourite stir-fry recipes: Erotic Pork.  The name started out as a miss-read recipe title, but stuck once we discovered that this dish does have the power to make people moan.

Erotic Pork

1 (or ½) pork tenderloin, chopped into bite-sized pieces

1 tsp hot red chilli pepper flakes (5mL - or more)

3 cloves of chopped garlic (15mL or 1tbsp)

1 bowl frozen stir-fry veggies, warmed in the microwave for 2 mins (or thinly sliced fresh carrots, eggplant, sugar peas, and button mushrooms)

3 tbsp packed brown sugar (45mL)

4 tsp fish sauce (20mL)

1 tbsp cornstarch dissolved in ¼ cup water

1. Heat a splash of vegetable/canola oil into your wok/deep frying pan. Add veggies to pan and stir-fry for 2 mins then transfer the veggies back to their bowl.
2. Heat a splash of vegetable/canola oil into your wok/deep frying pan – for extra deliciousness, use sesame seed oil instead this time. Add chili peppers and garlic and stir-fry for 20 secs.
3. Add pork; stir-fry for 3-4 mins or until no long pink. Return reserved vegetables to pan and mix in.
4. Stir cornstarch mixture and add to pan. Stir in brown sugar and fish sauce.
5. Serve over rice and enjoy!

Mmmm just the kind of dish that you can whip up, enjoy alone or together, and then move right into your foreplay/quickie.