Shay,
I’ve been reading your blog for months now and love it. I’ve never commented or written before, but I’m really interested in your take on my “issue.”
I am almost 5 months pregnant. These pregnancy hormones are making me so horny that I basically feel the need to masturbate multiple times in a day. The problem: my husband doesn’t seem to be all that interested in helping out (with sex or masturbation that is).
I’m not sure if its my growing belly, or my own insecurities (he’s been really stressed at work), but I’m needing some reassurance that this pregnancy (it was planned) isn’t going to be the end of our sex life.
Any advice on how a pregnant girl can look as hot as she feels?
THANKS! “
Hi there!
Thanks for writing in, I love hearing from my readers. ^_^
It’s funny how people don’t often talk about how pregnancy hormones can make women really insanely horny – I know it catches a lot of couples off guard.
There could be many reasons behind your recent husband’s disinterest in sex. If you’re just starting to show some preggers belly now, it might be that he’s having trouble realizing that his wife can be a mother and a sexual creature at the same time. A lot of male partners can be confused and intimated by pregnancy because it’s something happening inside YOU and they can’t see the magic going on in there.
It might also be that he’s worried about hurting the baby by having sex with you. Or maybe he’s just stressed by work/life and hasn’t been feeling frisky lately – it happens to all of us from time to time.
I think that the best thing you can do, is to talk to him about your needs and try to get him to talk about why he might not be interested in sex right now.
Incidentally, if it is that he’s worried about hurting the baby by banging you, you can tell him that it should be fine at your stage of pregnancy (see HERE) and you can double check with your obgyn to make sure that it’s okay.
By the way, if you are worried about losing your hotness as your belly grows, you should know that many men find pregnant women incredibly erotic. PLUS these days there are a lot of super cute maternity clothes, so you don’t have to feel like a frump as the baby grows.
I’m sure your husband will come around – but it’s important that you talk to him so that this misunderstanding can get cleared up.
At the very very least, maybe you can at least convince him to get you some fun toys to help you make it through this dry spell. ^_~
Good luck!
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I am fascinated by your pregnant hentai girls!
that is a fabulous picture – love the strap-on sex!
I was sooo horney during my pregnancies, I did not give my sleeping ex husband a chance.
I became a sex goddess during my pregnancies…hit em in the morning.
like they are gonna kick you off em…puh lease.
I guess I turned kinda dom when I was preggers.
AAG – It is a pretty cool picture ^_^
Single – haha thanks! me too ^_^
Spitfire – I dunno, if he’s really not in the mood I could understand him turning me down, I mean I would turn him down too if I was too tired to “get it up” haha
i had a problem when my ex was pregnant both times. it wasn’t anything to do with her nor was it my sex drive (although i did find it was lower than normal. pregnant pheremones maybe?).
there’s someone in there!
i know, i know. i’m not that big (or long). i don’t think anyone is. then there’s the cervix. but there’s still someone in there. it kinda creeped me out to have sex knowing someone was in there.
i told her many times it had nothing to do with her but she would still ask.
Good Lord yes I find pregnant women attractive. Don’t ask me why, some sort of fertile woman. While I am single, I really want to make love, ok-lick, a hot prenant woman, The bigger the belly, the better.
I too am pregnant 5 months and been very horny. Have been masturbating a lot and already involved myself in two gangbangs. Actually there were 6 guys and I have tried all kinds of penetration by now. I do have a loving husband and he seems to like watching me get it on.
I am too 5 months pregnant & very horny. You have to look sexy for your partner. I am always in T shirt and low cut G-string panties around the house.Low cut G-string panties are the best as you don’t have to take them off when having sex. When I go out i put a minni skirt& t-shirt and don’t let the bump worry you. Since i got pergnant we are having sex at least twice a day more at weekends
Love being pregnant
Debbie
I am over 4 months pregnant being fairly trim my bump is showing. I am always in string bikini top and last week i changed to g strings panties as my bikini bottom was getting to tight. the g strings panties are more comfortable only one problem since i am very horny all the time thet get wet very quickly and they get stained after sex with my husband as I only have white cotton ones as my husband perfers them, it is a turn on for him. His hands are all over the baby bump,since i started showing he is more interested in sex. He is very proud of me when he takes to the beach wearing the g string as a bikini bottom