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Aural Sex Contest – CLOSED

Sex is something I like to experience on a multi-sensory level when I can,
and, as we’ve discussed before, listening to the right music can really amp up the mood and get the “juices” flowing.

That’s why the lines of sex toys built to respond to music are so neat!
You can tune your orgasm to whatever song you’re hearing!
So, what does that have to do with anything?

Babeland just got the new Freestyle vibe in stock!What makes this particular toy so exciting is that it’s wireless!

You can plug the receiver into your MP3 player, turn up your favourite music, and use the vibrator without getting tangled in wires.
OR you can plug it into your stereo and hop into the shower/tub with the vibe (it’s water-friendly) – no wires, no risk of ruining your music player, just sexy times with your music AND your vibe!
Plus, the Freestyle is rechargeable.

Now what I want to know is (and this is where the contest part I mentioned comes in),
What songs do YOU think would be the sexiest to vibe to?

Type your suggestions into the comment section below and YOU could be lucky winner of your very own Freestyle Music Vibe from Babeland!

[Contest is open to Canadian and US residents 18 years old and up.  Contest ends AUGUST 31st.]

Psst – if you can’t wait to see if you win it, be sure to enter the coupon code MUSICVIBE when you buy your Freestyle and you’ll get a $10 downloadable music giftcard and a little bottle of Babelube. ^_^



Comment from Amber
Time August 8, 2009 at 2:08 pm

Just about anything by Puscifer (he’s SO sexy) but in particular, his song “Rev 22:20.” Either the original or the Dry Martini Mix. Mmmmmyeah.

Comment from Jake
Time August 8, 2009 at 2:37 pm

Maybe Moloko – Pure Pleasure Seeker – the recorded rather than live version is a bit faster too, either one would be hot, depending on the mood…

Comment from Hugo
Time August 8, 2009 at 2:43 pm

it depends on how it reacts; if it get his kicks from heavy bass line… i would recomend anything by ozric tentacles (ofr example, cat dna)
but if it vibrates acording to the rythm and speed of the song… heavy metal all the way

Comment from Samantha
Time August 8, 2009 at 2:56 pm

I am going to have to say that the entire CD Devour, Rise, and Take Flight by Android Lust would be a great choice. Not only does it have the perfect variations of vibes from the bass, but the content is also sexy to me… titles like Body and Lover Thine? Come on… 0;)

Comment from DangerousLilly
Time August 8, 2009 at 3:27 pm

“Untouched” The Veronicas. It has a nice fast pulsing beat to it.

Comment from Sammi
Time August 8, 2009 at 5:17 pm

I think Closer by Nine Inch Nails and anything by the Talking Heads would rock this vibe.

Comment from Mihal Aviri
Time August 8, 2009 at 5:21 pm

Hm, Johny Cash, and Pat Benetard. Both have made things in the past work much better, I have to say that Johny is much better for the raver chicks and Pat for the country lovers.

Comment from Simon
Time August 8, 2009 at 5:52 pm

I’d say Everlong by Foo Fighters.

Comment from Darthbane
Time August 8, 2009 at 7:16 pm

I’d think most any Nine Inch Nails would be good, as would some Beastie Boys. I’d probably have to get my wife to try it out with Rush’s ‘One Little Victory’… just to see what happens >:)

Comment from Jon
Time August 8, 2009 at 8:06 pm

Christian Woman by Type O Negative

Comment from Kitty
Time August 9, 2009 at 12:34 am

I hope there isn’t a song limit! I have a list made all ready in hopes one day I can afford it.

“Filthy Gorgeous” Scissor Sisters
“Ice Ice Baby” Vanilla Ice
“Twisted Transistor” Korn
“Feeling Good” Muse
“Sexual Revolution” Macy Gray
“Tiptoe” Goldfrapp
“Power Struggle” Sunna
“Remedy” Seether
“Grounds for Divorce” Elbow

Comment from dave
Time August 9, 2009 at 3:04 am

Drum and bass might be good… I wonder, though, as most songs are fairly repetitive, especially in the bassline, whether it would get boring over the course of a song… perhaps stitching together minute-length snippets of songs with different cadences, increasing in tempo and intensity over the course of the set… start out with something slow, like a hip-hop beat, maybe, then work up to something frenetic like drum and bass for when you get closer to the climax.

As for a track recommendation, maybe try CLS & Wax – Quite Perfect. Plenty of frenetic energy and enough variation in the track to make things interesting.

Comment from Aurore
Time August 9, 2009 at 11:04 am

1812 Overture by Tchaikovsky

Comment from n
Time August 9, 2009 at 2:01 pm

i would definitely have to go with some hip hop with heavy beats.

Comment from dakodak
Time August 9, 2009 at 11:05 pm

I think Closer from Nine Inch Nails would be great

Comment from Matt
Time August 10, 2009 at 9:24 am

Through the Fire and the Flames by Dragonforce, or anything with a fast kick pedal.

Comment from amber
Time August 10, 2009 at 2:07 pm

mmm I bet Prince songs would be fab to us with this. Lets Go Crazy and Raspberry Beret, and Gett Off. Prince music already gets me going, but having an orgasm while listening and feeling the music? um, yes please!

Comment from cindy
Time August 10, 2009 at 10:58 pm

Gold Lion: Yeah Yeah Yeahs
She Wants to Move: N.E.R.D
Ulysses: Franz Ferdinand

They all have this sensual beat to them that I can imagine being great.

Comment from Valyn
Time August 11, 2009 at 12:45 am

#1 Crush by Garbage

Comment from Melen’s Rayne
Time August 11, 2009 at 11:28 am

Anything by Enigma. Not only is their music just amazing and sensual, but the beats, I’m sure, would be amazing.

Comment from David Ogilvy
Time August 11, 2009 at 3:57 pm

I would hook up a microphone to it, and just start talking. Nothing would beat your lover being able to control your toy’s vibration using his own, sensual voice.

Comment from Victoria
Time August 12, 2009 at 9:50 am

“Closer”: by Nine Inch Nails, or anything Dance like. I’d really like to have “Love Games” by Lady Gaga or “Cream” by Prince though.

Comment from Sophia
Time August 12, 2009 at 1:29 pm

Luna by Smashing Pumpkins

Comment from Simar
Time August 12, 2009 at 2:21 pm

ANY drum-n-bass or dub step track.

Sounds (and feels) like good times. ^_~

Comment from Danielle
Time August 12, 2009 at 5:30 pm

I think anything by Rob Zombie would be great. I mean, the man writes songs about sex, chicks and horror flicks and he has that great gravely voice. “American Made Music to Strip By” it an amazing album and I think the “Dragula” remix has just the right amount of throb to it to make it good!

Comment from J.
Time August 12, 2009 at 6:01 pm

Last of the Mojicans soundtrack. Enough said.

Comment from Zoltan
Time August 12, 2009 at 7:30 pm

If feeling romantic:
Knights in White Satin – The Moody Blues

If feeling animalistic
Lion King – Circle of Life

If feeling like I need to cum this second:
Venetian Snares – Die Winnipeg Die Die Die Fuckers Die

Comment from Chris
Time August 12, 2009 at 11:04 pm

I’d bet anything from Nightwish or Lacuna Coil would probably be awesome, I totally want to check this toy out with my girlfriend =) The melodic lines and some of the songs with symphonic orchestras would be so much fun to get off to.

Great post, I’m totally going to check out this vibe on Babeland right now =D

Comment from Ken Wilson
Time August 13, 2009 at 2:44 pm

Love the idea. I can imagine putting together a playlist to get Jen off. Mmmm.

Comment from Heather
Time August 17, 2009 at 6:04 am

I think Drive by Melissa Ferrick to get warmed up and then I’m a Bitch, I’m a Lover by Alanis Morissette.

Comment from jo
Time August 17, 2009 at 9:06 am

Personly I dig nasty funk–parliment, funkadelic, james b. and old Prince

Comment from Shag Tis
Time August 18, 2009 at 7:05 am

Heather: The song “Bitch” is by Meredith Brooks, not Alanis. Shouldn’t you know if you like the song this much? Isn’t it ironic?

Comment from Dee
Time August 18, 2009 at 10:32 am

Wow, this is a tough choice, though I think I’d go with “I Touch Myself” by The Divinyls. How appropriate, right?

Comment from Kathryn
Time August 19, 2009 at 5:59 am

Lets see for a warm up Anything by Luther Vandross and Pony by Ginuwinne, for the thumpping and bumping Touch too Much by AC/DC, Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap by AC/DC, Ballroom Blitz by sweet, Almost anything by Aerosmith

Comment from ephraim
Time August 19, 2009 at 3:22 pm

“Let’s Get Wet” by SoCalled, weird and clever and ecclectic and, in this case, sexy hip hop

Comment from nell
Time August 19, 2009 at 6:57 pm

Satisfaction – Benny Benassi. But only if you’re playing the video at the same time, heehee!

Comment from Rose
Time August 19, 2009 at 11:11 pm

I think some Russian techno would do well, like the song “Gde Ti” by D.I.P. Project, or “Nastroisya Na Menya” by Dima Koldun. More would be “Vulture” by Patrick Wolf, or “Bezotvetno” by Valeri Meladze…Oh! Or “Igolka” by Viktoriya Dayneko and Aleksey Yagudin…KINKY!

Comment from tattooeddad
Time August 20, 2009 at 7:23 am

Anything by The Lords Of Acid- Rough Sex and Rover would be excellent choices.

Comment from kd
Time August 20, 2009 at 12:04 pm

Anything by Prince would work for me!

Comment from Kat
Time August 20, 2009 at 4:19 pm

Definitely The Guild’s Do You Wanna Date My Avatar and almost anything by Abba or Goldfrapp!

Comment from Milla
Time August 20, 2009 at 6:23 pm

i would like to listen to Peter Brotzmann’s “My Balls/Your Chin” and “Sore Titties” and “Fuck De Boere”

Comment from Pepper
Time August 20, 2009 at 7:32 pm

I like Morcheeba’s “World Looking In,” although it’s a little slow and doesn’t offer a thumping bass, so I don’t know that it would be very effective.

How about Bloodhound Gang’s “The Bad Touch”? :P

Comment from Gecko
Time August 22, 2009 at 10:36 am

Obviously “Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger” by Daft Punk. What better way to vibe then to the love robots?

Comment from Pretty Kitty
Time August 22, 2009 at 12:42 pm

“Drumbone” a song from the Blue Man Group, because it has rhythmic pulses in it, and it builds to a nice crescendo at the end, just like you’d want it to.

Comment from Red
Time August 23, 2009 at 6:34 pm

Something with some serious base, I’m thinking some hip-hop might be the answer. Like, old school Ice Cube or Snoop Dogg. I’d have never have tough “Gin and Juice” could be sexy till just now, but I think it would rock with this vibe.

Either that, or the entire Massive Attack “Mezzanie” album.

Comment from Colombine
Time August 25, 2009 at 3:26 am

Led Zepelin – Stairway to Heaven. It begin slowly and became very hard….and more it last long!

Comment from Alisa
Time August 26, 2009 at 6:11 pm

Not A Virgin Anymore by Poe. It’s been my favorite stripping song for years and I’d love to put on a different kind of show to this beat, not to mention the sexy lyrics.

Comment from blazngfyre
Time August 26, 2009 at 11:27 pm

I think Madrugadas “I’m in love” would be a great ride!

Comment from lilly
Time August 28, 2009 at 1:18 pm

I’ve had good results using anything by ‘The Faint’ and ‘Justice’. Techno and dance beats work well with music activated stuff.

Comment from phylum
Time August 28, 2009 at 1:23 pm

If my past experience with music controlled vibes is any indication, then something with heavy distortion and a strong beat. I’ve yet to try it, but Justice’s live album ‘A Cross the Universe’, seems like it’d be excellent.

Comment from Savs
Time August 30, 2009 at 3:01 am

I think that either Closer or Perfect Drug by Nine Inch Nails, Change by the Deftones, or several Placebo or Marilyn Manson songs would be great.

Comment from sterculius
Time September 1, 2009 at 10:14 am

My favorites would be “the dildo song”, “do you take it in the ass” and the unforgettable “cum on Eileen”.