Clits and Orgasms
“i was sexually tramatized repeatedly during puberty and a pysiological effect of that is TINYYY clit. i cant seem to achieve true orgasm because there is little way to stimulate i. i dont even masturbate because i get so little pleasure out of it. is there anyway i can stimulate it? ”
I’m so sorry to hear about your childhood trauma, that is a terrible thing that no one should ever have to experience. The resulting psychological trauma can be very difficult to deal with, so I am very happy to hear that you are taking steps not to let your past get in the way of your present life being sexually healthy.
Obviously I don’t know exactly what happened to you when you were younger, but I do know that clits are supposed to be quite small and the vulva comes in all kinds of shapes and sizes (see HERE for examples). I don’t think that you should assume that you are abnormally small because of past trauma – it may be that yours is quite normal and you didn’t even realize it! :)
I’m not really sure what you mean by “true orgasm”; there’s no rule that says orgasms have to feel a certain way or be a certain “strength” – everyone is a little different are so are our orgasms. If you mean that you don’t think you’re orgasming at all, well…
It could be that you’re dealing with more of a mental block than a physiological one. For this, you might find the help of a sensitive sex therapist quite helpful.
If you do believe that you’re dealing with more of a physical issue, you could try any number of things to stimulate yourself – THIS post might help you.