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O Questions

Can all girls get an orgasm?

The short answer to this question is “Yes, of course, silly!”
The long answer is still yes, BUT not all women know how to give themselves an orgasm and we can’t always rely on a partner to “give” us one. Not all women can cum from penetrative vaginal sex, not all women can cum from oral sex — and even those who can often can’t do it every single time. So, yes all women are capable of reaching orgasm, but some might not have found their “O”s yet, even if they are actively enjoying sex with a partner. The most reliable way for a woman to feel that flood of rapture is if she does it herself — alone or with others. If you haven’t had one yet, it would be a good idea play around and see what works for you.

What’s the best [sex] position for a woman to get an amazing orgasm?

The best O-producing position can vary from person to person. Because a big chunk of the sexual experience happens in your head (not between your legs), some positions can really get some people going just because it makes them feel more into what’s going on. For example, if you’re really into kissing while you have sex, then positions where you can reach your partner’s mouth are going to be the best for you; if you want to be groped (or grope your partner) all over during sex, then a position that makes this easy will be the best for you.

But generally the most popular positions for spectacular sparks are rear the entry ones (that’s entry from behind, not necessarily in your rear). Positions like doggy style and spooning tend to be a favourite because it stimulates a female partner’s urethral sponge/the roof of her vagina and allows her partner to get deeper inside (though this can also be a drawback sometimes). It also often leaves one or both partners with hands free to do other things to make the experience even more intense, like massaging the clit, rubbing testicles, groping breasts, etc.

Orgasms can be particular and personal, no one can really tell you what is the absolute best way for you to come — you have to play around and discover it for yourself.


Comment from exile
Time October 3, 2007 at 5:49 am

my personal view is this:

if a woman can’t give herself an orgasam, there is no way in hell a guy can give her one.

Comment from Shay
Time October 3, 2007 at 3:06 pm

Well, I did know a girl who always got distracted when she tried to masturbate, so she really could only come when she was having sex. crazy, eh?

Comment from The Shadow
Time October 3, 2007 at 8:32 pm

From what I have read in some scientific journals, not EVERY WOMAN (or every man for that matter) can reach orgasim.

This is not to say one should not attempt or try, but we must understand that some individuals do have physical or psychological impediments to reaching that “fun” state.

Of course, the majority of individuals can reach orgasim with whatever stimulation technique(s) that work best for them and/or their partner(s). And as you have pointed out, women (and men) should try different things and experiences to find whatever works for them.

Comment from Scandal
Time October 9, 2007 at 2:30 am

Glad to see someone else getting the word out . . . one time it is appropriate to spray it instead of just saying it!

Things are always very wet over at my new blog . . . .

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