“Hi Shay, I know Valentine’s Day is still more than a month away, but it’s never too early to start thinking of gifts for that special someone. I was thinking of getting my boyfriend a sex toy for Valentine’s Day, and to be exact, a Fleshlight. However, I’m not too sure if it is an appropriate gift or is it too much for him. We do talk dirty and have phone sex. Also, I’m still a virgin, but he is no longer one. Do you think giving him a sex toy would be rather inappropriate considering our relationship is a rather short one and that we haven’t been that intimate with each other yet. And would it give him a wrong impression of me cause I don’t want him to think that I’m ready to have sex with him yet. So do you think I should get him a sex toy for Valentine’s Day, or go for something safer? Or should I prepare both something safe and a sex toy? Like the sex toy being a special surprise for him?
I would really hope to hear from you soon. And keep up the amazing job on The S Spot! I have been reading it for more than a year, maybe even close to 2 years now and it has educated me a lot. :D“
You’re right, imho it’s never too early to get a jump on gift shopping!
Since you two do enjoy having phone sex together, a Fleshlight sounds like it might be a really good idea – it’s something he can play with while he’s on the phone with you, and you’ll be able to hear how much he’s enjoying it. It might also be something that you can use with him when you’re there in person too, but aren’t feeling quite ready to have sex with him yet.
I don’t know if giving him a masturbation sleeve will necessarily make him think that you’re ready to have sex with him, but it certainly is a sexy kind of gift and does suggest that you’re open minded and interested in fun.
I’m also not sure how long you’ve been together, but you must be feeling pretty strongly if you’re thinking of dropping the cash to get him a Fleshlight. ^_~
Valentine’s day is the best gift-giving occasion to get someone a sex toy, so I don’t think you need to worry too much about setting up a “safe” gift option for him. That said, you do know him better than me, and if he seems like a more conservative or conventional type of person, maybe you’ll want to save the Fleshlight for the second V-Day you two celebrate together.
Have Fun! 
P.S. Did you check out my fleshlight reviews? There’s the Original and the Succudry! There’s also the Tenga sleeve (tho it’s not as durable).
Thanks for answering my question!
Now my worries and hesitation of buying a sex toy has lessen.
Let’s hope he doesn’t get taken aback by this gift on Vday.