exile – haha I though he would most likely figure out those finer details in situ. ^_~

BIG – actually, with some people it CAN be hard to tell the difference between those two faces, but talking to your partner about your worries is always a good idea. ^_^

ES – I LOVE IT! Does anyone have a force gage I can borrow?

SETUP FOR GIRLS: Obtain a dildo with representative girth and rigidity as your partner. Set the gage to “compressive max” mode, place the dildo at the entrance to your vagina, and apply force to the opposite end of the dildo using the force gage.

SETUP FOR GUYS: Obtain a Fleshlight with a vagina opening design. Set the gage to “compressive max” mode, place your cock at the entrance to the fleshlight insert, and apply force to the opposite end of the fleshlight case using the force gage.

Once you feel penetration, discontinue applying force, and check the reading. Measurement variation and changes in the amount of lubrication may affect results, so I recommend taking 3 readings and averaging them for improved accuracy. Hope this helps!

more foreplay is required :)

also? tell HER what you’re worried about, i’m sure she’ll be happy to help

the best way to make sure you don’t hurt her on your first vaginal insertion is not to simply push your way in, but rather to pump slowly, push in a little, then pull back out. if you go a half inch at a time it will insure your wang has enough lube to slide in easily and you will know if you’re hurting her or not.

as for the anal, dude, walk before you run…

Mean people suck — in the figurative sense only :o)

I was really tempted to make a joke about pressuring a partner for sex, but I thought it might be in poor taste. ^_~