Comments on: Reader Question – Tips for a Busy Woman

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 12 Sep 2006 21:31:00 +0000

All-
golly that's really great advice from everyone here. Most of my 'friends' don't mind sucking my cock after it's been loved by another pussy. They actually love the taste of another woman.(or two or three...)

Thanks a bunch everyone for really doing a whiz-bang job of tuning me into the virtues of safe,open sex.

No telling what trouble I might have gotten my no-good-four-timing-freeloving-squeeze-cumming self into when I hit the big 21!

By: Shay

Shay — Tue, 12 Sep 2006 15:37:00 +0000

Lou - well thank you darling!

Alo - haha I know! Better not waste them - there are starving lovers here in the blogosphere! ^_~

dave - eek! No douches! But yes, being the partner with the "sex pocket" does make it a little harder to get clean because everything is tucked inside and shouldn't be washed with soap.

TOY - idealy, yes she should let her other lovers know about each other. But if that's not something she wants to do, well then that's up to her. But yes, safe sex is super important esp when one is non monagamous.

nina - That's why those fancy elexa packs come with a cute little vag wipe. ^_^

FoolishMan - Again, I agree that safe sex relly needs to be maintained, but I can't force anyone to tell a lover that they are having sex with more than one person. An open policy is ideal, but might not always work out the way you want.

singlegal - Gimme a C, gimme a O, gimme an N... etc
YAAAAAAAAAY Condoms! ^_^ (we're like a safe sex cheer squad!)

By: single gal

single gal — Sun, 10 Sep 2006 17:41:00 +0000

condoms. condoms. condoms.

good job on promoting the safe side of things.

By: FoolishMan

FoolishMan — Sun, 10 Sep 2006 17:19:00 +0000

I gotta agree with the yankee. Ii’d personally like to know what i’m getting myself into for the sake of…oh, you know…STDs?! If we’re really mature adults, there should be know problem telling our casual lover “hey, u kno i see someone else(s) too right?” It’s a policy of mine to keep that clear. if she’s ok with it great! if she isnt, thats fine too! keeping secrets is just plain greedy, and there’s no need for that

By: nina

nina — Sun, 10 Sep 2006 17:00:00 +0000

Shay, all good points.

I will borrow from Chelsea Handler; Wipe Out, Put Out, Get Out.

Some antibacterial baby wipes might help too if a shower isn't an option, but good call on the oral sex!

xoxo,
nina

By: the old yankee

the old yankee — Sun, 10 Sep 2006 10:29:00 +0000

Very good advice, though I would say that the woman should be open with all her lovers if there are more than one. There are some men who would have a problem sharing a lover with someone else, even if the arrangement was casual. Plus there are health issues as well in this day and age.

Just a thought

By: dave

dave — Sun, 10 Sep 2006 02:29:00 +0000

i guess it’s also important to make sure you have a douche in your vanity. it’s easy for us men to make sure we’re clean and fresh all over if we visit a second friend on the same day. women have other needs to do so.

By: ~A-Lo~

~A-Lo~ — Sun, 10 Sep 2006 00:02:00 +0000

Nice call with the oral sex suggestion…wow some people are so lucky to have TWO “friends”!

By: Lou

Lou — Sat, 09 Sep 2006 20:29:00 +0000

Just wanted to say kudos to you Shay for always being sex positive and always promoting sexual responsibility. Excellent advice, and a great “non-judgemental” response. Well done, as always.