“Here’s my question. I’m a 19-year old virgin. I’ve been tempted to try out the Fleshlight, but my only experience with a sex toy was a little disappointing. I had purchased a “masturbator sleeve” online, and it didn’t last very long before tearing (thankfully it was pretty cheap).
Fast-forward to today, and I’m browsing the Fleshlight website looking for something new. As I had said, I’m a virgin, so I figured I’d try to find a product that did the best job of simulating actual vaginal sex. So I go to the “Build Your Fleshlight” page and find this: “Original 3/4″ (19mm) diameter canal, match with the lady orifice to experience the most realistic vaginal sex possible.”
Okay, sounds like it’s their best choice to me! However, when browsing their buyer’s guide, I come across this blurb: “Which insert best simulates real sex? Vaginal Sex: Wonder Wave Lady“
This leads me to my current state of confusion. Which product would actually simulate vaginal sex better? The flat-like Original, or the more ribbed Wonder Wave? Help!“
This is a pretty cool question actually – especially because I happen to know the answer!
The inside of a vagina isn’t smooth, it’s bumpy and ridgy inside – we call these folds and ridges vaginal rugae (not a very sexy name, I know, you can blame boring scientists for that). These ruage are pretty cool because they are part of what allows the vagina to stretch to accommodate bigger things.
So, to answer your question, I would say that the Wonder Wave is the sleeve that most closely approximates the texture of a vagina because it’s bumpy and ridgy just like us! ^_^
I hope that helps!
P.S. check out Lou’s detailed review of the Wonder Wave Lady HERE
[The male perspective] First, none of these will help you, prepare you, or give you any other advantage for your first time. That is an experience unto its own, one you’ll never forget. Your biggest issue is going to be nervousness and coming too soon. Neither is a big issue if you have a caring partner. Second, these may be enjoyable ways to amuse yourself while waiting, or in between once you have been initiated. Also check out Head honcho.
Uh, I don’t think he’s trying to practice for his first time with a woman. Sounds to me like he’s just looking for something interesting to play with in the meantime. Perhaps something to enhance his fantasies while he’s alone. So I don’t really get where your “advice” is coming from.
You’d be surprised how often this topic is discussed on Fleshlight’s own forums. Most people there own at least several. If the user’s based in the US they should be able to get the 3 for 2 offer (no this is not a shameless plug). But in honesty the WonderWave sounds like the next sleeve I’ll be buying.
While a Fleshlight is no substitute for the “Real Thing” you can still have a lot of fun and experiment without all the anxiety of having your first time with a girl. Shay’s absolutely right in the description of the inner regions of the vagina as she would know ;) Then again no two vagina’s are they same but I can’t possible comment on that as I’ve only sampled the one (married to its owner).
If you need help deciding just do a search on Rude, Xtube, Redtube etc for Fleshlight vids and see h ow many of us (even me) are having *fun*. Buy one you can’t go far wrong!
BUY a FLESHLIGHT.
I’ve owned them for a few years and even replaced them from too much use ;)
DEFINITELY buy one. You will NEVER regret the decision to buy one. I tell ALL my friends and I’m not ashamed. They’re shocked and laugh at first but after one tried one they don’t laugh anymore
I’m thinkin about getting one
does the stamina training unit actually help in stamina I wanna last a while
I own the STU and I can guarantee that you won’t last long. After a while you get used to it and can go for much longer! Just remember to warm it up first by leaving it to soak in some hot water before lubing up and sliding in. And don’t forget to take it easy, Fleshlights are meant to help you get rid of the “deathgrip” syndrome using your hand can cause. Just lay back and take it slow and you’ll be rewarded :)
I have 2 fleshlights and they’re great. I have the lady with the wonderwave insert and the mouth with the super ribbed insert.
both are good. i just wish lube cost less.. lol
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fleshlight in action
anonymous – hey, thats my site.. lol
A big hallowed cucumber is worth a try. It’s squishy inside and cheap.
How does the Fleshlight compare to the Head Honcho?