Comments on: Reader Question – Extra Skin and More Oral https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/ Fri, 03 Dec 2010 16:08:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Shay https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-7170 Shay Sun, 20 Jan 2008 19:52:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=840#comment-7170 Anon - yes, I've heard that too<br/><br/>Exile - lol "groomed to his liking" yet guys can get so pissed when we suggest that they groom<br/><br/>Gad - it should be written down somewhere... like on a stone plaque <br/><br/>WL - me too - look carefully, she's got his foreskin pulled down<br/><br/>Sem and Fire - thanks. yeah, this isn't the time/place where I'd like to get into discussions of female circumcision. <br/><br/>MsI - If only all men were okay with delegating tasks like that to the more willing.lol<br/><br/>Anon2 - exactly!<br/><br/>Fire - exactly, it doesn't matter what it looks like or how much skin it has, the guys it's attached to is even more important.<br/><br/>Anon3 - I don't know about warning potential partners about what your body parts look like; but maybe they had been discussing their appearance at length and he had left that part out. It is a pretty prominent feature when you're going to describe a penis. Anon – yes, I’ve heard that too

Exile – lol “groomed to his liking” yet guys can get so pissed when we suggest that they groom

Gad – it should be written down somewhere… like on a stone plaque

WL – me too – look carefully, she’s got his foreskin pulled down

Sem and Fire – thanks. yeah, this isn’t the time/place where I’d like to get into discussions of female circumcision.

MsI – If only all men were okay with delegating tasks like that to the more willing.lol

Anon2 – exactly!

Fire – exactly, it doesn’t matter what it looks like or how much skin it has, the guys it’s attached to is even more important.

Anon3 – I don’t know about warning potential partners about what your body parts look like; but maybe they had been discussing their appearance at length and he had left that part out. It is a pretty prominent feature when you’re going to describe a penis.

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-7166 Anonymous Sat, 19 Jan 2008 05:14:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=840#comment-7166 I find the implication that there is something embarrassing or shameful about an uncircumcised penis ("...he didn't tell me he was uncircumcised...") strange. Why should he have to warn her? Did she warn him ("Oh by the way honey, my vagina is unaltered...")?<br/><br/>Maybe I'm just a big fan of the uncut cock...<br/><br/><br/>Also, just by the way, female circumcision != FGM. I find the implication that there is something embarrassing or shameful about an uncircumcised penis (“…he didn’t tell me he was uncircumcised…”) strange. Why should he have to warn her? Did she warn him (“Oh by the way honey, my vagina is unaltered…”)?

Maybe I’m just a big fan of the uncut cock…

Also, just by the way, female circumcision != FGM.

]]> By: fireweaver https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-7153 fireweaver Wed, 16 Jan 2008 07:06:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=840#comment-7153 sem, i'm going to have to leave it for Shay to moderate, since i honestly don't think this is the spot for human-rights-violations discussions (and yeah, as "female circumcision" is practiced in the parts of the world it's done in, it qualifies). still saying, the way it's done, not the same thing at all. love my current bf's uncut bits just like i loved the previous one's cut bits...and they were fine with their respective equipment, too.<br/><br/>but, what i meant to say for the querier: cut, uncut; black, white, etc; whichever penis is attached to the guy who values your pleasure as much as his, whichever guy thinks you're just hottt (yeah, with 3T's and everything), THATs the penis you want to be working with. sem, i’m going to have to leave it for Shay to moderate, since i honestly don’t think this is the spot for human-rights-violations discussions (and yeah, as “female circumcision” is practiced in the parts of the world it’s done in, it qualifies). still saying, the way it’s done, not the same thing at all. love my current bf’s uncut bits just like i loved the previous one’s cut bits…and they were fine with their respective equipment, too.

but, what i meant to say for the querier: cut, uncut; black, white, etc; whichever penis is attached to the guy who values your pleasure as much as his, whichever guy thinks you’re just hottt (yeah, with 3T’s and everything), THATs the penis you want to be working with.

]]> By: Anonymous https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-7151 Anonymous Wed, 16 Jan 2008 03:24:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=840#comment-7151 If you don't give, you lose the expectation of getting. Sorry, that's the way it is. I like performing oral sex on both genders, so maybe I'm biased, but if someone is willing to pleasure you, you should be willing to return it. While no one should feel obligated to perform oral sex, you should neither expect it if you refuse to give! If you don’t give, you lose the expectation of getting. Sorry, that’s the way it is. I like performing oral sex on both genders, so maybe I’m biased, but if someone is willing to pleasure you, you should be willing to return it. While no one should feel obligated to perform oral sex, you should neither expect it if you refuse to give!

]]> By: Sem https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-7150 Sem Wed, 16 Jan 2008 02:24:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=840#comment-7150 Fireweaver,<br/><br/>Okay, let’s consider a less severe definition of female circumcision. Would it acceptable for parents to surgically remove the hood covering the clitoris on their infant daughter, resulting in her clitoris losing sensitivity as it rubs against fabric over time?<br/><br/>I just think it’s a shame that in our culture, a non-mutilated penis should be considered unattractive. Fireweaver,

Okay, let’s consider a less severe definition of female circumcision. Would it acceptable for parents to surgically remove the hood covering the clitoris on their infant daughter, resulting in her clitoris losing sensitivity as it rubs against fabric over time?

I just think it’s a shame that in our culture, a non-mutilated penis should be considered unattractive.

]]> By: fireweaver https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-7148 fireweaver Wed, 16 Jan 2008 01:44:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=840#comment-7148 careful, there, sem: female "circumcision", well, isn't. it's a whole 'nuther ballgame, and the 2 procedures aren't remotely comparable. i've met (and hey, even slept with) guys who could still orgasm perfectly fine, though they were circumcised...but the female procedure is specifically designed to remove a young woman's physical ability to enjoy sex.<br/><br/>and i'm with the rest of the people here: if he's not willing to give as well as receive, that's just no fun! careful, there, sem: female “circumcision”, well, isn’t. it’s a whole ‘nuther ballgame, and the 2 procedures aren’t remotely comparable. i’ve met (and hey, even slept with) guys who could still orgasm perfectly fine, though they were circumcised…but the female procedure is specifically designed to remove a young woman’s physical ability to enjoy sex.

and i’m with the rest of the people here: if he’s not willing to give as well as receive, that’s just no fun!

]]> By: Ms. Inconspicuous https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-7146 Ms. Inconspicuous Tue, 15 Jan 2008 07:11:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=840#comment-7146 I like the give-and-take rule--only give what you receive and vice versa. <br/><br/>Funny, some guys just don't like giving oral--and for every one of those, there are ten that LOVE it to the point of begging to do it. <br/><br/>My husband doesn't do oral. That's fine. I have another who will. *wink* I like the give-and-take rule–only give what you receive and vice versa.

Funny, some guys just don’t like giving oral–and for every one of those, there are ten that LOVE it to the point of begging to do it.

My husband doesn’t do oral. That’s fine. I have another who will. *wink*

]]> By: Sem https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-7145 Sem Tue, 15 Jan 2008 03:14:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=840#comment-7145 I always wonder why male circumcision is considered acceptable, but female circumcision isn't. Not that either one should be considered acceptable. I always wonder why male circumcision is considered acceptable, but female circumcision isn’t. Not that either one should be considered acceptable.

]]> By: The Wandering Lover https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-7144 The Wandering Lover Mon, 14 Jan 2008 23:01:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=840#comment-7144 I love the picture. I love the picture.

]]> By: Gadfly https://thesspot.org/2008/01/reader-question-extra-skin-and-more-oral/comment-page-1/#comment-7143 Gadfly Mon, 14 Jan 2008 20:15:00 +0000 https://thesspot.org/?p=840#comment-7143 If you don't give, you don't receive. That's the rule. If you don’t give, you don’t receive. That’s the rule.

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