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“Lately I’ve been interested in trying… well the only term I could think of for it was ‘cheek fucking.’ Don’t know what to call it, but what I mean is humping my partner’s ass cheeks, rather than breasts. The concern I have is putting too much weight on my partner. If I were to do this with her lying down, I’m not quite sure how I can hold her cheeks together, and not worry about being too heavy :( Do you have any recommendations or tips? Thanks Shay!“
Ah yes, the age-old act of fucking the ass cheeks of one’s partner – this is also referred to as “hot dogging”, in case you were wondering. ^_~
I would suggest having her lay down on her stomach in front of you; you kneel on either side of her thighs (putting most of your weight on your knees), and then hold her ass cheeks together with your hands once your dick is in position. That should work just fine and be comfortable for both of you.
You will both find it more comfortable if you use a lubricant too – that way you won’t stick to each other once things start to heat up (though, you might be totally fine if you are uncircumcised).
You could also try it with both of you standing up in the shower (where the water or some conditioner will be your lubrication): for this you would just have her brace herself against the wall while you hold her ass cheeks together and bend your knees to move up and down between them, when you get tired she can take a turn moving herself up and down too. ^_^
Good luck !
I remember this being a fun alternative with one of my girlfriends who was uncomfortable with having intercourse. It also works okay pretty much regardless of the size of the girl, whereas smaller breasts make that kind of play difficult.
Ahhh…
The other side of the “thigh sandwich”
;-)
Haha I have quite a big ass thing, so I’ve always wanted to try this.
I’ve heard it referred to as ‘gluteal sex’ before. I’d definitely use lube though, and I’m uncut.
My wife has very large buns and, to my delight, they are also significant erogenous zones! Especially after she climaxes. Sometimes she even asks me to finger fuck her ass (She has hemorrhoids so anything larger isn’t fun.) which turns me on so much I can lose control unexpectedly.
Anyway, frottage of her ass is common sex for us. In fact, sometimes she gets so turned on feeling my cock against her asshole, she gets to moving and all I have to do is enjoy (while supporting myself on arms and knees). ;)
But this doesn’t answer the main question. Since the most important stimulation for a cock is along the bottom, squeezing the buns isn’t that big a deal for the guy. Just hold our body up with your arms (sexual push ups) and rub the crack. If she wants more contact, ask her for suggestions. And, yeah, my wife wants lube! And not just in case I miss the target zone!
the woman should lay down on her side that’s the best way i found and yes use k-y jelly