“I have a couple questions, when i masturbate and i have pre-cum i like the taste of it, my pre-cum is clear fluid instead of white thick fluid like my cum, but I’m scared to try the taste om my cum, is this normal?
and if its ok i have another question,
me and my friend, hang out a lot, and sometimes watch porn together (like all friends do haha), when we watch porn i want to masturbate, but my friend is there, but i want him to masturbate to, should i just whip out my dick next time we are watching porn, or should i ask him if its ok, or should i tell him I’m going to, or should i just keep it in my pants?“
Most people get curious about their own fluids at some point, so I’m not that surprised that you’ve tried tasting your pre-cum; but I also don’t think there’s anything wrong with you that you don’t want to try tasting your actual semen as well. Like you said, the two fluids are very different in appearance and the latter can be intimidating.
As for your second question, depending on how close you are with your friend, this could lead to a pretty uncomfortable moment – but that doesn’t mean you should necessarily avoid it – if things worked out, it could be awesome.
If it were me, I think I would just tell my friend that I was going to jerk off and give him a chance to protest if he had a problem with it. If he did freak out, I would play it off like I was just joking about jerking off and laugh it off. But if he didn’t seem to care, I would go for it.
Maybe he’s been wanting to jerk off too and just has been too shy to ask if you’d mind.
It’s not that uncommon for hetero guy friends to jerk off together while watching porn; in this case it’s parallel play (because you’re each doing your own thing) which doesn’t have to have any homoerotic undertones (unless you’re watching gay porn, I suppose).
Shay’s absolutely right. The sneaky joking-or-are-you-really approach is the way to go, given your friend’s reaction could be anywhere between eager and mortified. Though if he’s watching porn with you he can’t be THAT prudish.
A female friend once told me she’d been kept awake, not to mention very embarrased, by the girl in a bunk bed below her in a hostel dorm masturbating noisily and obviously…
The same-room jerkage is highly individual specific. If your friend is obviously not even “metro” and you can’t “read” people very well — you probably shouldn’t try it.
OK, if he sits directly in the seat beside you at a movie and he has ever cried in your presence over something like a breakup with a girl — you’re probably … maybe .. safe trying. Just be ready to abort quickly and have a cover joke handy in case there is freakage.
hey, if you’ll kiss a chick after a blowjob, then your’e pretty much there
as for the duo jerk’n, if you want to test the water, you can rub your jeans on the out side and see if he wiggs out. next time tell him that you’re going to take care of it in the bathroom. if he’s still cool then you can take it a step further.
but i think the real thing here is, why do you want to wax it with your buddy there? do you want him to watch?
also, if he’s regularly watching porn with you it might be something he’s into too. take it slow, test the waters.
just remember to respect your buddy, if he doesn’t want to watch you to try and push it, you might lose a friend.
Haha I don’t know what kinds of things Shay (a girl) has heard, but as a straight guy I’ll tell you it is NOT common for men to jerk off together.
If you both want to do that and it turns you on, that is fine and I have no problem with it. I bet it would be really hot if your friend agreed.
But it’s really not a hetero guy kind of standard request so beware before you try anything like that, you’d better know this person well and have some clue that they share an interest. Just recognize it is a sexual advance, just not very hands-on.
Dan – what’s humour for if not to test the waters on mutual masturbation – lol! ^_~ Aww your poor female friend, I can see how that would make a lot of people uncomfortable; I know it would annoy me if I was really tired and just wanted to sleep. But if I wasn’t sleepy… that could be kinda hot.
Gad – Lol you guys can be so weird! If you’re seeing a movie together, why shouldn’t you sit in seats next to each other? “courtesy seats” really piss me off in a packed theater because it makes it hard for me to sit with my group.
exile – haha you’re right, maybe more girls should snowballs their boyfriends. ^_~ I don’t think it’s so much that he wants his friend to watch, but maybe more that he just wants to jerk off when he watches porn, regardless of who’s in the room. But yeah, you gotta respect your friends.
Anon – Hey! Sure my knowledge on this particular subject might come from a text book, but it’s not like I pulled the idea from nowhere! I don’t think it’s necessarily a sexual advance on your friend when you ask if he’d mind you “fully” enjoying your porn.
That picture is so damn sexy. I get so turned on by trans-sexuals. I don’t know, I guess because I’m bi-curious and they have the best of both worlds!!
Shay- sorry, i gotta dissagree on this one. if a guy wants to watch porn and jerk off, he does it alone. if he does it in the same room as someone else, he wants them to watch. (it’s the way guys think)
As a guy, I agree with Anon. Jerking off with another guy in the room would be considered a sexual advance. Very dangerous, and I would recommend against it. Definitely not worth the risk. It’s probably written under “man law” somewhere in capital letters.
Unless, of course, they’re watching gay porn together. Then the sexual advance might be welcomed. But I’m a het, so I really don’t know for sure.