Comments on: "Ahh! No! Don’t Come In!"

By: Much Ado

Much Ado — Tue, 19 Feb 2008 19:36:00 +0000

How shall i say something that all the others have already said? Great post! but for me probably becos i’ve always been fascinated with women masturbation (err,… i’m a man!) To me it’s so hot to see or imagine or even think about a woman masturbating. Thank you for this post… I’ve only just now started reading your blog and i find the posts and comments here very informative (just enough) and oh, the pics (hentai) are just awesome!! Your blog rocks!!!

By: JUnderCovers

JUnderCovers — Mon, 20 Feb 2006 03:35:00 +0000

Thanks for pointing this post out to me, hadn’t caught it before. Great points, plus it’s always fun reading about a girl wanking. ;) It’s interesting to me that a lot of the guilt associated with it comes from religious sources, and yet even growing up in a family without religion, I still felt like I was doing something wrong. That puritanical mentality is just insidious!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 29 Nov 2005 08:44:00 +0000

I am masturbating as I am typing this !
The internet has taught me how to do it with my left hand, so my right hand can use the keyboard and mouse.

Thanks, internet !!

By: jay

jay — Sun, 27 Nov 2005 16:16:00 +0000

Thanks for letting the light shine on a topic that has probably stunted a lot of people emotionally. Who do you talk with about your masterbation “addiction?” Guys have it worse: more obvious evidence after the fact, difficult to hide a hard-on and act like nothing’s going on, and the threat of hairy palms.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 27 Nov 2005 06:04:00 +0000

Ugh, nope could NOT bring myself to comment under my blogger name. Sorry for the cowardly tendan-c’s but y’know how it goes :)
I’m a teenager, and yes I’m probly in trouble for reading this by some forcefully religious mother somewhere… But I wanted to say thank you. Because I needed someone to tell me it’s not a horrible nasty obsession. And that it’s OK dammit to explore and have fun. So yeah, thank you.

And I’ve totally done the ‘one more problem’ math homework thing. It was the only way I could get it done ;)
-K

By: Tess

Tess — Sun, 27 Nov 2005 00:36:00 +0000

Great post.

I have no problem admitting my masturbatory tendencies these days, in fact I've blogged about them at least twice. It was different as a teenager, my sister and I shared a room, and to this day I don't recall hearing her or know if she heard me. I think I will ask.....she has the memory of an elephant.

I also love to touch myself for a lover, though it usually takes some gentle coaxing. The way he looks at me makes it so worthwhile.

By: Burning Rubber

Burning Rubber — Sat, 26 Nov 2005 21:39:00 +0000

Shay,

Nice post! I can’t really remember ever feeling guilty about masturbating, but all the same, it is something I generally prefer to do in private. For me it’s kind of a lot like meditation… puts me into almost a trance state that I find to be a deeply satisfying way to focus and relax. Normally, relaxing makes me tense (heh) so it might be safe to assume that beating off has pushed my eventual heart attack years into the future! I’ve always felt that it is a healthy, normal act that should be encouraged rather than looked askance at.

By: Celtic Frog

Celtic Frog — Sat, 26 Nov 2005 18:19:00 +0000

I loved that question when fl posed it, and I love even more your answer to it.

At times it's hard not to revert to deep conditioning to say, "NO! Don't touch!" to the Bug. Luckily I usually only slip when he's reaching for it when it IS dirty. When I have a clean naked Bug running around the house, it's easier to smile and remind him that he should take it somewhere private, even though he doesn't understand that concept yet.

Why is it appropriate to teach children that sex is bad, yet inappropriate to teach them manners anymore?

By: The DogGrrrrl

The DogGrrrrl — Thu, 24 Nov 2005 01:58:00 +0000

I remember masturbating when I was 3. And yes, girls can orgasm at that age. I’ve been a vehement proponent of it ever since.

Funny I dont remember much else from that year. But I had yellow footie jammies, I remember that.

By: Shay

Shay — Wed, 23 Nov 2005 22:38:00 +0000

Glad you folks enjoyed this post! ^_^

BedRDancer – Your comment made my night! To know that I’ve changed a future child’s life for the better makes me feel very… useful and like I am pursuing the right career path. (I forwarded your comment to my dad too, just to show off. ^_~)

Rex – “master masturbator” you crack me up! I hope to see you back again. ^_^

Chelsea – That’s a very important rule. ^_^

Aragorn – I think another part of what you’re talking about is that, for a lot of people, masturbation is something you do alone when you can’t get sex. So it feels kinda funny to do it in front of someone you could just have sex with instead. (If you’ll allow a little anthropomorphism – it’s kinda of like your genes are saying “What are you doing?!” Go put those sperms in there and propagate!”)