Comments on: Reader Question – Is Being Small When Soft Bad?

By: Shay

Shay — Thu, 09 Aug 2007 06:20:00 +0000

SJ – That’s right ^_^

Matt – ?

Gad – to add to what hc said, I would like to direct you to this post: http://shayssexcolumn.blogspot.com/2006/02/is-this-sexy-post.html

ATLLG – haha nice story ^_~

Hc – thanks!

Mr. Cello – You know, I totally forget to suggest the trim job. I think it’s because I’m always assuming that people already know to trim. But you’re right, one can never assume anything – so thanks for bringing this up!

Anon1 – plus! having a small package when soft might keep it safer, which sounds good to me. PLUS, speaking as a girl, it looks TOTALLY cute all small like that. ^_^

Stevo – um yes, that is a very good point. ^_^

Anon2 – right, that’s what the audio clip talks about. And let’s not forget the overall general feeling of sexiness that can come from having a healthier body. ^_^

exile – I <3 the term “travel size”!

By: exile

exile — Thu, 09 Aug 2007 02:53:00 +0000

dude, as a guy let me tell you, your “travel size” doesn’t mean anything.

if you’re worried, only let her see it after she’s seen it “in action” that way you don’t have the fear of a giggle or two
(fyi, experienced girls know that things grow)

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 08 Aug 2007 23:31:00 +0000

When you lose weight, your penis doesn’t actually grow more. It’s just that more of what’s already there is revealed–you’re losing fat all over your body, including the pad at the base of the penis’s shaft.

Another benefit to weight loss would be the likely increase in testosterone associated with fat loss and muscle gain.

By: Stevo

Stevo — Wed, 08 Aug 2007 09:24:00 +0000

Many of my female friends that have been with men of proportional sizes all agree that size has little to do with pleasing the woman. In the end, you're wanting to please the woman, no?

In terms of sword-fighting; the way the sword was made factors little into the outcome of the battle. What matters is how one wields it. One who brandishes an ax can be brought down by the one who is a master of the short-bladed daggers.

In the long run, size does help, but *only* if you know how to use it correctly. The axeman was brought down because he relied on strength instead of precision.

If you aim to please her, focus on that and you yourself will be pleased.

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 21:20:00 +0000

I’m a thinner guy with a dick that’s pretty small when it’s soft, but has a lot of girth when it gets big and u kno what….I LOVE IT?

Why? Nothing better than that type of surprise for your woman. Size does matter, dont get me wrong. But I know from experience that the foreplay, the motion, and the pure passion you exude during sex can make up for any short-cummings you might think you have (Well, almost). Because in the end it’s really about confidence…again this is just my experience. Ladies? Agree/disagree?

By: Mr. Cellophane

Mr. Cellophane — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 13:25:00 +0000

I’m all for fitness – healthy is hot, but another (faster) way to help with appearance of magnitude is to shave/trim pubic hair. Bushy pubes can hide a good chunk of penis from view.

Trimming’s also courteous for those moments when she’s “oralizing between your thighs” as Monty Python would have it.

But as sj said, it probably won’t matter much during the honeymoon. You’ll be asking how to get it flaccid again.

By: Gadfly

Gadfly — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 04:47:00 +0000

hc: Now that you mention it… I can see how the architecture would function that way. Interesting.

By: hc573

hc573 — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 03:39:00 +0000

Cutting that ligament will cause your penis to lose it’s upward direction when erect. Surgery can have complications too, not something I’d do to my penis.

I doubt it will help much when flaccid either, some guys just shrink more than others.

By: ATLLG

ATLLG — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 23:28:00 +0000

Just to add, speaking from experience a bit and word of mouth, take the advice and drop the pounds. I not sure that I had “growth” as explained but I had more vigor and it was appreicated by both parties. Also had a friend that tried to get his wife pregnant. No worky. Lost about big weight ( he was a big guy ) and about a month later, bingo, bango, prego.

Best of luck!

By: Gadfly

Gadfly — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 20:50:00 +0000

There’s a surgery that cuts a suspensor ligament that will let it hang lower when limp and, supposedly, doesn’t influence its rigid behavior.

Seems a touch invasive for my tastes.