“Hi um I’m a frequent reader and I was hoping if you can give me some advice for a problem of mine.
The last two times I had sex with my girlfriend I was able to last a while but I just couldn’t orgasm. But when I have sex with my friend who’s a guy I always cum. What’s wrong with me?“

Well, knowing hardly anything about you, I’d say that your problem could be due to any number of things.
It may be that you feel more connect in some way to your guy friend, or simply that you feel more relaxed and “free” with him.

It’s likely that sex with him also offers a different kind of stimulation than when you have sex with your girlfriend, and this could be the kind of stimulation that your body is used to getting off with. You could try simulating that same stimulation when you’re with her, or you may just find that your problem goes away with time; as you get used to being with your girlfriend and you become more comfortable with her.  If not, you may need to re-evaluate your preferences in the bedroom.

Good Luck!

Well, just for you, here’s a special presentation – as an encore -
created for us by the very talented Prospero:
(click through to see his presentation)

^_^

I hope you’ve had a good time
and that these photos have inspired you to be a little more daring in your daily life
and made you think about how much wonderful variety there is out there in the world!

Plus, whether you’re a person with man-parts or lady-parts, I hope they’ve inspired you to send in a pic for the first time too!

Before we get too mushy here, let’s get on to today’s submission!

“Hi Lady S, I really like your blog. Especially the cockblogging part. I’ve included a pic of my cock. I hope you like it and post it on your blog.“

And she’s all authentic with her cover up too (which SHE picked – very cool).
Just click-through if you want to see her, you know… naked

“Hi Shay!  I have been to Oktoberfest this year, so I though “why not join Cocktoberfest as well?” Unfortunately, I am of the wrong gender but I send you my pics anyway.
I also managed to find a suitable cover – one of those gingerbread hearts they sell all over Oktoberfest places. Mine says “greetings from Oktoberfest 2008″. The Bavarians would probably banish you forever for proposing that a doughnut goes with beer, so I suggest Bavarian veal sausage, a knuckle of pork or a pretzel for the next time ^.^
I like your blog very much, keep on going! ”

pfft there is no “wrong” gender, but maaaaybe I agree with you about doughnuts and beer.
^_~

You let me get away without posting a Cocktoberfest submission yesterday!

However, in my defense, I was busy testing out a strip-tease kit and massage bar – so you see, I was still thinking about you ^_~

Anyway, let’s get right to the submission, we’ve got a lot of exhibitionism to get to today  – and this particular submitter is frisky and has a lot to say!

“Hi Shay, it’s Chris. I haven’t talked to you in a while so I thought  I’d write. I hope things are going well. I’m still checking the site out semi-regularly, though not as often as I like.
I’ve filled out the porn experiment survey and got very horny while doing so. Anyway, I’ll be ending my night imagining you playing with yourself as you read people’s answers. ;)
I took this while thinking about you, Shay. I hope you and the readers like it. :)“

Actually, it kinda reminded me of this tongue machine, but on a much more reasonable scale;  you can keep it in your bedside drawer in your own home and use it whenever you want, without worrying about your power tools.   The Sqweel is a wheel of super soft silicone tongues that rotate at three different speeds (3 AAA batteries are included).  The idea is that this toy is supposed to simulate tongue lapping oral sex.

I wasn’t sure what this toy would be like, I imagined the tongues feeling rough or stiff, so I tested it on my neck first.  From the first touch I was impressed: those silicone tongues are so soft, they couldn’t hurt you unless someone chucked the whole toy at your head.  My fears assuaged, it was time to move on to the main review:

What I liked: I know I just said it, but it’s worth saying again – those tongues are super soft, and that really impressed me.  Even on the highest setting, they didn’t rough me up; as they rotate, they just sort of gently slap your clit (or wherever you’re using it). Plus the whole thing is really easy to grip and the controls are convenient to get at. It’s pretty quiet and discrete looking too when it’s closed, which makes it a decent stealth toy.

What I didn’t like: Although this toy certainly is different, I just didn’t find that the stimulation is provides felt like oral sex, though adding a squirt of lube definitely brings it a little closer (in fact, it comes with a tube of free lube until the end of Oct).  It also doesn’t work as well if you try to use it between your labia without spreading them first – it won’t rotate as well if there is too much pressure on the tongues.

This toy would be great for: anyone looking to try something totally different.  This could also be a fun toy to play with together, you can take turns using it all over each other.  Plus, with LoveHoney’s 360 Degree Guarantee (an orgasm or your money back)  it’s definitely worth a try.

The Sqweel provides a totally different sensation than any of my other toys, it gets a 7 out of 10:

We’re taking a tiny break from beer today
on honour of this festive occasion,
instead I’m serving you up a slice of pie

and of course, a nice pic

Today’s pic comes from Fully Naked, another regular Cocktoberfest participant (though he missed last year).

“Hey Shay.  I wanted to share these photos with everyone at the S.Spot for Cocktoberfest.  A little on the artsy side of what normally gets taken of my cock.“

~*~

P.S.  Come back tomorrow – I’ll be posting my review of LoveHoney’s brand new top secret toy: the Sqweel!

~*~

P.P.S
Since it’s Thanksgiving and all – tell me, what are YOU thankful for?

I’m thankful for my lovely readers, my brave/naughty CBW submitters, and all the lovely fun I get to have  in and out of bed (when I have the time).
^_^

You know what else is Fall-ish?
COCKTOBERFEST!!

I just realized that we only have three days left!
Enjoy it while it lasts people!

“Hey Shay. Got a pang of exhibitionism recently… good timing? I’ve always been proud of how my cock looks, even if it’s not enormous. Unfortunately, a lot of women do not appreciate that.“

Oh that was good timing!

But that doesn’t mean I don’t have a little room for some sausage as well today
^_~

Today’s submitter is a repeater, we saw him for CBW a couple of weeks ago, do you recognize him?

“Here is one for Cocktoberfest.  This should help with your stockpile.  BTW, these were all taken with a camera phone, the Nokia N95 8GB, it rocks! Oh, and my favourite Beer, there are 4. 1) Innis & Gunn, 2) Guinness, 3) Alexander Keiths, 4) anything cold“

Hmmm you CAN take good shots with camera phones!

How are you all doing out there?
I feel like my lurkers are being especially quiet these days,
so I just wanted to give a special shout-out to YOU!
Yep, you.
^_^

Also, have you sent in a pic for Cocktoberfest yet?
Last year I had to cut it short because I actually ran out of pictures
(shocking, I KNOW!)
You wouldn’t want that to happen again this year would you?

But enough chit chat, it’s Friday night and I’ve been eyeing this Tuborg all week!
Oh, there’s something underneath it.. hmm I wonder what it could be
^_~

“Shay, Love your blog.  I’ve been lurking for quite some time.
I wouldn’t want you to run out of images so I figured I’d send you this one. ”

See!
David wasn’t too shy to de-lurk!
^_^