Here are a few tips to help make your sex life a little greener:

1. Turn out the lights. Even if you [...]]]> It’s Earth Day!
A day to raise awareness about how we can all do our part (even in small ways) to help preserve our planet and live healthier every day.

Here are a few tips to help make your sex life a little greener:

1. Turn out the lights. Even if you don’t have a romantic partner to share the night with, turn the lights out, light a few soy candles and treat yourself to a nice candle-lit meal followed by an extended session of naked play. I’m quite sure that you’ll find it quite…energizing . ^_~

2. On that note, now that the weather is finally getting warmer for my fellow Canadians, many of us are starting to think about getting our air-conditioners out of storage. Rather than turning up your air-conditioner (you really shouldn’t turn it lower than 25*C anyway), turn it off and take this opportunity to wear less around the house. Then set up a fan and see if you can really generate some heat with a partner or a  favourite toy. To me, it’s more exciting when you can get sweaty; besides, air conditioners can dry up a woman’s natural lube.

3. Speaking of lube, you might want to consider switching to a more ecologically friendly lube, there’s lots out there.

4. Many of us could also stand to be more ecologically friendly with our toys. Do a quick search in your area to find out where you can recycle your spent batteries, opt to use rechargeables, or try a toy that charges from an outlet.

5. When the motor in your vibrating toys does finally give out, don’t forget to drop it in the recycling bin if it’s mostly made out of plastic. If you live in the UK, do take advantage of LoveHoney’s rabbit amnesty program. Those of us in North America can use THIS sex toy recycling program.

6. While you’re at it, maybe you’ll want to check out getting yourself some more sustainable sex toys as replacements. Glass toys are better for you AND for the environment because their production is relatively non-toxic AND they are fully recyclable. A properly made wood toy made from sustainable organic wood might also be a good idea because it’s not going to leak any toxic phthalates and is biodegradable. You could even try using a metal toy! [P.S. if you already have a toy made from jelly plastic or pvc plastic, always use a condom when you play with it, this will help protect you from the chemicals used to make it squishy.]

7. Of course, instead of worrying about where to recycle your toys when they break down, you could just try to repair them yourself.

8. You can also find ways to use items in your house as sex toys. Remember this post about making your own sex toys? A nice firm cucumber makes a great dildo and can be peeled and eaten afterward – how much more ecologically friendly can you get with your sex toys?!

9. Rather than buying DVDs of porn, download or rent your porn online.

10. Use hemp rope for your bondage play rather than nylon (which emits green house gas).

Have a very sexy Earth Day everyone!

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She told him that if he was going to be submitting pics to be displayed to the world like this, he’d needs start taking better quality pix.  He says: “Then with the help of [...]]]> One of our recent CBW submitters had an interesting conversation with his girlfriend after she saw him up on The S Spot.

She told him that if he was going to be submitting pics to be displayed to the world like this, he’d needs start taking better quality pix.  He says: “Then with the help of her friend, they laid out exactly what I need to do to, including critiques of photos I was taking with their advice. I’ve got to say it was a pretty surreal night and I owe it all to you. Thanks.”

With Cocktoberfest coming up very soon we’re going to be needing a nice stock of photos from you – my male and my female readers – so this seems like a perfect time to go over some tips for taking good photos for your goodies. ^_^

1. The camera:  I do get a few photos sent in from people’s cell phone cameras and usually the quality is pretty bad on those.  If all you have is the camera on your cell, we do appreciate the submission, but if you have access to anything better… well obviously the picture is going to turn out better.  The best advice I can give the cell phone photographers is to make sure everything is well lit – that will help with the grainy-ness a little. Which brings us to our next point:

2. Lighting: there’s actually a lot you can play around with here.  If the room is well lit you won’t need to use a flash, which can be good because the flash can occasionally make things look shiny or red – unless that’s what you’re going for, which can be cool too.  Using a flash does let you play with shadows a little bit; like if, for example, you’re standing near a wall to photograph your dick from the side, the flash will cast a shadow on the wall.

3.  The Presentation:  here is where you can really get creative.  Think about what you want to show us: a sneaky shot with your wang hanging out of your fly, all nonchalant? A shot of your vag spread wide for all to see? A shot of you cock next to something for comparison (a banana? a beer? in a pint glass?)?  You using a toy?  Or just your dick, as hard as you can get it?
For this last one, I do have a couple of tips:  jerk off a little (really get that blood flowing); pick a good angle (consider setting your camera on a hard surface nearby and using the timer rather than trying to look down at it); and don’t grab your dick with your fist (unless your aim is to provide a mid-wank shot) because that can make you appear shorter – instead, try holding just around the base with a just few fingers.  If you’re really having trouble with angles, get a friend or lover to help you out by holding the camera for you.

4. Cropping: sometimes the best way to get a good shot is to set your camera further away and try posing with your whole body (standing up flexing, sitting/laying down wanking, on all fours from behind, etc) – you can always crop the photo later before you send it to me.  And speaking of cropping…

5. Location: picking a cool location for your photo can be part of the fun, you could use your office, your bedroom, the kitchen, the backyard, you car, anywhere really!  But keep in mind that I don’t want you to get arrested. ^_~ If you want to be more anonymous, you should keep identifying objects (like a mug with your name on it, or unique room decor, etc) out of the shot.  This is where cropping or posing in front of a blank wall or hanging sheet can come in handy.

I hope that gave you all some good tips for taking some sexy photos for upcoming CBW‘s AND for Cocktoberfest ^_^  I’m looking forward to seeing what you send in!  (Oooh and don’t forget the unspoken 6th rule – there’s bonus internet points for creativity ^_~.)  There’s a few more tips over on my post about making your own porn too!

You can send your submissions to the.s.spot(at)gmail.com

[P.S. Don't forget that people in CBW and Cocktoberfest pictures MUST be 18+ years of age and all photos must be taken and submitted with consent.]

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And you are going to be my first test audience!

Are you honoured? Oh good, maybe that’ll help convince you to go easy on me with the critiquing. ^_~

haha

And so, without further ado, I [...]]]> I’ve decided to dip my toe into the word of video blogging, my dear readers.

And you are going to be my first test audience!

Are you honoured?
Oh good, maybe that’ll help convince you to go easy on me with the critiquing.
^_~

haha

And so, without further ado, I present to you my video debut on the internets!

So what did you think?

You loved it?!
Great!

Psst, if you’re curious about the products I used in the video, you can check out the dildo HERE (remember when I reviewed it?) and the condoms HERE.

Wow… what should I do for my next vid!?

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This past weekend I once again participated in the CN Tower Climb to raise money for WWF’s initiative against climate [...]]]> Tomorrow is Earth Day.
It’s a day to raise awareness about how we can all do our part (even in small ways) to help preserve our planet and live healthier every day.

This past weekend I once again participated in the CN Tower Climb to raise money for WWF’s initiative against climate change. It was a lot of fun (and hard work – the CN Tower has over 144 flights of stairs)! But you don’t really have to work that hard to show our environment a little love while you’re loving yourself and/or a partner.

Here are a few tips to make your sex life a little greener:

1. Turn out the lights. This year I participated in Earth Hour by turning off as much of the electricity on my apartment as I could for one hour.  You don’t have to reserve this power saving for just one night a year – you can do it once a week (or more)! Even if you don’t have a romantic partner to share the night with, turn the lights out, light a few soy candles and treat yourself to a nice candle-lit meal followed by an extended session of naked play. I’m quite sure that you’ll find it quite… stimulating. ^_~

2. On that note, now that the weather is finally getting warmer for my fellow Canadians, many of us are starting to think about getting our air-conditioners out of storage. Rather than turning up your air-conditioner (you really shouldn’t turn it lower than 25*C anyway), turn it off and take this warm opportunity to wear less around the house. Then set up a fan and see if you can really generate some heat with a partner or favourite toy. To me, it’s more exciting when you can get sweaty; besides, air conditioners can dry up a woman’s natural lube.

3. Speaking of lube, you might want to consider switching to a more ecologically friendly lube, there’s lots out there.

4. Many of us could also stand to be more ecologically friendly with our toys. Do a quick search in your area to find out where you can recycle your spent batteries, opt to use rechargeables, or try a toy that charges from an outlet.

5. When the motor in your vibrating toys does finally give out, don’t forget to drop it in the recycling bin if it’s mostly made out of plastic. If you live in the UK, do take advantage of LoveHoney’s rabbit amnesty program. Those of us in North America can use THIS sex toy recycling program.

6. While you’re at it, maybe you’ll want to check out getting yourself some more sustainable sex toys as replacements. Glass toys are better for you AND for the environment because their production is relatively non-toxic AND they are fully recyclable. A properly made wood toy made from sustainable organic wood might also be a good idea because it’s not going to leak any toxic phthalates and is biodegradable. You could even try using a metal toy! [P.S. if you already have a toy made from jelly plastic or pvc plastic, always use a condom when you play with it, this will help protect you from the chemicals used to make it squishy.]

7. Of course, instead of worrying about where to recycle your toys when they break down, you could just try to repair them yourself.

8. You can also find ways to use items in your house as sex toys. Remember this post about making your own sex toys? A nice firm cucumber makes a great dildo and can be peeled and eaten afterward – now that sounds like an ecologically friendly sex toy to me!

9. Rather than buying DVDs of porn, download or rent your porn online.

10. Use hemp rope for your bondage play rather than nylon (which emits green house gas).

There you have it!
Have a very sexy Earth Day everyone!

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I believe we have now established that putting smallish objects inside your bum is a bad idea; even something like [...]]]> On Monday we talked about a young man who wanted to experiment with anal stimulation, but foolishly made a very bad choice when he was looking around his house for something to put up his bottom.

I believe we have now established that putting smallish objects inside your bum is a bad idea; even something like those travel bottles of shampoo, or your stick of deodorant would not be good. You need to look for something with a flared base, not something that just widens at the end.  [As AAG can attest, even sex toys that look okay for bum play sometimes aren't and the same definitely goes for household items too.]

While you don’t want items to be too small, you also need to pick things that aren’t too big: pringles tins,  pop bottles, a flashlight – these are all OUT.  If you’re new to the scene – which I’m assuming that you are, since you’re scouring your house for things to insert – you don’t want to push yourself too far too soon, you could really hurt yourself.  One should always try starting with a gentle finger: it’s unlikely to get lost, it’s unlikely to stretch you too far or go too deep, and it’s movable. :)  [In fact, you should go read my post on prostate massage HERE right now.]

Finally, it’s important not to pick something that could be dangerous: bottles used for storing chemicals or acidic cooking ingredients, breakable items (shot glasses, glass bottles, ornaments etc), or items that are sharp or rough in any way – these should all be AVOIDED.

So what COULD you try using when you’re looking for a little bum play and don’t have an appropriate toy yet?  How about the rounded handle of a hairbrush? Because of the wide brush head, you’re very unlikely to lose this one up your bum and the rounded handle is unlikely to cause damage to your insides (just remember to take it really slow and stop if it hurts).   And for sanitary reasons, I do recommend slipping a condom over the handle before you play with it.

In conclusion, I want you to follow these simple rules: if it’s breakable – don’t put it in your bum; if it’s small – don’t put it in your bum; if it could hurt you in any way – don’t put it in your bum; if there is any remote possibility that it could slide all the way inside, whether you’re holding on to it or not – don’t put it in your bum.

Hopefully the next time one of you goes looking for something to stick up your bum, you’ll think for a moment and decide not to risk hurting yourself or ending up embarASSed in an emergency room.  I’m all  for having fun and trying new things, but it’s important to be smart and safe about what you decide to try. ^_^

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First of all, how long you are is going to have an effect on how [...]]]> I often get e-mails from guys wanting tips for leaning how to suck themselves off, but being able to do it really depends on three things: how long your cock is, how flexible you are, and how patient you can be.

First of all, how long you are is going to have an effect on how easy it is to get that cock into your mouth. It’s simple math, a guy with an 8 inch dick is going to reach his cock-head 2 inches sooner than a guy with 6 inches. This, of course, doesn’t mean that you should give up if you’ve got a little less length – it just means that you’re going to have to be a little more patient with your body and work a little harder.

Next, flexibility; the average North American is not terribly flexible, for some reason many of us spend way too much time sitting in front on computers or televisions and not enough time working out. And even when they do work out, many neglect stretching. Thank goodness for Yoga’s rise in popularity.

For years I have been encouraging my male friends to try yoga: it’s good for you and it can be a great way to meet women. But yoga brings another benefit that men can enjoy – it can help build the flexibility needed for giving yourself a bowjob!

But when you are trying to work on getting more flexible for autofellatio, don’t just look up yoga postures online and try to do it alone, you risk hurting yourself pretty bad – sign up for a yoga class so that you can have a professional teach you the positions.

What kinds of positions you ask? Well, there are a few that could work.

One is the frontbend, where you just lean over forwards and pop your cock into your mouth (if you’re lucky) – this is a remarkably hard position to use though, very few grown men can actually use this one.

The other most popular position (in fact, the one I would chose) is the “plow” position from yoga – this one uses gravity to help get you closer to your goal.

[Make sure that you remember the name of this position so that you can ask your yoga instructor to work on this one with you - that way you can avoid giving away your true intentions by saying something like "I wanna learn the one that lets you suck your own dick." ^_~ ]

This is a position that you can also work on a little by yourself with the help of a wall to help support your feet, but you’ll have to be extreemly careful not to hurt youself and to take things really really slow.

Which brings me to the next requirement: patience. Building your flexibility can take a long time, so don’t expect to be able to deep throat yourself after one yoga class. It’s super important to respect where your body is at and to not push yourself into any position where you feel pain. A serious back injury is not worth the fleeting pleasure of self gratification. Take things slow and let the anticipation build until you’re able to self-suck safely.

When you think you’ve reached the point where you’ve become flexible enough to suck your own cock, set aside some time to prep; take a hot bath to relax your muscles, do some warm up streches to prep your spine, get into a comfortable position, and have at it. See if you can discover any tips to pass on to your partner. ^_~

P.S. girls, if you’re flexible enough, you could try it too.

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Summer vacation is coming up (or already here) for those of my readers who are university students. Many of you [...]]]> This is an updated version of a very old post; this was recently published in the paper I write for and Fleshbot actually ended up featuring it, which was kinda cool but also kinda weird.

Summer vacation is coming up (or already here) for those of my readers who are university students. Many of you will be returning home for the next four months. For those of you who found a sweetie while at school, this means having to endure a temporary long distance relationship (LDR).

LDRs can be pretty hard on the sex life, but one way to keep the fires of love burning is to maintain regular contact. Not just the “I miss you more. No, I miss you more” phone calls, I’m talking about more intimate contact: the phone sex, cyber sex, web-cam strip teases, and of course, the e-mailed nude photos.

In fact, you could start making your own special porn collection right now and create an impressive photo album to help remind you both about why you’re putting yourselves through a temporary LDR.

Even if you aren’t facing an upcoming LDR, making your own porn can be a really fun way to spend some time together—with a hot souvenir!

Whether you are taking digital photos or filming your porn, you’ll want to make sure that your subject(s) look(s) their best.
I recommend using soft lighting, but not too dim or the quality will be grainy. The pros actually used to keep their cameras a little out of focus (or smeared oil on the lens) because it reduces the fine detail captured and made their subjects look better — soft lighting can have a similar effect.
You can soften up the lighting in a naturally lit room by putting thin white paper or a white shower curtain over a window and setting up a piece of white Styrofoam opposite the window as a reflector.

Another good way to look your spiciest is to keep your “problem areas” covered. If you hate your thighs, wear a skirt; if you hate your calves, keep them out of the shot; if you hate your ass, film it in flattering ways or not at all.
You can make your ass look nicer on camera by bending over and sticking it out — that makes the muscles look tighter and irons out dimples.
Guys, you can make yourselves look longer by giving your pubes a trim and shaving back any of the hair on your shaft.

They are your photos and you can do whatever you want, so if you love how your penis looks from the side, film it from the side; if you’re proud of your breasts, make them a feature. Remember, just because you’re trying to take sexy pictures, it doesn’t necessarily mean you have to be fully naked, only show off the parts of your body that you like the best!

Now, let’s think about what you want to do in the pictures/film. Do you want to be taking your clothes off frame by frame? Do you want to be masturbating? Do you want to be having sex with your partner or another consenting adult?
Decide what you want to show and how you want to show it. If you are feeling really professional, you might even want to draw up a storyboard. ^_~

It’s also important to consider why you are filming or taking pictures of this. Are you photographing your partner for your private collection? Photographing yourself for a partner who is far away? Or is it for your amateur porn site that you created to help pay for textbooks?

You’ll want to set up shots that will be pleasing to your target audience; if it’s photos for your partner, why not ask them to tell you what they’d like to see or even have them direct the shoot and photograph you themselves. If it’s for your own amateur porn site, well, you’re going to find tip #3 very useful.

Next, pick your venue. Public places might not be a good idea because you risk being found and fined for public nudity; besides, it might be hard to explain to the staff at the library why you were naked in the stacks with your strap-on.

I recommend sticking to private places: your bedroom, your office, your lab. Places where you are not going to be interrupted mid-shoot and where you can feel free to do whatever you want.

If you don’t have a tripod, it’s also a good idea to choose a venue that has shelves or other surfaces to put the camera on while you shoot.
Set the camera up on the surface and check the display. Make a note of what parts of the room are in the frame so that you can stay in the shot. The beauty of digital technology is that you can even take a few test pictures of yourself to help pick the right place to stand/sit/kneel/lay so that you and/or your subject look best.

Try out some poses for the camera, think about poses you thought were hot in porn, and keep checking your pictures to make sure you like what you’re seeing. But, above all, have fun with it! You’re now a super sexy amateur porn star!!

Bonus Tips:

1. If you are using a flash, don’t put the camera below whatever you are shooting unless you are shooting a close-up. If the flash is below the subject of the shot, the whole upper half of your amateur porn star will be cast into very non-sexy shadow.

2. Instead of saying “cheese” try saying “prune” to get a sexy pout going.

3. Need a “cum” shot? Try using egg whites as a substitute for the real thing. It’s easier to control exactly where it goes and you can get ridiculous portions if you want.

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* For those of us who use battery powered vibes, we can recycle our batteries when they dieoreven better, we can use rechargeable batteries.

* Instead of just throwing toys away when they break, why not try to repair them yourself?or/andcheck out my guide [...]]]> There are plenty of sexy ways for us to preserve our planet

* For those of us who use battery powered vibes, we can recycle our batteries when they die
or
even better, we can use rechargeable batteries.

* Instead of just throwing toys away when they break, why not try to repair them yourself?
or/and
check out my guide to making your own sex toys from household items!

* Instead of buying yourself a silicone dildo – invest in the most eco friendly sex toy around, the cucumber!
It’s all natural, organic, won’t leach harmful chemicals, cheap, AND after your orgasm, you can re-use it by peeling it and throwing it into your salad with dinner!

* Still need a new toy? Check out Babeland’s eco friendly sex kit.

* Conserve energy by having sex earlier in the afternoon/evening so that you don’t have to keep the lights on at night – or have sex by candle light tonight.

* Interested in the movement, but not interested in any of the above?
Well, you can still enjoy some hot, all natural, hippie goddess porn!

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But, as I sliced through the pumpkin flesh and pulled out the gooey insides in preparation for [...]]]> I love pumpkins! I love how they look, all orange and round and happy. I love how they taste; delicious pumpkin pie and crunchy roasted pumpkin seeds are the best in October. And, most importantly, I love carving pumpkins.

But, as I sliced through the pumpkin flesh and pulled out the gooey insides in preparation for Halloween this year, it occurred to me that there are ways to carve up your pumpkin so that it can love you too.

For one thing, before you hollow out your pumpkin, you could carve a medium size hole into one side of your pumpkin and a small hole on the other. The medium sized hole should be just the right size for you to shove your dick inside and pump your pumpkin. Cover and release the small hole to vary the sensation of suction on the backstroke.
(For best results, trying warming up your pumpkin a little bit.)
^_^
Of course, not all of us have the right appendage to love a pumpkin in this way — but that doesn’t mean we can’t have our own fun ignoring the trick-or-treaters, too.

With a little clever knife-work, you could make yourself a frottage pumpkin. Simply lay your pumpkin on its side and draw one large oval with one small oval and one small circle inside. Being careful not to cut all the way through the pumpkin flesh, carve out a substantial amount of the pumpkin flesh inside the large oval, leaving the small oval and circle behind, sticking up. The raised circle will be your vaginal plug and the small raised oval will be your clit stimulator. Carve some ridges into your clit stimulator for the extra texture that will (hopefully) make this all worthwhile. Next, wrap your pumpkin in a couple of layers of plastic wrap, squirt on some lube, and set your pumpkin on the floor or on a small sturdy table or chair. Then it’s time to turn your speakers up enough to drown out the doorbell and grind your way to pumpkin-y ecstasy.
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Of course, if you’re someone who needs something a little more… substantial to get off, you could always try mounting your favourite dildo into our spheroid orange friend. It’s easy: just lay your pumpkin on its side and trace around the base of your dildo, then draw another circle a few inches wider than your tracing. Cut out a hole, the same diameter as your dildo, in the middle of your big circle. Then cut out the big circle on an inward angle — like when you cut the lid of a jack-o-lantern. Scoop out some of the pumpkin flesh from the underside of your “lid” to make a niche for the base of your dildo so that it sits flush and securely. Fit the “lid” back on the pumpkin, wash everything down, place the dild-pumpkin on your bed or floor, crank the tunes, and ride ‘em cowgirl (or cowboy)!
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Pumpkin fucking not your kind of thing? Your house-mates/family/partner would prefer that you carve something that could be put on display? Well, there are other ways to express your pumpkin love.

Who’s to say that you can’t create a lovely pumpkin depicting a blow-job in progress, two lesbians in a 69 or even a simple penis or vagina? With a lit candle inside, your blow-job pumpkin could be quite beautiful and set the perfect mood for this year’s Halloween party.

On the other hand, instead of carving something on your pumpkin, you could carve your pumpkin into something interesting, get creative, you could make a whole setup – like this lovely image of pumpkin tentacle sex. (Thanks AAG‘s mom)
What’s that? Oh, your house-mates/family/partner DID say that you can’t carve anything explicit into the pumpkin? Well, if you must carve a family-friendly pumpkin this year (or even if you don’t), there is one more way to really love your pumpkin: make a pumpkin-goo masturbator!

Here’s how: when you’re at the store buying the pumpkin, pick up two extra produce bags. As you prepare to carve your pumpkin, scoop out all of the gooey insides and put them into one of your plastic bags, picking out as many seeds as you can. When your pumpkin is all done, slide the plastic bag filled with pumpkin goo into an empty container (like a tennis ball canister or a 1L water bottle with the top cut off), fold the top of the bag open over the edge of the container and use an elastic band to hold it down. Next insert your second plastic bag into the middle of your pumpkin goo, open the top and secure the edges under the elastic band. Squirt a little lube in the inner bag and pump away until the party guests start to arrive!
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With a little pumpkin love, you’re sure to have a very happy Halloween this year.

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Here is a catalogue (which will be kept updated) of my posts answering reader questions.Enjoy! ^_^

Genital Topiary (men)Ouch Not So Hard!Using Vibes While PregnantGet Hard(er)?What to do about wanting to Suck CockThreesomes and InfidelityCondom ConversationMaking The Move“Average” [...]]]> Have you been longing to view a collection of my answers to reader questions?
Well your wait is finally over!

Here is a catalogue (which will be kept updated) of my posts answering reader questions.
Enjoy! ^_^

Genital Topiary (men)
Ouch Not So Hard!
Using Vibes While Pregnant
Get Hard(er)?
What to do about wanting to Suck Cock
Threesomes and Infidelity
Condom Conversation
Making The Move
“Average” Penis Size?
Porn Addiction
“I Want Her to Want my Cock”
Sex = Teamwork
Going Bare Down There
Cum Stains
Positions in Hentai
Baby Powder for Pussies?
Swinging Etiquette
Sex Toys from Household Items
How to Help Him Cope with Gushing
A Personal Question
Jerking off to Grow?
Baby Making
How Ejaculation Happens
More Ejaculation Questions
Asking for Trimmed Bush
Girls Masturbating
“I want her to cum too!”
UnSticky Lubes
Blow Job Issues
Bedroom Jitters
Finding Casual Sex Partners
Unfaithfulness
Is She Faking?
Do I Need Anal Douches?
Tips for post-sex cleanup
Pubic Hair Expectations?
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Introducing New Toys to Your Partner
Condoms and Pregnancy and Sperm – Oh my!
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Hymens and Masturbation
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Latex Allergy and Condoms
Where The S Spot came from
Condom Slip-up
Am I a Panty Sniffing freak? (two answers)
Bringing up Prostate Stimulation
Flowback
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Masturbation and your Period
TMS
Is Masturbation Sex? (two answers)

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Sparing his Knees
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Advice for First Timers
Porn for Her
Penis Questions
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In Search of Female Domination
Small when Soft = Problem?
Porn and/or my Relationship?

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