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Archive for July, 2008

LOLZ Do Naughty Things When Ur Not Lookin’

Cockblogging Wednesday 113

Sorry ladies (and gents), this one’s taken already.This week’s cock was sent in (with permission) by the Fiancée of the cock!
(click img to get that cake topper out of the way!)
“Hi Shay – This is my boyfriend. He’d like to be an anonymous participant in CBW. Anonymous for both of us is best – [...]

Too much Stress About Porn and Virginity

Two questions from the same reader? Sure, they can go in the same post!
“Hi, I’ve been reading your column for a while now and I had a question I just couldn’t help but ask. When I was a teenager I moved to a very small and very religious town. It wasn’t soon before [...]

Product Review – G-Swirl

The G-swirl Aka. The Stubby G is packaged like an action figure: it’s a cool looking toy that comes in a cool looking box with neat accessories (a little sachet lube and the all important AA batteries). The G is a Good Vibrations specialty toy, made by fun factory – sent to me [...]

Film Fridays – Best Summer Ever

Okay I wasn’t actually going to post this video this week, since it’s not especially sexy – BUT, I did see Dark Knight last weekend and haven’t been able to stop laughing at these shorts MTV Canada has been airing:Go B & J Supersquad!

Cockblogging Wednesday 112

This week’s lovely submission comes from Erik (click img):
“Hey Shay, I’ve been reading your blog for about a year now and I love the site. I thought about doing this for a while but never got around to it. Now that there’s a shortage of cocks I decided it was time to step [...]

Multi-part Answer to a Multi-part Question

Sometimes readers just can’t resist asking a whole bunch of questions all at once!
“Dear Shay,
This is my first time writing to you for adivice/answers. I love your blog and I have a couple of questions. Well, here it goes.
Tasting yourself. perfectly safe right? I’m a guy and I have tried my pre-cum, [...]

Oral Gratification – A Do It Yourself Guide

I often get e-mails from guys wanting tips for leaning how to suck themselves off, but being able to do it really depends on three things: how long your cock is, how flexible you are, and how patient you can be.
First of all, how long you are is going to have an effect on how [...]

Product Review – the Papillon

I am a sucker for a cute looking toy, so when Babeland sent me the Papillon, I couldn’t wait to get it out of the box and try it out.
The Papillon is a sleek looking little purple vibe; it’s waterproof, it’s silky – AND when you buy one, the company donates a portion of the [...]

Film Fridays – No Excuses!

Yet another wonderful clip from Man Stroke WomanIt sucks that women are so often forced into playing the role of “gate-keepers”, but I guess someone’s got to do it.