Welcome to the Year of the Water Dragon!
Got any big plans for the new year?
Apparently the year of the dragon is the year to shoot for things that you previously thought might be impossible for you!
|
|
||||
 
|
Well folks, It seems that we (and by “we” I mean my American readers, though this bill would still affect me, up here in Canada) were threatened with SOPA just to freak everyone out, so that when PIPA was proposed it would look much more sane and it would look like an acceptable option. Read more about PIPA Once you’ve done that,  clickthrough! “Just thought I would send in a pic of me and my new drac fleshlight for cbw. This pic was taken after my 2nd use of it on the day I got it. It seems fleshlight produce more exotic toys each year. This time with their freak range.”
Recently comedienne Margaret Cho got some new tattoos that she was very happy with. So, she tweeted a pic, to share them with her fans. Unfortunately two people decided to let Cho know that they think she doesn’t look very attractive. Cho didn’t take too kindly to their rude comments, and not only blocked these two users, but told them off as well. Some people think she reacted a little harshly, but she feels completely justified:
Read the whole article in Jezebel HERE. This whole thing made me think about HNT again. Very few people in the world have “perfect” bodies, most of us have flaws that could be objectively criticized. Yet, during my time perusing people’s photos, I never saw any negative comments on people’s HNT photos. Commenters always seemed supportive and often grateful to the photo submitters for sharing these private (and sometimes very explicit) photos. And you know what, that’s how it should be. If you don’t have anything nice to say about someone’s photo, it’d better to just not say anything at all. What are your thoughts on Cho’s comments? My very very long time readers may remember a long-time phenomenon called HNT HNT was all about bloggers sharing a little extra with their readers, We here at The S Spot used to participate in HNT too! You should definitely check out all the submissions to the final HNT – see if you can guess which thumbnail is mine! ^_~ While I have you here, how about one final, final HNT treat?  Something Blue ^_~ See you all next time! ~ S http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eQ6d963Tvn0&feature=related
Thoughts?
The Cal Exotics Little Black Panty is an adjustable lacy black panty – with satiny ties on either side (that’s what makes it adjustable AND fun to take off), and a little pocket in the bottom for the curvy vibrating bullet. The bullet takes two AAA batteries (byob) and the snazzy remote takes one of those weird 12 volt 23A batteries (thank goodness it’s included in the package). The plastic bullet is waterproof and cycles through 10 vibration and pulse programs – all triggered by the remote. We thought the whole concept was pretty fun; you put on the panties, tuck in the bullet, give the remote to your partner, and head out for a night on the town. There are some limitations though, the remote needs to be within around 15 feet to trigger the bullet; so you can’t let your partner get too far away. What I liked: I think remote control toys are a lot of fun, and I know my testing buddy thought it was super fun to be able to trigger the bullet at random as I moved around the apartment. The panties fit relatively well and were pretty comfortable too. The remote was sleek looking, easy to work (there is only one button!), and can be kept discretely in a pocket. What I didn’t like: The bullet’s motor was only soso and I found that I often had to adjust it so that the vibrations were close to where I wanted them. The motor was also a little loud, so this toy would be fine in a night club, but you definitely couldn’t use it covertly at a dinner party without someone asking you if you need to answer your phone. Overall: This was a fun product, but the actual bullet needs a little more work in my opinion. The Remote Control Little Black Panty from Cal Exotics gets a 5 out of 10:
I’ve been thinking more about this idea of using pleasure as a safer-sex education tool… I feel like a flaw in how a lot of people tend to think about sex has to do with pleasure in general. I am definitely not the first person to say this, but it’s so important to keep in mind that I don’t mind saying it again. The first step to enjoying sex (more, or at all) is to take responsibility for your own pleasure. Realize that, although your partner isn’t malevolent (I hope!), they certainly can’t feel what you feel. Unless you SPEAK UP and let them know. There’s nothing wrong with saying that you want to change to a different position, Don’t put up with bad or painful sex (unless you wanted it to be painful) because you’re too shy to speak up.
I’m back from Houston! My conference was great, I learned a ton, but I didn’t actually get to see much of Houston. I did try TexMex cuisine though, and it was fine. Anyway, this week’s submitter is wearing a cowboy hat as an homage to my trip to the American West-ish area.  clickthrough “Here is a nice photo of my cock I hope you enjoy. I love your blog!“ As I mentioned last week – I’m in in the US for a few days, attending a sexuality conference. And, in fact, I just came back from a great talk on the importance of taking sexual pleasure into account when we talk about sex education. I’ve talked about this before actually, about a year ago! And think about it, People think that teens don’t want to use condoms because they “know” that sex doesn’t feel as good when you use one - And that kinda makes sense: (If you’re heterosexual) You can really relax and enjoy sex a whole lot more if you don’t have to worry that letting your boyfriend ejaculate is going to get you pregnant. What do you think about this?
Thanks again to all our wonderful readers who sent in great pix for us! But before I send you off to throw on a costume and greet the ghosts and ghouls on Halloween tonight,  clickthrough! “Hi Shay, Spectacular as usual Ro ^_~ Any comments on this pic? Comments on the surprisingly long run of Cocktoberfest? This beer? Beer in general? If you’re sad you missed your chance to participate in Cocktoberfest this year, |
|||
|
164 queries. 0.324 seconds. |
||||
This year’s festivities were a little short,