Comments on: Reader Question – Introducing a Threesome https://thesspot.org/2008/03/reader-question-introducing-a-threesome/ Sat, 14 Aug 2010 06:40:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: mo https://thesspot.org/2008/03/reader-question-introducing-a-threesome/comment-page-1/#comment-17813 mo Sun, 18 Jul 2010 20:02:05 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=879#comment-17813 My advice to the male half of this relationship is to steer clear of it. If you are one of the very rare lucky few men who happens to have a budding bisexual wife who has always had a hidden desire to watch you have sex with another woman while she watches and participates, then you are a God to all men. My experience has been that most of my even passing girlfriends have been extremely defensive and insecure with the idea. Somehow it's better for them emotionally and psychologically if 'it just happens' without active planning, because once they have to start thinking about it it becomes a chore and a whole lot of baggage can get thrown into the relationship that otherwise would have remained safely tucked away. They might start dreaming up scary scenarios of you going nuts with the other woman and your main partner feeling left out or ignored. And we all know even the slightest situation that can make a woman feel insecure sexually can spell doom for the relationship or start the poison in her mind leading eventually to a breakup. My wild and crazy came with two very very attractive girls, both of whom I was introduced to through my friend. He was casually dating the one and even he had a hard time getting her to slip into a threesome with another woman and each knew the other was also seeing other partners! I mean even with that much casualness she couldn't do it with him! But me, being the guy who partied with them a couple of times, neither girl really caring much for me beyond wanting to have fun, well, they practically orchestrated it one night and pulled me in. Why was it easy then? Because neither girl cared if i did whatever I did with the other, and so we all had fun and walked away from it feeling wild and wonderful. You see, his girlfriend was open to the idea but just not with him because she had a modicum of attachment to him. Steer clear my friend, steer clear. Once you're married it's better to leave it as it is, or better yet, make it a genuinely business transaction, pay for it and be done with it. They won't tell, they won't come knocking on your door, they won't bother you, because they knew why they did it and are happy with the business arrangement aspect of it. My advice to the male half of this relationship is to steer clear of it. If you are one of the very rare lucky few men who happens to have a budding bisexual wife who has always had a hidden desire to watch you have sex with another woman while she watches and participates, then you are a God to all men.

My experience has been that most of my even passing girlfriends have been extremely defensive and insecure with the idea. Somehow it’s better for them emotionally and psychologically if ‘it just happens’ without active planning, because once they have to start thinking about it it becomes a chore and a whole lot of baggage can get thrown into the relationship that otherwise would have remained safely tucked away. They might start dreaming up scary scenarios of you going nuts with the other woman and your main partner feeling left out or ignored. And we all know even the slightest situation that can make a woman feel insecure sexually can spell doom for the relationship or start the poison in her mind leading eventually to a breakup.

My wild and crazy came with two very very attractive girls, both of whom I was introduced to through my friend. He was casually dating the one and even he had a hard time getting her to slip into a threesome with another woman and each knew the other was also seeing other partners! I mean even with that much casualness she couldn’t do it with him! But me, being the guy who partied with them a couple of times, neither girl really caring much for me beyond wanting to have fun, well, they practically orchestrated it one night and pulled me in. Why was it easy then? Because neither girl cared if i did whatever I did with the other, and so we all had fun and walked away from it feeling wild and wonderful. You see, his girlfriend was open to the idea but just not with him because she had a modicum of attachment to him.

Steer clear my friend, steer clear. Once you’re married it’s better to leave it as it is, or better yet, make it a genuinely business transaction, pay for it and be done with it. They won’t tell, they won’t come knocking on your door, they won’t bother you, because they knew why they did it and are happy with the business arrangement aspect of it.

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