Facials and other forms of erotic acts, they all depend on the point of view; the greatest lover I’ve ever had loved playing, licking, swallowing, rubbing semen… Doing so was one of her greatest pleasures, thus making facials and pearl necklaces a favourite of hers, amongst others.

Another ex of mine abhored porn while we were together, but she recently told me how she enjoys watching it – before she even told me, I knew it had to do with how most porn is so appaling to her (no real plot, little care for the woman [how many porn films really show a woman coming, anyway!? Less than 5%, for sure...], etc.).

As for the feminist movement, I’d hardly ever put it one way or another; for one thing, all of you should watch the movie “The Operation” if you find it – it’s an excellent experimental porn film, featuring the use of infrared filming and, yes, it’s quite erotic in a number of ways. Funny thing about it (and the main reason I looked it up) is because it’s been made by a famous feminist phographer, who’s very well known for her erotica series – she openly promotes porn, mind you.

There’s so much more on the subject, I really cannot think of something to say next…

Anon1- Thanks Anon ^_^

Gad – I’ll put that in the “mysteries that may never be solved” pile then ^_~

DFP – Yes! There is bad porn, but there is also great porn – and, more importantly, there is porn that works for me, porn that works for you and porn that works for that couple over there (etc).

Narcissu – Yes, whenever I watch a “regular” porn, I always fast forward past the oral and stop it before the money shot. Hentai mangas really seem to be where it’s at for hot little plots and sexual variety. And YES! I was sick to my stomach when I read that quote from someone who thinks that women being “sexualized” is dangerous! What is this, The 1800′s?!

CayJ – lol

LA- good ^_^

Strumpet – (good to see you girl!) LOL I agree!!

Prospero – There is SO much porn out there, you’re right about how it really can be a HUGE chore to find stuff that you like – which does make bloggers who recommend porn and sites that review porn and porn sites really useful. That’s the only way I can really think of, unless you’re buying it in a store (online or not) that is very specific about what you can expect from different films.

Rupert – Right, any avid porn watcher is bound to come across something they don’t like at some point – but we all know that there’s also tons of stuff that we DO like out there. It’s silly to say that ALL porn is bad or even that ALL porn degrades women, when that’s not even remotely true.

Rups

However, let’s look at the economics of good porn versus bad porn. We agree we would like to see more good porn (see Shay’s writing or anyone’s comments above). Does good porn support itself? Is there enough of a niche market for Tony Comstock’s films for him to continue? Tristan Taormino? How do we in the blog community make it easier for folks to find the right porn for them? I don’t have the answer. I just know we can’t expect folks to look a so many things they don’t like in order to find the one thing they do like. And that’s where we’re at.

Well.

Long live porn.

and so i stoped watching that kind of porn and i started reading hentai, where at least the characters had sex for a reason.

as for sexualising womans i think that woman should be encouraged to discover their sexuality, instead of just suppress it or distort it, wich is what our current culture do.