“The thing is, I’m interested in exploring anal play, but I’m not with anybody right now. I’ve read a lot about safe anal stuff for two, but I’ve never read hygiene specifications for one. What’s the right way to go about this?“
Thanks for writing to me, I always appreciate e-mails from my readers. ^_^
A lot of authors do tend to take a more couple oriented focus when they talk about anal play, neglecting the sexy singles out there who want to give the backdoor a try too! But you can apply a lot of the same tips to solo exploration too:
Wash your hands and toys thouroughly
Be gentle
Use condoms to protect toys
etc
I wrote a piece on anal sex myself just over a year ago but recently updated it; HERE is the link to an updated version.
In this piece I do outline tips for both couples and solo explorers.
Anal play can be really good and really intense, but it’s important to respect your body and keep yourself safe.
Have fun!
Great post, Shay.
Love the cartoon, too ! How can cute be so sexy ?!?
Went to the link you provided, and I think you definitely covered everything that matters !
It makes me want to go play…now…
Happy Sunday !
Sincerely,
Anne Elizabeth
poor singles
it’s true nearly all sexual advice you read is always for couples.
luckily shay is looking out for us all
i’m all for anal play, but i only do it by myself for the time being.
i use a condom for ease and cleanliness and lots of lube.
best of luck!
AE – Thanks hun, I’m so glad that you liked the piece. ^_^
exile – That’s me! Defender of the partnerless! ^_~
SinGal- Good girl, you’re a shining example hehe ^_^