I had a conversation over IM with squiffy the other day:
squiffy: Did I tell you about a movie I watched over the weekend? each guy has his cum spit back into his own mouth at the end of the scene
me: wow!
squiffy: kinda different, right
me: yeah, would you enjoy that?
squiffy: i think i would i mean, i love being able to taste myself on my partner when we are together the same way i would hope my partner were to feel about tasting themselves on me i know, i know … i’m a strange one
me: haha no that’s not strange :)
squiffy: oh come on, seven out of ten people would say it is strange
me: really?
So, what about you?
As a man with a working penis, would you be interested in having your partner spit your own cum back into your mouth?
And partners of men, would you be interested in doing it?
Why or why not?
^_~
Thats a tough one. I think I might not mind if she was a kinky kind of gal… alass she is not. I know that I dont mind going down on her after I have cum in her so I suppose by extension that would imply that I would be ok with it.
my partner would say no way
he will go down on you after he comes in you but he sorta waits for the sperm to depart before he gets anywhere near an opening with his mouth…
to each their own methinks
I’ve tasted plenty of my own cum on her lips and her pussy but never actually had a mouthful of it. The idea doesn’t turn me on but doesn’t turn me off either. I don’t think I’d mind doing it if it turned her on but it does nothing for me.
I’ve learned recently that many submissive men enjoy drinking their own cum. I can’t tell if it’s because they really enjoy it (the taste, the idea of it) or if they don’t really enjoy it, but find it humiliating, which is exciting. Or some other thing I haven’t thought of.
Is that off topic? A little, maybe.
If my guy wanted to drink his own cum from my mouth I’d do it. It wouldn’t excite me particularly, but if it was something that got him off, I’d do it for him.
Eve
Not sure I would want anything ‘spit’ into my mouth…swapping spit, et. al., sure, why not!!
Sure, why not? She always kisses me after I’ve went down on her….
I don’t see any reason not. My wife is willing to swallow it then I should be more then happy to kiss her afterwords. And like others that have replied I have also gone down on her after I came inside her to finish her off.
Personally, I’ve always wanted to do it, but I never know how to bring it up to my boyfriend and I just don’t want to, y’know… do it.
Writing the erotica I do…especially now, with a site at least partially devoted to it…what I have come to write about as ‘normal’ for my characters has become ‘normal’ for me. Or maybe it’s the other way around! In any case, why not? What’s more sexy than ‘sharing’ in this way? (Well, feasting on creampies is right up there…) So I guess this grants me the right to turn my nose up at women who spit…because the answer to the usual riposte ‘Don’t ask me to do something you wouldn’t do!’ is ‘Well, actually, I do!’ (The barrier was broken through as a regular masturbator; much more convenient to be able to ‘dipose’ of ejaculate by simply licking it off your hands than having to reach for the Kleenex, the paper towel, the spare sock…!)
Men don’t usually ‘appreciate’ much of what comes out of a body, be it their own cum or their partner’s menstruation. We’re a strange bunch, aren’t we? : )
In the early days of our marriage, Jen and I “Snowballed” my spunk after a blow job. It was great and I would gladly do it again.
Ken
not only would i be against it i would probably hit her in the eye if she did it!
shes got to gargle with kerosene before i’ll even kiss her. But then in my defense i could care less if she takes in her mouth or swallows or whatever, I also am all for going down on her after intercourse but definately not if I came in her.
js
NO!!!!!!!!!!!
I have made it through half of my life without knowing what semen tastes like. I’m prepared to go the rest of the way with that bit of ignorance preserved.
In fact, if I cum in a woman’s mouth, she needs to have a sip of something before kissing me.
Strangely, I think it is hot as hell when a woman sucks her juice from my fingers or from my lips. Totally smoking hot. Go figure O_o
I didn’t know I liked it until I tried it. After a wonderfully long night of delicious sex, I tasted myself in my wife’s mouth and it really turned me on. I now regularly take responsibility for using my tongue to clean up the mess I leave between her legs. Who knew?
Um…to have that happen, I’d have to get a blowjob first, right?
I’m afraid that’s off limits territory for my wife…
Snowballing is not for me. After going down on my wife and ending up with a mouthful of her juices, neither of us would enjoy me spitting this into her mouth. I either swallow it or spit into a tissue. If anything, my wife won’t take my load in her mouth so really she doesn’t spit or swallow! There’s the double standard!
OK, I had my comment all figured out on this but then I read “shes got to gargle with kerosene before i’ll even kiss her”
Whoa. Dude. She puts your junk in HER mouth. I’m just saying …
Anyway, I was just going to write about licking my husband off after he’s been inside me. Not quite the same topic, but close. So off I go!
I actually used this article to bring the subject up to my boyfriend and he’s all for it, as long as I warn him that I’m going to do it beforehand. So… thank you Shay for facilitating a new experience in my sex life! I probably would have beat around the bush about it for months before anything like this came up were it not for you!
? has never spit my cum back in my mouth, but we usually neck after she gives me head and she often insists that i lick her clean after i fuck her. i think of it as a submissive kind of thing.
it’s hot.
cheers,
sss
Had an ex-girlfriend surprise me with it once. It was totally hot and it still comes back into my memory bank every now and then. Wish my wife would do the same, but she’s way to conservative to open the discussion.
I’m not sure about the spitting, but I’d love to share sperm via a kiss.
uh…no thanks. And yes, to the majority of people that are not readers of sex blogs (which is most people in the world) this would seem a strange practice. Sorry, but true.
ha!
i fingerd i was in the minority but the truth is the truth. Obviously the kerosene was a streatch but i wanted to make a point. I have never tasted my own cum and wont if i can help it. It doesnt bother me any if she doesnt want to kiss me after i go down her and I have been with several chicks that felt that way. Anyway
I knew id get that reaction from someone. And for the record i did say IDGAF if she takes the money shot in her pie hole.
js
I don’t love the taste but my wife gets off on it so we do it once in a while. What I really like is cream pies because both of our juices get mixed together and that is wonderful.
after all the work i put into getting rid of it, why would i want it back?
It’s not a big thing for me, spiting itself isn’t a huge turn on most of the time. I don’t much care about where my cum goes, but the act of spiting is normally a bit awkward, (though totally understood reaction)… me, I love swallowing a loving partners cum… random sex I tend to spit it out. Would I mind it being put into my mouth? …that’s where it goes when i’m by myself (I love myself more than almost any partner) if a partner wants to, i’m cool. If they want me to share their load with them? They’ll have to ask nice, i’m greedy.
Well ya, I wouldn’t want her to spit it into my mouth so much as just pass it to me with a good kiss. That whole spitting on each other thing is a real turn off for me.
Shay,
This is something that I’ve been craving lately. I have no problem with my own cum, and have been craving a snowball/hard cum kiss/etc for a while.
I find the idea erotic, very passionate. And I think it’s quite “fair” in the grand scheme of sexual variations.
As always, fabulous topics and exchanges.
Hmm. I’m a big fan of kissing my partners after they’ve come in my mouth, but I like to swallow so much that generally they only get the residue.
Obviously I’m going to have to ask them what they think of the snowballing concept – it might be cool to try.
xx Dee
I wouldn’t mind I wouldn’t mind at all :)
One girl I dated would do it every once in a while, the first time I think it was a complete surprise but after that she did it because she knew I liked it. The girl I’m with now doesn’t like to swallow (something about being “scared” to? I haven’t quite figured it out), but her getting up to run to the bathroom to spit it out is kind of a mood-killer or interrupter, so I told her I’d swallow it for her.
i jerk off thinking about this a lot but when the time comes after i cum i back out and don’t want to. i’ve tasted a little off her tongue before but that’s it
Wow, I have to tell you all what you are missing. It’s so erotic for a guy to eat his own cum. I had shared with my wife that I wanted to see her with another man and wanted to go down on her after he had cum in her. She was taken back at first until we were out parting one night and she asked me if she could sleep with the owner of the bar that night. I said yes if I could watch. We ended up having a 5 way which was way more than I had bargained for. Anyway, we had another threesome with the bar owner and her came on my wife’s chest that night. When he got up to go to the bathroom, I lapped up his cum from my wife’s breast and she was totally turned on. From then on, she’d straddle my face after I came in her or would snowball me. She doesn’t particularly like the taste of cum but I do. I’ve even cum directly into my mouth while masturbating. I don’t expect to change anyone’s opinion about this, just share that there is a guy out there who enjoys the taste of his own cum.
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love it!!!
For almost 20 years I’d occasionally tell my girlfriend-now-wife, when she was going down on me, to come back up and kiss me with a mouth full after I came. Every single time, though, my sexual intensity would sort of subside as soon as I came, and when she’d start moving up to kiss me, I’d say “never mind”, and she’d swallow and laugh. It became a joke with us because it happened maybe 50 times.
Then a few months ago, I was jacking off and decided to eat it — and it turned me on. So I asked my wife again and said I thought I was really going to do it — and we did. She shared a big load of cum with me and it was friggin’ wonderful. It’s not a submission thing, just a “damn sex is wonderful!” wide-open-mind kind of thing, adding taste to all the other sensations.
Now I wish she’d do it more often, but she’s discovered she actually has a hard time holding very much in her mouth without gagging. So, I get more of a taste than a mouthful, which is great but not perfect.
I’m even to the point now where I think I’d snowball another guy’s cum if I could get her to go for that!
Hell yes!! We both love it. We’ve shared it many times, via either a snowball or creampie. Drives her nuts. She’d LOVE to see me with another guy. If we find the right one, she’ll get her wish
ok sorry shay… usually i read all the comments and somtimes post but im just too tired for now… im sure ive read them before anyways… well i got my first BJ =P =D afterwards she swallowed and i tilted her chin up and kissed her gave her a nice french… i have to say ive tasted myself before ehh too salty for my taste… well when i kissed her i did taste a bit of me on her and i didnt mind nor notice it much… anyways.. i got to this page again from your post on swallowing or spitting and id thought id throw my 2cents in… >sorry for any misspellings, i never was any good at it lol<