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Archive for April, 2009

Product Review – Stimula for Women

You might remember Stimula from such posts as “Get free stuff” and “yes Canadians can get a free sample too” (see the comment section in the first hotlink).  Stimula is a clear gel that is meant to make a woman’s “genital area” more sensitive, it can also double as a lube. It is odorless, water [...]

CockBlogging Wednesday 144

Sorry this week’s CBW is up so late readers!
Rogers experienced a power surge or something in my area yesterday morning so I lost cable, internets, and home phone – brutal!
I didn’t have time to have a technician in to wave his magic wand until this afternoon, so I had to wait to put up your [...]

The Best Friend, Part 1

Wow readers, have I got a treat for you!
One of my very best friends (ironically, given the theme) is also into writing and wrote a fun and sexy short story.
He’s looking for feedback and so I offered to post it on my site; it’s a little long, so you’ll get to enjoy it in installments.
Please [...]

Staying Safer

“I’m curious to know your take on a situation I’m in. I’m a 20 year old female and I’ve had sex with 5 men. About 3 weeks ago, I had a one night stand with someone whom I later found out is verrrryy promiscuous. He’s been with 25-30 women. After hearing this info, I freaked. [...]

Toy Review – Luna Beads

My longtime readers know that I’ve had a bad experience with so-called “plasure balls” in the past, so it took some guts to try out another set.  Luckily the set my friends at VibeReview sent me are by Lelo, a company known for sleek and sexy products, so I was hopeful that these balls would [...]

Sugasm #163

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #164? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Another Night With [...]

Pleasurists #24

from found via Art or Porn
Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #23? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #25? Submit it here before [...]

CockBlogging Wednesday 143

Well look at that, it’s a long-time friend of the site, Ronan, here to wish you a happy Earth Day!
Now if you just peel back that foliage I think you might just find your view improved

“Hi, I am a freshman at a small, midwestern university. I never thought I’d be writing to Penthouse Letters but [...]

Love The Earth and Yourself

Tomorrow is Earth Day.
It’s a day to raise awareness about how we can all do our part (even in small ways) to help preserve our planet and live healthier every day.
This past weekend I once again participated in the CN Tower Climb to raise money for WWF’s initiative against climate change. It was [...]

Antidepressants and Sex

“Hey Shay!
There’s a girl who I like, and who likes me (what can I say, the hard part is already over) and we would be sexual, except she takes an antidepressant which has eliminated her sexual response. While I know ultimately her switching medicines is the solution, I wanted to know does this generally [...]