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Beat The Heat – S Spot Style

August is upon us and it is HOT!
I <3 my loyal readers and so, to help keep you cool, here are some of my super secret tips for cooling off on these super hot sumer days:

1. Wear as little as possible…though this can have some consequences (see above) it’s generally more pleasant for you (and for those around you).

2. Make an Ice Dildo – that’s sure to keep you cool, inside and out!

3. If you can, take a day off and hit the beach!
4. No beach around or no time for a trip? Just set up a little pool in your back for you, fun for your neighbours too ^_~

5. Keep yourself hydrated and eat plenty of fresh fruit and veggies

6. No A/c ? No problemTry a fan behind a glass of ice.
Even just a fan alone can do wonders sometimes:if you use it right.

7. Enjoy a nice refreshing popsicle
(though perhaps orally only, sugar isn’t good for vaginas)It’s cool, it’s delicious, and you could consider it practice ^_~


Comment from badinfluencegirl
Time August 11, 2007 at 7:05 pm

*clicks on ice dildo posthaste*

hi shay… it’s hard to sit at a computer this summer ne?

Comment from Annette Schwarz
Time August 11, 2007 at 10:12 pm

To boost the pleasure with tip #2 I recommend an ice cum dildo.

Its great:

Comment from hc573
Time August 12, 2007 at 2:10 am

Hehe, nice idea Annette. BTW you have beautiful tits.

Comment from Gadfly
Time August 12, 2007 at 3:19 am

Ice dildo

How cool! (no pun intended)

SEE! I do learn from you, kiddo!


Comment from Anonymous
Time August 12, 2007 at 6:26 am

Popsicles, icy coolness feeling with a nice tasty treat for your partner (and you)as well. I personally prefer red or grape.

Comment from Anonymous
Time August 12, 2007 at 3:23 pm

Two things spring to mind about an ice dildo:

1. In first aid training, we were taught never to apply raw ice to skin. It always needs to be enclosed in something, like cling/saran wrap, etc.

2. I seem to remember from my physics classes that warm/hot water will actually freeze faster than cold water. So unless you want to wait hours for your toy to freeze, use warm water. However, I don’t know how warm or hot water will affect latex, etc, so use caution.

Further to the warm water thing – warm salty water will actually freeze the fastest. Adding some table salt to the water is all that’s required (I use this trick at parties to rapid-cool beer cans/bottles in a sink: ice + warm water + salt = a lot of ice-cold drinks in minutes). Again, however, I don’t know the health considerations of salty water inside orifices or on latex, etc.

Hope this helps. :)

Comment from Shay
Time August 12, 2007 at 5:08 pm

BIG – totally! My statcounter’s noticed it too.

Annette – haha that is a fun addition, does cum freeze well?

Gad – haha! ^_^

Anon1 – YES! I totally forgot about popcicles, I’ll had to add that in.

Anon2 – I remember learning about that warm water thing, but it just never made sense to me!

Comment from Ang
Time August 12, 2007 at 10:21 pm

I have these neat little cool-stick things that came with some water bottles I bought once upon a time. You just put them in the freezer, and pull them out. Perfect size for frozen fun – a little smaller than an average dildo around, but that can be good when you’re talking frozen confections. The bottles are long gone, but the freezysticks remain!

Comment from Anonymous
Time August 13, 2007 at 5:09 am

Ahh, I forgot to mention along with popsicles that putting an ice cube in your mouth while preforming oral to a man or woman feels quite nice.

Comment from Cherrie
Time August 13, 2007 at 5:38 am

I’m following Rule #1–blogging naked!

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