Comments on: The Missing Link https://thesspot.org/2007/07/the-missing-link/ Fri, 03 Dec 2010 02:32:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Maikeru https://thesspot.org/2007/07/the-missing-link/comment-page-1/#comment-8258 Maikeru Sun, 13 Jul 2008 11:42:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=690#comment-8258 I find that our society has become increasingly homophobic in regards to what's safe and what isn't for males to do and wear. All the extra fabric that women's clothing is shedding seems to be heading towards certain cuts of men's clothing. Years ago it was fine to put your arm around your male friend's shoulder, but now we're taught that it's some sort of homosexual innuendo. So porn in which hetero males are experimental is at the fringes (sometime bundled with BDSM play with a dominatrix). Until our society stops being rather homophobic with male relations it will be rather hard to find experimental males in normal porn.<br/><br/>As for pushing boundaries in hetero porn, I find anal not all that appealing to me. Not the guy receiving anal, but the guy being the penetrator of the girl in the activity. Really it's something I couldn't see myself doing with anyone even if they begged it of me. Of course where I get experimental is usually thinking up new "games" for me and my girlfriend to play. I find that our society has become increasingly homophobic in regards to what’s safe and what isn’t for males to do and wear. All the extra fabric that women’s clothing is shedding seems to be heading towards certain cuts of men’s clothing. Years ago it was fine to put your arm around your male friend’s shoulder, but now we’re taught that it’s some sort of homosexual innuendo. So porn in which hetero males are experimental is at the fringes (sometime bundled with BDSM play with a dominatrix). Until our society stops being rather homophobic with male relations it will be rather hard to find experimental males in normal porn.

As for pushing boundaries in hetero porn, I find anal not all that appealing to me. Not the guy receiving anal, but the guy being the penetrator of the girl in the activity. Really it’s something I couldn’t see myself doing with anyone even if they begged it of me. Of course where I get experimental is usually thinking up new “games” for me and my girlfriend to play.

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2007/07/the-missing-link/comment-page-1/#comment-6096 Anonymous Sun, 22 Jul 2007 07:20:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=690#comment-6096 <i>The missing link in the mainstream is porn that models men pushing their boundaries. Not just in what they're willing to ask for, but in what they're willing to do, or have done to them.</i><br/><br/>There is a missing link, but it's based on a societal norm that isn't limited to porn. In general, North American society gives women a greater freedom to cross gender boundaries than it does men. Put bluntly, for a wide variety of sex-related activities, if a woman does it, she's sexy, but if a man does it, he's been emasculated somehow. Or worse, he's gay. The missing link in the mainstream is porn that models men pushing their boundaries. Not just in what they’re willing to ask for, but in what they’re willing to do, or have done to them.

There is a missing link, but it’s based on a societal norm that isn’t limited to porn. In general, North American society gives women a greater freedom to cross gender boundaries than it does men. Put bluntly, for a wide variety of sex-related activities, if a woman does it, she’s sexy, but if a man does it, he’s been emasculated somehow. Or worse, he’s gay.

]]> By: Dastranger https://thesspot.org/2007/07/the-missing-link/comment-page-1/#comment-6073 Dastranger Tue, 17 Jul 2007 05:10:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=690#comment-6073 Totally agree with you Shay. One thing that you don't see often in porn, especially one-on-one variety, is seeing men actively trying to bring their "partner" to orgasm. Sure, they have female ejaculation type of stuff, but I'd like to see a bit more variety than that! In fact, I'd love an entire category devoted to this, but alas it's rather doubtful this will ever happen. Totally agree with you Shay. One thing that you don’t see often in porn, especially one-on-one variety, is seeing men actively trying to bring their “partner” to orgasm. Sure, they have female ejaculation type of stuff, but I’d like to see a bit more variety than that! In fact, I’d love an entire category devoted to this, but alas it’s rather doubtful this will ever happen.

]]> By: Ryann https://thesspot.org/2007/07/the-missing-link/comment-page-1/#comment-6072 Ryann Mon, 16 Jul 2007 21:33:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=690#comment-6072 I totally agree. great insight. <br/><br/>it's one of the reasons I find mainstream porn so boring. I totally agree. great insight.

it’s one of the reasons I find mainstream porn so boring.

]]> By: Loving Annie https://thesspot.org/2007/07/the-missing-link/comment-page-1/#comment-6070 Loving Annie Mon, 16 Jul 2007 15:02:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=690#comment-6070 Good Monday mornign to you, Shay !<br/><br/>I like porn when I'm out of control horny. Watching it with a guy can be fun occasionally.<br/><br/>I would flat out love to see the type of porn you describe as not mainstream.<br/>Bring it on ! Good Monday mornign to you, Shay !

I like porn when I’m out of control horny. Watching it with a guy can be fun occasionally.

I would flat out love to see the type of porn you describe as not mainstream.
Bring it on !

]]> By: Gadfly https://thesspot.org/2007/07/the-missing-link/comment-page-1/#comment-6068 Gadfly Mon, 16 Jul 2007 04:45:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=690#comment-6068 I came<br/><br/>I saw<br/><br/>I concurred<br/><br/> :o) I came

I saw

I concurred

:o)

]]> By: SJ https://thesspot.org/2007/07/the-missing-link/comment-page-1/#comment-6067 SJ Mon, 16 Jul 2007 03:49:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=690#comment-6067 I like that Mae West quote - I maye be a Male West. lol. BTW it's strange you should pick that pic for this post I've tried stuff most guys wouldn't but being "anally violated" isn't one of them though I fantasize about it. I like that Mae West quote – I maye be a Male West. lol. BTW it’s strange you should pick that pic for this post I’ve tried stuff most guys wouldn’t but being “anally violated” isn’t one of them though I fantasize about it.

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2007/07/the-missing-link/comment-page-1/#comment-6065 Anonymous Mon, 16 Jul 2007 01:15:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=690#comment-6065 I completely agree with you on the point about men not being able to find porn that takes them out of their safe zones. Since I have found your site I have been very interested in Futa and other cartoons/porn that shows men being put into different situations.<br/><br/>Also I have been experimenting and have found that prostrate massage as being very enjoyable. It is good for men to try new things that they might not normally do. The worst thing that could happen is that you do not like it. In that case do not do it again.<br/><br/>Thanks for your insight and thoughts about sex.<br/><br/>~Shorty I completely agree with you on the point about men not being able to find porn that takes them out of their safe zones. Since I have found your site I have been very interested in Futa and other cartoons/porn that shows men being put into different situations.

Also I have been experimenting and have found that prostrate massage as being very enjoyable. It is good for men to try new things that they might not normally do. The worst thing that could happen is that you do not like it. In that case do not do it again.

Thanks for your insight and thoughts about sex.

~Shorty

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