I don’t tell all my friends about my site and toy reviewing because I know it would make some of them feel uncomfortable – I don’t hold this against them, they are still my friends. I choose to not talk about my side projects when they are around because I don’t need to make them feel uncomfortable for the sake of my own self-righteousness. Similarly, my parents both know about my site, but I know the concept makes my mom a little uncomfortable; so when I visit I keep my blogging on the down-low because I can and because I don’t want my make my mom uncomfortable when she sees me setting up pix for CBW.

In conclusion, all I’m saying is that sometimes, if you want to get along and get ahead in life, it’s important to know when to censor yourself for the sake of others. Yes it would be nice if we could all be open about all aspects of ourselves with others, but the world is not, and likely will never be a perfect place – there will always be social rules that we’ll have to learn and play by.

Would you suggest the same to a slaughterer or a soldier? By the way, her parents are from the norm. Most parents completely accept their children’s chosen jobs no matter what it is an especially if it doesn’t harm anyone because they love them unconditionally.

I agree with you that being polite is good but I also tend to make more then my share of cracks and jokes not only about sex but other peoples sex lives. Most of the time it is fun for everyone, even the people I know who are just about illiterate when it comes to all things sex. Though there is a line it is kind of hard to see, it really is just a matter of how open you are willing to be. I myself don’t have the shame that most do, I have no problem making the joke and getting the back lash if people want to argue and that is from what you said how she is. She has respect for herself and what she does, I think that is all that really matters.