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Too Sick for Sex?

“Dear Shay, i’ve got a quick n short question for you
i’ve been in a relationship for more than a year now, and we’re, of course, sexually active since the begining of our relationship
we have sex 3 to 4 times a week, and since then, i’ve never masturbated: i don’t see the need, and the quality [...]

Afraid of Anal Play

“My Girlfriend is into anal play. She likes to play with me in that area plus she wants me to play with her there also. I am not at all comfortable with her playing with that area on me, but it is something she really enjoys and REALLY wants to do. I just can’t let [...]

Coming Together and Maybe not With Others

“My boyfriend and me were able to cum at the same time for the first time yesterday. I really liked it but it has never happened before. In order for me to cum I have to have intense stimulation of my clit so I used a electric toothbrush on my clit while i am in [...]

There are Many Ways to Orgasm

“Hey, Shay, long time reader, first time desperate advice seeker.
At the tender age of 25, I just figured out how to make myself orgasm. As I’ve been a pretty sexually active girl who *thought* she knew her own body for the past 12 years, it came as quite a shock. The worst part [...]

A Man With a Picky Orgasm

“Hey shay,

I’ve got a problem. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now, and have been having sex for a couple weeks now. My problem is that no matter how long we go I can never cum while I’m having sex with her, I have to have her give me head for [...]

Period Sex?

I have always been SO confused by the commercials for menstrual products showing women in white clothes. My thoughts have always been: “dude, that’s just asking for trouble – what are you thinking?!”

On a similar vein, I’ve been trying to convince my roommate to be more open to having sex with [...]

Painful Penetration

“Hey Shay, i’m still a virgin, but recently my boyfriend and I are trying to have sex.
The first time he tried to penetrate was painful but i was sort of expecting that. But now it’s been a few weeks, and we have tried several times but the pain is too much for me to bear. [...]

Oral Advice

“Hey Shay! I have a question about performing oral for my girlfriend. To be honest, I’m nervous about doing it. I know she wants me to, but I can’t bring myself to. I want to make her happy in any way possible, so could you give me some pointers on eating her out?“

It’s natural to [...]

Sometimes You Need Date Night With Yourself

“Hi, Shay,
I’ve read your blog for some time now, and I think it’s great! I have a pretty detailed question, so if you have time I’d really appreciate some advice. I’m a virgin, although my ex and I fooled around a lot and got to oral, etc., without actual penetration. I’ve always masturbated by crossing [...]

Lubing Up Your Slip and Slide

“Dear Shay, I love your blog, and I really like the fact that you always offer non-intimidating and very sensible advice. I’ve finally plucked up the courage to ask you a question, which I hope no one else has asked so far.

I’m the sort of girl who tends to get nervous/anxious when I’m in bed [...]

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