Comments on: Reader Question – The Right Time https://thesspot.org/2008/02/reader-question-the-right-time/ Fri, 03 Dec 2010 16:08:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2008/02/reader-question-the-right-time/comment-page-1/#comment-7406 Anonymous Sun, 24 Feb 2008 10:07:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=868#comment-7406 Anal sex puts you at the MOST risk for disease. The tissues are thin and easily torn so your bloodstream can easily be exposed to diseased fluids.<br/><br/>In comparison the vagina can safely take much more powerful activity, and with proper condom use, is much more comfortable and safer from STDs.<br/><br/>It could be that this girl is religious and misinformed. I have heard that some virgins are lead to believe that anal sex is a good way to avoid having "premarital sex" (vaginal).<br/><br/>Trust me, it's sex either way. Anal sex puts you at the MOST risk for disease. The tissues are thin and easily torn so your bloodstream can easily be exposed to diseased fluids.

In comparison the vagina can safely take much more powerful activity, and with proper condom use, is much more comfortable and safer from STDs.

It could be that this girl is religious and misinformed. I have heard that some virgins are lead to believe that anal sex is a good way to avoid having “premarital sex” (vaginal).

Trust me, it’s sex either way.

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2008/02/reader-question-the-right-time/comment-page-1/#comment-7381 Anonymous Tue, 19 Feb 2008 21:02:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=868#comment-7381 Anyone who has anal sex and still calls themself a virgin is fooling themselves. Also, I am amazed that she is worried about boring her man!? I hope he realizes what a wonderful woman he is getting a chance to be with. Anyone who has anal sex and still calls themself a virgin is fooling themselves. Also, I am amazed that she is worried about boring her man!? I hope he realizes what a wonderful woman he is getting a chance to be with.

]]> By: Randi https://thesspot.org/2008/02/reader-question-the-right-time/comment-page-1/#comment-7375 Randi Tue, 19 Feb 2008 17:46:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=868#comment-7375 I think you're right in that it is all in a girls mind - she feels more innocent and "pure" if she can say that she is still technically a virgin. However, I haven't been a virgin for a LONG time, and I still feel as though I'm more dirty when we talk about trying anal again! (Yeah, wasn't a very good try the last few times...) I think you’re right in that it is all in a girls mind – she feels more innocent and “pure” if she can say that she is still technically a virgin. However, I haven’t been a virgin for a LONG time, and I still feel as though I’m more dirty when we talk about trying anal again! (Yeah, wasn’t a very good try the last few times…)

]]> By: Shay https://thesspot.org/2008/02/reader-question-the-right-time/comment-page-1/#comment-7374 Shay Tue, 19 Feb 2008 15:52:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=868#comment-7374 Cuntstorm - maybe we're just old fashioned, kids today seem to be all over this anal thing (mostly worried about "preserving" their "virginity" though), but for me it was always something even more intimate that you saved for when things were really serious: doing anal with a guy meant that you were practically ready to marry him lol. <br/><br/>Nitin - see, I really don't get this obsession with anal, maybe it's because I've never been with a guy who was more interested in anal than vaginal. It's fun, yeah, but LOTS of stuff is fun.<br/><br/>Yvette - ahh so anal as extra birth control; when I was younger and more paranoid, I just used spermicidal foam along with condoms. haha<br/><br/>Thanks Cuddlestlut - good to see you around again ^_~ - you're completely right, even with oral it's important to use condoms and dental dams, because there is unfortunately more to worry about in the world than just getting pregnant. Cuntstorm – maybe we’re just old fashioned, kids today seem to be all over this anal thing (mostly worried about “preserving” their “virginity” though), but for me it was always something even more intimate that you saved for when things were really serious: doing anal with a guy meant that you were practically ready to marry him lol.

Nitin – see, I really don’t get this obsession with anal, maybe it’s because I’ve never been with a guy who was more interested in anal than vaginal. It’s fun, yeah, but LOTS of stuff is fun.

Yvette – ahh so anal as extra birth control; when I was younger and more paranoid, I just used spermicidal foam along with condoms. haha

Thanks Cuddlestlut – good to see you around again ^_~ – you’re completely right, even with oral it’s important to use condoms and dental dams, because there is unfortunately more to worry about in the world than just getting pregnant.

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2008/02/reader-question-the-right-time/comment-page-1/#comment-7373 Anonymous Tue, 19 Feb 2008 13:47:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=868#comment-7373 Something I don't believe anyone (including you Shay... naughty girl) has mentioned is that condoms should be on hand FOR EVERY SEXUAL ACT not just vaginal sex... <br/><br/>Trust me - the STD's you can catch by kissing alone are scary. After having to provide "second opinions" on std checks in a brothel I cannot recommend condoms highly enough for EVERYTHING!!!<br/><br/>Sorry to kill the mood but it had to be said.<br/><br/>**Cuddleslut**<br/>(PS: I'm still here Shay - I've just been lurking for the last couple of years xox) Something I don’t believe anyone (including you Shay… naughty girl) has mentioned is that condoms should be on hand FOR EVERY SEXUAL ACT not just vaginal sex…

Trust me – the STD’s you can catch by kissing alone are scary. After having to provide “second opinions” on std checks in a brothel I cannot recommend condoms highly enough for EVERYTHING!!!

Sorry to kill the mood but it had to be said.

**Cuddleslut**
(PS: I’m still here Shay – I’ve just been lurking for the last couple of years xox)

]]> By: Yvette https://thesspot.org/2008/02/reader-question-the-right-time/comment-page-1/#comment-7372 Yvette Tue, 19 Feb 2008 13:21:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=868#comment-7372 My progression went from oral to anal to vaginal.<br/><br/>Why anal before vaginal? Well, I was paranoid that condoms wouldn't be 'good enough' birth control. <br/><br/>Of course, oral was with one dude, but I wasn't ready for more penetrative with him anyway. Anal with the next guy I got involved with, which was a fuck-buddy deal. Vaginal with a third guy I got involved with (when I finally got on The Pill).<br/><br/>My first anal experience was wonderful! The second go-around, not so much. Though with my current partner, anal is once again bliss. My progression went from oral to anal to vaginal.

Why anal before vaginal? Well, I was paranoid that condoms wouldn’t be ‘good enough’ birth control.

Of course, oral was with one dude, but I wasn’t ready for more penetrative with him anyway. Anal with the next guy I got involved with, which was a fuck-buddy deal. Vaginal with a third guy I got involved with (when I finally got on The Pill).

My first anal experience was wonderful! The second go-around, not so much. Though with my current partner, anal is once again bliss.

]]> By: Nitin https://thesspot.org/2008/02/reader-question-the-right-time/comment-page-1/#comment-7371 Nitin Tue, 19 Feb 2008 07:43:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=868#comment-7371 well thats kinda.. nice.. i mean if hes gonna get it hes gonna do the anal first .. oral is the safe route.. but anal is the one.. i could say he lucky in some way to get some of that anal action that soon.. well thats kinda.. nice.. i mean if hes gonna get it hes gonna do the anal first .. oral is the safe route.. but anal is the one.. i could say he lucky in some way to get some of that anal action that soon..

]]> By: cuntstorm https://thesspot.org/2008/02/reader-question-the-right-time/comment-page-1/#comment-7370 cuntstorm Mon, 18 Feb 2008 20:35:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=868#comment-7370 i'm with shay on the "whoa! anal but not vaginal?" thing. a lot of people i've known who have gone that route have chosen it mostly because they'd been led to believe (through sex ed, media, etc.) that vaginal sex was some kind of pure holy grail, which it definitely feels like, but its also (at least for me) not really a biggie, something to be preserved. so whatever you choose to do, good luck! and have LOTS of fun! ;) i’m with shay on the “whoa! anal but not vaginal?” thing. a lot of people i’ve known who have gone that route have chosen it mostly because they’d been led to believe (through sex ed, media, etc.) that vaginal sex was some kind of pure holy grail, which it definitely feels like, but its also (at least for me) not really a biggie, something to be preserved. so whatever you choose to do, good luck! and have LOTS of fun! ;)

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