Comments on: Yet Another Reason Why Stereotypes are Bad

By: Shay

Shay — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 06:20:23 +0000

Confused – try checking out this post: https://thesspot.org/?p=672

By: Confused

Confused — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 16:28:06 +0000

Shay can you give me a suggestion on a porno or type of porno I may be interested in? Oh, we are both very active at the gym…. I don’t want to get heavy….

By: Shay

Shay — Sun, 01 Feb 2009 07:30:04 +0000

So…. really you’re suggesting that she become less active to decrease her sex drive to match her husband’s? I dunno about that.

By: Hooeva

Hooeva — Sun, 01 Feb 2009 03:52:39 +0000

I’d suggest some fitness training. It may not be necessary to really work out, just use your bicycle or walk instead of going by car/train/bus whenever possible. 30-60 minutes a day of casual training can do miracles. Not only will you feel better in your body, it also increases your sex drive. The lesser fit you are, the lower your libido.

By: Confused

Confused — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 16:01:56 +0000

Thanks, maybe I’ll suggest a little shopping time…….

By: Shay

Shay — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 01:47:16 +0000

Ed, can you see me raising one eyebrow at you? because I’m doing it really hard. haha Not every man enjoys bj’s as much as you – in fact I’ve even dated a few who really werent’ that into them at all. Besides, you can’t just put sex points in the bank and expect to be able to withdraw them at any point regardless of his feelings or whether he’s in the mood or not – that’s just not fair. I wouldn’t want someone to do that to me, so I wouldn’t do that to anyone else.

By: steely_ed

steely_ed — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 01:29:00 +0000

l say give the guy a blowjob. Whether he wants sex or not he wont turn that down. When he comes home from work or wherever, pull his tool out (have a handywipe with you if you want it to be clean) and just give him great head. Don’t expect anything in return, you don’t even have to get him to pop, just an unsolicited blowjob. lt’ll be like money in the bank for you later. lt shows that you’re really into nookie and should bring him around. lt may take 3 or 4 times but l think you’ll get results

By: Shay

Shay — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 23:07:17 +0000

Confused – sure it might be “normal” for him to only want sex twice a week, but that doesn’t mean it’s “normal” for you too! Still, try not to be hurt if he does masturbate during the week; it’s not the same as having sex and it’s not necessarily like he’s “using up” the same horniness that he would tap into when he’s with you. See this post: https://thesspot.org/?p=1543

Rae – I aim to please ^_~

By: Rae

Rae — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 22:40:47 +0000

Oh Shay, you just know how to play to my needs at the moment

By: Confused

Confused — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 18:26:49 +0000

I’m fourty-three and my boyfriend is fourty-four. We’re in the same boat. I would like to have sex everyday!!! He’s happy with twice a week. We don’t live in the same house so that adds to the problem. He may get horney during the week and satisfy himself. As much as I try to not let that hurt my feelings, it does anyway. I would like to satisfy him as much as possible. He says it’s normal to only want sex twice a week, I believe that, but I don’t know how not to let it hurt when I’m not there and he feels the need to satisfy himself instead of waiting for me……