Comments on: The Dark Side of Masturbation (and Sex) https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/ Fri, 03 Dec 2010 05:03:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-7348 Anonymous Wed, 13 Feb 2008 22:01:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=268#comment-7348 Good post. Masterbation is certainly normal, and even frequent masterbation is not a necessarily a sign of some deeper problem. But Chronic compulsive masterbation is also a fairly common sympton of OCD...So if you struggle with anxiety, racing disturbing thoughts and ritualized behavior, you may want to talk to a behavioral therapist or psychiatrist(even MD) Most people with OCD do not seek help because of embarrassment or because they don't even know that what they have is a real disorder. But the disease can be managed through therapy and medication if needed. Good post. Masterbation is certainly normal, and even frequent masterbation is not a necessarily a sign of some deeper problem. But Chronic compulsive masterbation is also a fairly common sympton of OCD…So if you struggle with anxiety, racing disturbing thoughts and ritualized behavior, you may want to talk to a behavioral therapist or psychiatrist(even MD) Most people with OCD do not seek help because of embarrassment or because they don’t even know that what they have is a real disorder. But the disease can be managed through therapy and medication if needed.

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-5399 Anonymous Thu, 12 Apr 2007 02:38:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=268#comment-5399 Thanks for the post. I often think that I jerk off too much. I've been told I'm obsessed w sex by a few girlfriends. I can spend most of the day exploring my erotic psychology and building elaborate rituals of layered stimulation. But once I cum, I feel like I snapped out of a dream. WTF was I doing? And then I get on with the day. Later, I might do it again. On the positive side, I am a sexpert. On the negative, I get nothing done and girlfriends doubt my capabilities outside of the bedroom. Like any superpower, it is a double edged sword. I try not to fall on it. Thanks for the post. I often think that I jerk off too much. I’ve been told I’m obsessed w sex by a few girlfriends. I can spend most of the day exploring my erotic psychology and building elaborate rituals of layered stimulation. But once I cum, I feel like I snapped out of a dream. WTF was I doing? And then I get on with the day. Later, I might do it again. On the positive side, I am a sexpert. On the negative, I get nothing done and girlfriends doubt my capabilities outside of the bedroom. Like any superpower, it is a double edged sword. I try not to fall on it.

]]> By: Shay https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-4698 Shay Thu, 25 Jan 2007 00:43:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=268#comment-4698 What? I should take down my pretty button just because it's not May anymore?<br/><br/>Don't blame me if you're reading my archives instead of my fresh stuff - just head to my front page! ^_^ What? I should take down my pretty button just because it’s not May anymore?

Don’t blame me if you’re reading my archives instead of my fresh stuff – just head to my front page! ^_^

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-4692 Anonymous Wed, 24 Jan 2007 12:21:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=268#comment-4692 At 40 y/o with a fantastic wife; who is expecting an equally fantastic daughter next month. I have a load of work on but cash flow is cr*p and there is no seeing the wood for the trees. Panic mode has set in but the most I can produce is a load from my sack rather than start working. My circumstance; (and fourth wank of the morning), led me to come out of the website that I was looking at and Google “compulsive masturbation”.<br/><br/>Well just to confirm the above theories about stress relief, anxiety etc; yes it does work for a moment; well several really, but it does not resolve the problem. The only thing to do is to start dealing with the task in hand. The work that is!!<br/><br/>Ok now I’ve scrutinised my actions; I am going to do exactly what I know I should……as soon as I’ve had a wank!!<br/><br/>Oh and May is a long month; its now January 2007. ? At 40 y/o with a fantastic wife; who is expecting an equally fantastic daughter next month. I have a load of work on but cash flow is cr*p and there is no seeing the wood for the trees. Panic mode has set in but the most I can produce is a load from my sack rather than start working. My circumstance; (and fourth wank of the morning), led me to come out of the website that I was looking at and Google “compulsive masturbation”.

Well just to confirm the above theories about stress relief, anxiety etc; yes it does work for a moment; well several really, but it does not resolve the problem. The only thing to do is to start dealing with the task in hand. The work that is!!

Ok now I’ve scrutinised my actions; I am going to do exactly what I know I should……as soon as I’ve had a wank!!

Oh and May is a long month; its now January 2007. ?

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-2982 Anonymous Thu, 27 Jul 2006 05:46:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=268#comment-2982 careful not to hurt yourself. careful not to hurt yourself.

]]> By: Mike https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-2944 Mike Mon, 24 Jul 2006 20:30:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=268#comment-2944 I couldn't survive without masturbation! It is the greatest! and i cannot belive that people say that it is a sin to masturbate. What does everyone think about the anti-masturbators as i like to call them? <br/><br/> And i strongly belive that frequent masturbation is healthy, and then when i read in a random magazine that i picked up, that orgasming increases the number of white blood cells in your body, made me belive this even more so.<br/><br/> And i don not think that it is unhealthy to masturbate 24/7. I personally look at internet hardcore lesbian porn to arouse myself and then masterbate and give myself the best cuming ever! I couldn’t survive without masturbation! It is the greatest! and i cannot belive that people say that it is a sin to masturbate. What does everyone think about the anti-masturbators as i like to call them?

And i strongly belive that frequent masturbation is healthy, and then when i read in a random magazine that i picked up, that orgasming increases the number of white blood cells in your body, made me belive this even more so.

And i don not think that it is unhealthy to masturbate 24/7. I personally look at internet hardcore lesbian porn to arouse myself and then masterbate and give myself the best cuming ever!

]]> By: Shay https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-2805 Shay Mon, 10 Jul 2006 03:54:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=268#comment-2805 Prostabator - I'm sure you'll be back to "normal" once the new-ness wears off. ^_^ <br/><br/>Anon1 - sounds like you have fun bath time.<br/><br/>Anon2 - Please take the time read my entire post before you try to rant at me. You might be especially interested in my last paragraph, in particular the link in the first sentence of this paragraph. Prostabator – I’m sure you’ll be back to “normal” once the new-ness wears off. ^_^

Anon1 – sounds like you have fun bath time.

Anon2 – Please take the time read my entire post before you try to rant at me. You might be especially interested in my last paragraph, in particular the link in the first sentence of this paragraph.

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-2804 Anonymous Mon, 10 Jul 2006 02:58:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=268#comment-2804 I think that it is a lot of BS to talk about masturbation in Psychodynamic terms. Personally I do it because it feels good. I especially like to get myself aroused looking at internet porn, prolong it for a while, then really have a great release. I also think it is a good idea for us to express our masturbation thoughts. When we keep them pent up they seem weird. When we realize that people are masturbating all of the time it doesn’t seem like the kind of thing we should feel guilty about. I think that it is a lot of BS to talk about masturbation in Psychodynamic terms. Personally I do it because it feels good. I especially like to get myself aroused looking at internet porn, prolong it for a while, then really have a great release. I also think it is a good idea for us to express our masturbation thoughts. When we keep them pent up they seem weird. When we realize that people are masturbating all of the time it doesn’t seem like the kind of thing we should feel guilty about.

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-2251 Anonymous Wed, 24 May 2006 21:14:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=268#comment-2251 When I've got ready to orgasm in the bathtub. I mentally give my self permission to squirt and I do.<br/>My cum shoots out and hits the front wall of the tub. I stand up and let it filter down the drain. When I’ve got ready to orgasm in the bathtub. I mentally give my self permission to squirt and I do.
My cum shoots out and hits the front wall of the tub. I stand up and let it filter down the drain.

]]> By: prostabator https://thesspot.org/2006/05/the-dark-side-of-masturbation-and-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-2249 prostabator Wed, 24 May 2006 20:59:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=268#comment-2249 For years I felt guilty about masturbation, religious reasons...but now that I feel free to stroke, I also feel free to poke. My bum that is. Since I found the pleasures of prostate massage, I can hardly stand to have an orgasm without it. While I too answered yes to one or more of the questions above, I think it is only because I found a new toy to play with...once the newness wears off, I'm sure it'll be business as usual. Should I worry if not? For years I felt guilty about masturbation, religious reasons…but now that I feel free to stroke, I also feel free to poke. My bum that is. Since I found the pleasures of prostate massage, I can hardly stand to have an orgasm without it. While I too answered yes to one or more of the questions above, I think it is only because I found a new toy to play with…once the newness wears off, I’m sure it’ll be business as usual. Should I worry if not?

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