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Archive for February, 2005

Get in "The Zone"

Erogenous zones. Everyone knows where the most popular ones are (let me give you a hint – the penis, the vulva, breasts, the lips). But, there are more than these few areas that can be erotically sensitive to touching, stroking, licking, nibbling, etc.The largest organ of your body is your skin and it’s got tons [...]

Question and Answer Sex-plosion!

[ This is the massive question and answer piece i did for the feature *two page spread* in the Ontarion's 'Love/Lust/Sex' Issue]In celebration of this special love/lust/sex issue of the Ontarion, the editors gathered up tons of questions from my readers for me to answer! So, here we go:
Dear Shay: What can I do to [...]

The Best Aphrodisiac…

[ This is the huge column entry I submitted for the 'Love/Lust/Sex' issue of the Ontarion]The word Aphrodisiac is derived from the name of “Aphrodite”, the Greek goddess of sexual desire/love, and it is usually used to refer to certain foods, drugs, or media that are used to “stimulate” sexual desire. There are a lot [...]

How Big is Big and more….

Dear Shay: Are “Blue Balls” for Real?
The Term “blue balls” refers to a vasocongestion in the testicles or vulva. This term is often used as an excuse to pressure a partner into having sex (usually by guys, though girls you could have used this as an excuse too if you wanted). Although most people don’t [...]