“Hi shay, long time reader, first time asker heh
My girlfriend and I love anal play, from rimjobs right on to full on anal fucking. I have heard a lot lately about anal douches and was wondering if they are a special kind of douche or just the regular every day kind, and if they are a special type, where we could find them. “
A lot of people worry about anal sex being “dirty” or messy, which is understandable considering that fecal matter (poop) is generally seen as unclean – which it kinda is. Feces (poop) is made up of indigestible/undigested food matter and can carry bacteria (like E.Coli) that live in the colon – it’s waste products from your body.
For many people, one of the main things holding them back from experimenting with anal sex is a disturbing image of accidentally getting poo on a toy or penis. But you need to keep in mind that feces isn’t actually stored in the rectum (where the penis and toys are going) until you are just about do go to the bathroom – so as long as you don’t have anything “on deck” anal sex shouldn’t be messy.
Getting enough fiber in your diet to clean out your plumbing and taking a shower before play will help you feel less worried about ruining a toy or the moment. And some people use an enema to take this one step further by cleaning themselves inside as well – making them feel more comfortable/confident and less worried.
You can find enema equipment at any local pharmacy – some people still use them for medical reasons. It’s best to use the proper equipment and recommended fluids, rather than making up your own. You really don’t want to be putting anything harsh up there that might damage the delicate tissue or the chemical balances.
With or without an enema it’s still a good idea to use condoms to protect any penises or toys that will be entering your anal cavity.
You can check out my anal guide for more reading on this topic HERE.