“My fiance loves giving and receiving oral but for the past yr or so i haven’t given him a blow job because his cum tastes really salty and i also tend to make a sloppy (droolish) mess and i dunno how to not make a mess, this is why i don’t do them anymore I’d love to mainly because he’s stopped giving me oral which is my favourite thing ever!“
I have good news for you, one of your problems will help solve the other!
A lot of people don’t really like the taste of cum, some people can find it bitter and/or salty, or may feel that it has an icky texture, etc.
But this doesn’t have to stop you from giving blow jobs to your partner – just skip the part you don’t like at the end. And I don’t mean the awkward “here hunny, finish yourself off into a cup” a la American Pie.
Here’s where your second problem comes into play – starting with a messy, slobbery blow means that you can finish him off with a well lubricated hand job. Use all that drool to your advantage!
While you suck him, keep a hand below your mouth, wrapped around his shaft, pumping up and down with your mouth. Your hand will catch most of the spit and when your mouth gets tired and/or when he warns you that he’s getting close, take your mouth off and keep going with your hand(s).
It’s a nearly seamless transition, which will make your boy happy as he shoots his load all over your hands without any loss of sensation or momentum. You can have him tell you whether he wants you to use two hands or just one, how fast, how hard to squeeze, etc.
If he’s really not keen on the idea of you finishing him by hand (foolish boy) offer to let him cum on your cheeks rather than in your mouth, this will still save you from having to taste his cum and the kinky-ness might be really exciting for both of you. (Though it certainly won’t make the experience any less messy for you.)
Failing this, try to make sure that his cock head is at the very back of your tongue and start swallowing just before so that when he cums it just goes straight down your throat instead of all over your mouth.
And now that you’ve (hopefully) found a way to reciprocate, you won’t have to feel guilty when you ask him to start giving you oral again too (more on that HERE and HERE).
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Silly guy. Just because you stop getting doesn’t mean you stop giving. Good advice Shay. Sound like you’re an expert. ;)
In my opinion, the majority of bad blowjobs are actually a result of not using enough saliva to begin with. If you look at the adult industry (which should always be used for sex advice, but is applicable in this case) every time there is a blowjob scene it is wet and messy. Using your hands as an extension of your mouth will also help you add to the sensations your partner feels. Don’t get caught up with the whole “deep throat” thing; I think it’s a bit overrated. As a huge fan of seeing my own cum on my partner, your mouth-to-hand-to-cheek suggestion is a great one Shay.
No kidding I wish my girl would be a bit messier with the blowjobs. She is getting better though. A sloppy one feels the best because all the saliva acts like a lube.
Hi, for the salty taste, check his diet for onions/garlic. You may also try having him cum a bit before hand, sometimes the second load isn’t as salty.
Honestly if you are worried about getting messy, you probably aren’t very horny. Try giving him a blowjob before you get off while you’re still turned on sometime. Those are actually the best anyway.
Another option for dealing with the mess is doing it in the shower.
I agree with hc573 about the shower. However, I’d like to add that both showers and jacuzzi style baths are good for both the guys and the girls.