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"I Need a Fucking Playlist"

A playlist to fuck to, I mean.

ChelseaGirl recently got an e-mail from a reader asking for tips on making a playlist to have sex to.
That got me thinking about my own ideal fucking playlist.

Truth be told, I don’t always hear the music once I start getting into the sex.

During my first year of University Matthew Good was my “sex music” of choice, but I found that I didn’t recognize any of the songs from the middle of the CD when I would hear it later. (Matthew Good’s voice still gives me very sexy shivers though, no matter the album).

But I still feel that it’s really great when you can get a whole CD that has great music for “getting in the mood”.

Zero Seven was my “baby makin’” music of choice for a long time (I still love the CD). The smooth and sexy music was great for during sensual extended foreplay (without getting too mooshy or overly romantic), fun during sex – I didn’t feel bad if I missed parts because the songs blend together nicely and it made some positions feel even more trippy – and wonderful durring the post-coital snuggle/nap because it was soft enough that you could sleep without jumping at music changes, but interesting enough that you could just lie there and listen to it.

However. If I were going to mash together some of my favorite songs that get me into a sexy mood and would be fun to listen to during some good honest fucking – this is what it would look like:

1. “Fuck Her Gently” – Tenatious D
2. “Smoke Baby” – Hawksley Workman
3. “Striptease” – Hawksley Workman
4. “My Perogative” – Britney Spears
5. “Cadilac” – Danko Jones
6. “Push It” – Garbage
7. “Summertime in the Void” – I Mother Earth
8. “Juicy” – I Mother Earth
9. “Hey Mama” – Black Eyed Peas
10. “Summer Romance” – Incubus
11. “Hello Timebomb” – Matthew Good
12. “Dub Be Good to Me” – Faithless & Dido
13. ” My American Partner” King Kobb Steelie
14. “Coax Me” – Sloan
15. “Below the Stars” – King Kobb Steelie
16. “Fated” Matthew Good
17. “Midnight in a Perfect World” – DJ Shadow

Now keep in mind, if I were to have sex listening to this playlist, I wouldn’t be hearing most of it – so don’t judge my taste in music too harshly ^_~

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Comment from Alex
Time December 10, 2005 at 8:37 pm

For me it’d be Garbage(Garbage), Version 2(Garbage) and Bleed Like Me(Garbage). I’m a guy of simple tatses.

Comment from Alex
Time December 10, 2005 at 8:38 pm

Oh, and bad typing!

Comment from :P fuzzbox
Time December 11, 2005 at 2:27 am

I prefer no music because I like sex sounds so much better. They are music to my ears.

Comment from feetman78
Time December 11, 2005 at 5:27 am

maybe I am old. I love to fuck to Marvin Gaye’s Lets Get It On. And I like to lick pussy to Sexual Healing.

Comment from AlwaysArousedGirl
Time December 11, 2005 at 6:10 am

I love your first choice. Fuck her gently…love it.

Comment from waha`
Time December 11, 2005 at 4:07 pm

Try Venus on the Forehead – Mum if you feel like in a machinated mood.

Comment from Naju
Time December 13, 2005 at 4:09 am

Oh man, a good playlist is crucial. Never leave it up to shuffle unless you want a disaster.

In my case, that disaster was ‘Chantilly Lace’ by Big Bopper. Brings a whole new meaning to the song. I challenge anyone to try and have sex through this song without laughing. :P

Comment from JUnderCovers
Time March 19, 2006 at 7:21 pm

Somehow I missed this when I backread your blog last month. You got me this time, I haven’t heard of most of these. Are they all Canadians? :) Are you like bound to have 75% Canadian content or something like that? Tenacious D is always good, and I love Garbage and Incubus, but most of the rest are blank slates for me. Thanks for the recs, will check them out.

Comment from Zombie
Time April 8, 2007 at 11:36 pm

Al Jarreau/Bob James-Since I Fell For You
Ali Farka Toure-Ai Du
Aloe Blacc-What Now
Amon Tobin & Kid Koala-Untitled
Anjali—Misty Canyon
Aphex Twin—Windowlicker
Art Of Noise—Moments In Love
Atlanta Rhythm Section—Spooky
Basement Jaxx—Get Me Off
Bat 67—I Want You To
Bitter:Sweet—Don’t Forget To Breathe, Heaven, Moody
Bjork—Hidden Place
Black Eyed Peas—Sexy
Boozoo Bajou—Astral Traveling
Brazilian Girls—Homme, Lazy Lover, Don’t Stop
Buscemi—Midnight Sessions
Iron & Wine—Burn That Broken Bed
The Cars—Moving In Stereo
Chris Isaak—Wicked Game, Baby Did A Bad Bad Thing, Blue Spanish Sky
Chungking—Following, Making Music
Cibo Matto—Sugar Water
Daft Punk—Something About Us
Dead Can Dance—The Ubiquitous Mr. Lovegroove
Def Leppard—Love Bites
Dirty Old Ann—Turn Me On(Filth Dub)
Dirty Vegas—Days Gone By
DJ Logic—Spider Dance
DJ Shadow—Midnight In A Perfect World
Dave Matthews Band—Crash Into Me
Deftones—No Ordinary Love
Don Felder—All Of You
Donald Fagen—True Companion
The Doors—The Spy
The Dust Brothers—Marla
Dusty Springfield—Son Of A Preacher Man
Echo & The Bunnymen—Lips Like Sugar(Way Out West Remix), Killing Moon
Elysian Fields—Black Acres
Enigma—Shadows In Silence, Sadeness, Smell Of Desire
Erikah Badu—On And On, Next Lifetime
Esthero—Beautiful Lie, My Torture, If Tha Mood
Etta James—Let’s Burn Down The Cornfield, A Sunday Kind Of Love
Faze Action—Close Your Eyes
Fiona Apple—Criminal, Slow Like Honey
Fluke—Baby Pain
Frou Frou—Let Go
Garbage—#1 Crush
George Michael—Father Figure
Golden Boy with Miss Kitten—Rippin Kitten
Goldfrapp—Train, Oh La La, Twist, Strict Machine, Slippage, Slide In, Ride A White Horse, Let It Take You
Gotan Project—Amor Porteno
Handsome Boy Modeling School—The Truth, I’ve Been Thinking
Hooverphonic—Mad About You
INXS—Devil Inside, Never Tear Us Apart
It Dreams—Feel It
Janet Jackson—Throb, That’s The Way Love Goes
Jem—Come On Closer, Falling For You
Jessica Vale—Disco Libido
Jose Nunez—Bilingual(Dirty Mix)
Kate Bush—Running Up That Hill, The Sensual World
Kylie Minogue—Slow, Chocolate
Latin Playboys—Lemon’n'Ice
Lesbians On Ecstacy—Tell Me Does She Love The Bass
Lords Of Acid—I Sit On Acid, Lover
Lovage—Pit Stop, Anger Management, Sex(I’m A), Strangers On A Train, Lifeboat, Book Of The Month, Stroker Ace, Archie & Veronica, Koala’s Lament, Lies and Alibis
Madeleine Peyroux—Between The Bars
Marcy Playground—Sex And Candy
Martina Topley-Bird—Anything, Sandpaper Kisses
Marvin Gaye—I Want You, Feel All My Love Inside, I Wanna Be Where You Are, Come Live With Me Angel, Sexual Healing, You Sure Love To Ball, Let’s Get It On
Massive Attack—Karmacoma, Angel, Teardrop, Intertia Creeps, Black Milk, Mezzanine, Weather Storm
Melissa Etheridge—I’m The Only One
Melissa Ferrick—Drive
Moloko—Fun For Me
Morcheeba—Friction, The Sea, Part Of The Process, Undress Me Now, Fragments of Freedom, Trigger Hippie, Tape Loop
Mz’ Diamond—Nasty Girl Wet, Passions Of Love
Nightmares On Wax—Les Nuits, Nights Interlude, Passion, Flip Ya Lid, Damn
Outkast—Funky Ride
Pink & Peaches—Oh My God
Paula Cole—Feelin’ Love
Peaches—F**ck The Pain Away, AA XXX, Lovertits, Set It Off
Pet Shop Boys—West End Girls
Peter Gabriel—In Your Eyes
Poe—Hey Pretty, Fingertips
Pole Folder—Abrasion
Portishead—Dummy(whole album), Humming, Only You, Undenied, Cowboys
Pulp—Seductive Barry
Rabbit In The Moon—Time Bomb
Rare Earth—Come With Me
Robbie Robertson—Golden Feather, Broken Arrow, Somewhere Down The Crazy River, Take Your Partner By The Hand
Robert Plant—Big Log
Sade—Smooth Operator, The Sweetest Taboo
Sarah Fimm—Be Like Water, Lioness, In The Red, Sexual Animals, Virus
Sarah McLachlan—Ice Cream, Possession(Rabbit In The Moon Remix)
Si*Se—More Shine
Sia—Breathe Me
Smoke City—Mr. Gorgeous (and Miss Curvaceous)
Sneaker Pimps—6 Underground, Spin Spin Sugar
Supreme Beings Of Leisure—Rock And A Hard Place, So Much More, Never The Same, Last Girl On Earth, Truth From Fiction, Nothin’ Like Tomorrow, What’s the Deal
Suzanne Vega—Caramel
The Temptations—Just My Imagination
Tiga—Hot In Herre
Tom Neville—Just F**k
Tori Amos—Rasberry Swirl, Juarez
Tricky—Overcome, Hell Is Around The Corner, Pumpkin, Aftermath, Suffocated Love, You Don’t, Hollow, The Love Cats
Underworld—Dark & Long
Malcolm McLaren—About Her(Kill Bill Soundtrack)
Violent Femmes—Color Me Once
Xlover—Faking It
Zap Mama—Bandy Bandy
Zero 7—Destiny, Distractions, In The Waiting Line, Passing By, In Time

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