Comments on: A Couple of Anal Questions https://thesspot.org/2009/09/a-couple-of-anal-questions/ Fri, 03 Dec 2010 05:03:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: tisha https://thesspot.org/2009/09/a-couple-of-anal-questions/comment-page-1/#comment-16622 tisha Thu, 24 Sep 2009 00:20:57 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=2631#comment-16622 i had tried anal many times and i was just unable to do it. then i went to get treatment for hemorrhoids and the dr told me that i have muscle spasms in the sphincter, so it was nearly impossible for him to do much because i am so tight. i told him i should put that in a personal ad cuz it had to create interest. but he didn't think it was funny. i had tried anal many times and i was just unable to do it. then i went to get treatment for hemorrhoids and the dr told me that i have muscle spasms in the sphincter, so it was nearly impossible for him to do much because i am so tight. i told him i should put that in a personal ad cuz it had to create interest. but he didn’t think it was funny.

]]> By: Anon https://thesspot.org/2009/09/a-couple-of-anal-questions/comment-page-1/#comment-16620 Anon Wed, 23 Sep 2009 23:16:19 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=2631#comment-16620 I know this sounds wrong & counter-intuitive, but sometimes it really helps if you try to push (from inside) while he's pushing into you. --Anon I know this sounds wrong & counter-intuitive, but sometimes it really helps if you try to push (from inside) while he’s pushing into you.

–Anon

]]> By: Shay https://thesspot.org/2009/09/a-couple-of-anal-questions/comment-page-1/#comment-16615 Shay Tue, 22 Sep 2009 20:43:31 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=2631#comment-16615 Awesome, thanks for these extra tidbits of advice readers. ^_^ Awesome, thanks for these extra tidbits of advice readers. ^_^

]]> By: NDO https://thesspot.org/2009/09/a-couple-of-anal-questions/comment-page-1/#comment-16614 NDO Tue, 22 Sep 2009 16:16:58 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=2631#comment-16614 Also be sure you are not clinching your sphincter! It can tighten up naturally when you feel the pressure, and the idea of it being a penis instead of the known quantity of a finger or two is probably increasing that tension. Try pushing (like you're trying to take a poop) while he is pressuring the sphincter. Do it with a finger first, since you know this works. Just practice the push that way, then attempt it with a penis. As long as you are clean in there, there will be no expulsions of anything, and his penis should slide right in. Also be sure you are not clinching your sphincter! It can tighten up naturally when you feel the pressure, and the idea of it being a penis instead of the known quantity of a finger or two is probably increasing that tension. Try pushing (like you’re trying to take a poop) while he is pressuring the sphincter. Do it with a finger first, since you know this works. Just practice the push that way, then attempt it with a penis. As long as you are clean in there, there will be no expulsions of anything, and his penis should slide right in.

]]> By: Snoopy Bross https://thesspot.org/2009/09/a-couple-of-anal-questions/comment-page-1/#comment-16612 Snoopy Bross Tue, 22 Sep 2009 06:46:22 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=2631#comment-16612 I also would recommend you to check out a nice butt plug and play with it a while to get used to anal fun. Don't bother too much. You're on a good way to tons of fun! Good luck :-) I also would recommend you to check out a nice butt plug and play with it a while to get used to anal fun. Don’t bother too much. You’re on a good way to tons of fun! Good luck :-)

]]> By: DucatiGuy https://thesspot.org/2009/09/a-couple-of-anal-questions/comment-page-1/#comment-16611 DucatiGuy Tue, 22 Sep 2009 06:03:04 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=2631#comment-16611 Blood spots and discomfort which soon passes are almost certainly haemorrhoids. Nobody talks about them but they're pretty common. A chilled steel plug is one great treatment but maybe others can suggest a suitable cream? Blood spots and discomfort which soon passes are almost certainly haemorrhoids. Nobody talks about them but they’re pretty common.

A chilled steel plug is one great treatment but maybe others can suggest a suitable cream?

]]> By: n https://thesspot.org/2009/09/a-couple-of-anal-questions/comment-page-1/#comment-16610 n Tue, 22 Sep 2009 05:00:35 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=2631#comment-16610 i would recommend spooning in the beginning. I felt as if that allowed me to have enough control but allowed me to relax more than being on top. plus, it gives you a feeling of being very intimate and close to your partner. they can kiss the back of your neck, nibble on your ear and such delights. also, i found that playing with my own ass in the shower before, or in general, helped me become accustomed to the awesomeness of the ass play! ;) good luck and don't give up! (but it should never hurt) i would recommend spooning in the beginning. I felt as if that allowed me to have enough control but allowed me to relax more than being on top. plus, it gives you a feeling of being very intimate and close to your partner. they can kiss the back of your neck, nibble on your ear and such delights. also, i found that playing with my own ass in the shower before, or in general, helped me become accustomed to the awesomeness of the ass play! ;)

good luck and don’t give up! (but it should never hurt)

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