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Hi, I'm Shay.

Welcome to The S Spot!

This is a positive space where I talk about sex/sexuality, publish my toy reviews/guides, and post some pretty sexy images and videos. ^_^

I also answer reader questions - so feel free to send me a message and ask me anything. (Check my archives to see what other people have asked too, maybe someone had the same problem you did!)

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New Poll!

I’ve put up a new poll in my sidebar kiddies!
So grab yourself a tissue and submit your answer!

(As always your answers are completely anonymous, I have no way of knowing exactly who chose which answer.)

**EDIT** After numerous “suggestions” I have altered the poll a little, if you have already voted on the first version please vote AGAIN.
For those of you that use more than one method on this list please select the option that you do THE MOST OFTEN.
And for the rest of you, please just select the option most similar to the one you do use.

How do you *Usually* Masturbate?
*ahem* I Don’t
using my hand Only
using my hand with spit
using my hand with Lube (any)
using my Fingers only (women)
using my Palm only (women)
by rubbing on Furniture
using Cloth (sock, blanket, etc)
using Water (e.g. shower head)
using a Toy
I have Someone else do it for me

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Comment from Madame X
Time September 11, 2006 at 6:28 pm

Where’s the ALL OF THE ABOVE choice?

Well…except A.

Comment from Anonymous
Time September 11, 2006 at 6:55 pm

There’s an option you missed for guys. Lots of men masturbate using cloth of some kind, be it a sock, a washcloth, a cheap shirt (think the type that you can get for just a few bucks apiece) and forego the lube. Minimal clean-up, and if there’s any concern about long-term cleanliness, the articles can simply be bleached when washing.

Plus, nobody gives a pile of laundry a second glance, but a pile of tissues near the computer can be a dead giveaway.

Comment from Anonymous
Time September 11, 2006 at 9:19 pm

What about guys who use just a hand, and no lubricants?

Comment from lost
Time September 11, 2006 at 10:45 pm

A soapy hand in the shower……. too many options shay….

Comment from horny guy
Time September 11, 2006 at 11:48 pm

i dont use lube….

Comment from single gal
Time September 12, 2006 at 2:22 am

toy, toy, toy, toy, toys!

Comment from exile
Time September 12, 2006 at 7:03 am

yeah, guys don’t get much when it comes to toys

a disembodied vagina just doesn’t it. a vibrator is a toy, but a pocket pussy just looks like something you’d find in a serial killer’s fridge… bleck

Comment from fred
Time September 13, 2006 at 2:18 am

From the results I think it’s safe to say that hands only is the only proper way to masturbate!

Comment from single gal
Time September 13, 2006 at 2:30 am

negative fred - toys, well for me anyways!

Comment from Shay
Time September 13, 2006 at 4:05 am

I don’t think there is a “proper” way to masturbate!

Comment from ross
Time September 13, 2006 at 4:09 pm

But he left out an important masturbatory piece of cloth: panties. Perfect for male masturbation. Love your site, by the way. I’m a new devotee.

Comment from ATL LG
Time September 13, 2006 at 4:50 pm

nevers = liars, of course maybe 5 year olds who can read and blog are out there

Comment from the old yankee
Time September 13, 2006 at 5:35 pm

Bingo, Shay! It doens’t matter how you jerk off, only that you do it, and do it in quantity!

Comment from Shay
Time September 14, 2006 at 12:31 am

Ross - ah yes! panties! Welcome to the crew Ross! I LOVE the avatar! ^_^

Atl - maybe the nevers are girls, some girls never have and don’t know how. Sad but true.

TOY - ^_^

Comment from Maikeru
Time May 24, 2008 at 10:30 am

In my case I have to answer with a semi-correct answer since no one else does it the way I do. I’d have to pick one of the women’s choices to be more correct. Coincidentally enough a friend of mine (who knows nothing of my sexual habits) once called me “a lesbian in a guy’s body”—a strangely apt description for more than just this situation.

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